itsverynice
Active member
Lets talk from different angle. I have a question for Married ldies. What attracted your husbands to you? What did you bring to the table?
I was told that it was kindness, generosity, great education and high career achievements, wit, positivity, and traditional values. He said he thinks I'm a genius but he loves that I let him shine (true alpha) in social settings, then when I'm left alone with his associates, I can hold a conversation, charm and make them all laugh. I'm a lion rising so it just comes very naturally to me. I don't have the model looks or figure at all, I think I'm pretty and I'm happy with my looks but I'm not a stunning beauty or drop-dead gorgeous.
By the way, the feminine part is an inner charisma and that simply shines through. It's about being compassionate, finding pleasure and beauty in the smallest things in life, being playful, nurturing, and supportive. All the small subtle details that fascinate a masculine man.
To be honest, I was very much influenced by AB blog 5-7 years ago because I found it while looking for fashion ideas, since I was going through a transition of wearing trendy clothing towards a more refined, classy style. The monochrome outfits I saw blew my mind lol. It was a good pointer for my further style exploration.
BUT for the first few months, my SO didn't even see me in dresses and heels as I didn't care so much to impress someone at that (quite challenging) point in my life. All I wore to our dates were plain jeans and black cotton tops I think!