umm a mixture of things. I came from a very deprived background, where I wasn’t taught common sense, class, social and emotional skills, healthy relationships, basic hygiene, how to dress, how to look after myself and I ended up in a lot of abusive relationships. I didn’t want any of that for my children so therefore I’ve been trying to improve myself to improve my children’s chances and of course would love to find a man who will love and cherish me, provide and protect, but I have always attracted unhealthy abusive narcissists and had to ask myself why I was attracting them and figured I needed to change myself to attract normal decent men instead. I’m not interested in a millionaire lifestyle, designer items etc, just safety and security with a genuine man. I’m more interested in intelligence, personality, hobbies, self sufficient lifestyle off grid, than money holidays etc . The problem is, I’ve learnt no matter how you look, no matter how you dress, the most important and attractive thing is your mind, how you treat yourself and how you treat others. That’s the hard part. I found Anna and followed as I wanted to learn skills in how to attract a better man.