Anna Bey #35 The Elegant Stylist: Undersmelling the scam, the school is over, what's her next plan?

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10 Things Elegant People NEVER!!! Do
1. Being rude or snarky to another person (something Anna herself religiously follows herself)
2. Pushing your plate away after eating
3. Bringing your coat to the table at a restaurant and draping it over the chair. Anna says you should always go to the cloakroom - well what if there isn't one and the host doesn't offer to take your coat? She makes fun of Anna Wintour for sitting ON her coat while seated next to the Queen at a fashion show

Ad for levelupsecret.com, featuring an amusing clip of herself on Paradise Hotel, where she ran through a door onto a balcony but was so drunk she fell over backwards into the room and dropped her glass

4. Going to the toilet before or after the first course at a restaurant. If you have a "little emergency" you can go right before dessert, but ideally you should wait until the entire meal is finished. Also, just say "excuse me", not "I'm going to the restroom / lavatory" or worst of all, TOILET (a dreadfully vulgar word.) She tells a "funny story" about a friend on a group date (read: escort date) in a restaurant, whose date excused himself and didn't resurface, another guy in the group went in after him and discovered he had sneaked away to watch a football match on his phone. Ha ha ha?
5. Speaking loudly on the phone in public
6. Staring at people
7. Chewing gum in public. David Beckham did this elegance mistake at Prince Harry's wedding!
8. Showing the soles of your shoes when you sit down, which is considered rude or threatening in some cultures
9. Giving a lengthy explanation when you decline a social invitation
10. Carrying a large handbag at night
 
witchofwestbyfleet said:
10 Things Elegant People NEVER!!! Do
1. Being rude or snarky to another person (something Anna herself religiously follows herself)
2. Pushing your plate away after eating
3. Bringing your coat to the table at a restaurant and draping it over the chair. Anna says you should always go to the cloakroom - well what if there isn't one and the host doesn't offer to take your coat? She makes fun of Anna Wintour for sitting ON her coat while seated next to the Queen at a fashion show

Ad for levelupsecret.com, featuring an amusing clip of herself on Paradise Hotel, where she ran through a door onto a balcony but was so drunk she fell over backwards into the room and dropped her glass

4. Going to the toilet before or after the first course at a restaurant. If you have a "little emergency" you can go right before dessert, but ideally you should wait until the entire meal is finished. Also, just say "excuse me", not "I'm going to the restroom / lavatory" or worst of all, TOILET (a dreadfully vulgar word.) She tells a "funny story" about a friend on a group date (read: escort date) in a restaurant, whose date excused himself and didn't resurface, another guy in the group went in after him and discovered he had sneaked away to watch a football match on his phone. Ha ha ha?
5. Speaking loudly on the phone in public
6. Staring at people
7. Chewing gum in public. David Beckham did this elegance mistake at Prince Harry's wedding!
8. Showing the soles of your shoes when you sit down, which is considered rude or threatening in some cultures
9. Giving a lengthy explanation when you decline a social invitation
10. Carrying a large handbag at night
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I’m beyond tired of her recycled content by now. She never evolved as a creator, always the same sh…
 
I actually has bumped into her channel recently, and I like it - not because of the message she is providing, but I find it to be extremely well done (the texts, articulation, she is really a good presenter). I actually think she is quite smart. This kind of topic and message was a risky choice in the current day or age, it could be unpopular, yet, it came out to be provocative and, as an opposite to the 'equality' we are used to now in many places, people started to show interest to the content with a completely opposite meassage - that now looks rebellious yet was quite normal in the past (let's remember some old Hollywood movies and their plots). I actually think she is more than average smart, but will read this thread to learn more.


vio said:
Yeah I know. She talks so much about elegance, but then she gets drunk at a night club? Doesnt seem very elegant to me. I doubt her idol Kate Middleton would be caught dead doing that.



I heard that Anna stole her idea for her school from two black women so it doesnt surprise me that she is very white-centric. Her favourite show is sex and the city. I mean, how heteronormative can you get? Im a straight cis white woman, but even I find Annas lessons really narrow and silly. It is as if a woman's entire goal and purpose in life is to marry a rich man. It is very old fashioned, like grandma or great grandma-old. Not even mom-era. The problem is that her version of elegance seems to be tied to her appearance and being subservient. It also seems like her version of elegance does not include being a parent. The fact that she just keeps pushing white clothing is beyond. White clothing isn't compatible with a working, everyday woman (or man). Some of us want to speak our minds, get promotions, rise up the corporate ladder, become doctors, have kids. There is more that women want to do besides pose with mini Kellys, go to the opera, and eat out at restaurants with tablecloths. There is more to life than just social events and vacations. Some of us want meaningful work and to actually achieve something that has NOTHING to do with our looks. And yet, her definition of "levelling up" is restricted solely to focusing on your appearance so that you can bag a rich man who will take you into "high society". She uses these buzz words so much, that she has literally tricked a million people into subscribing to her. She isn't even in high society herself. Someone here pointed out that she follows a bunch of socialites on her insta, but none of them even follow her back.

It is so degrading that I am surprised anyone watches this channel. My only guess is that it is filled with a lot of hard working women who day dream of being taken care of by a man who already has money.
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Tara96 said:
I actually has bumped into her channel recently, and I like it - not because of the message she is providing, but I find it to be extremely well done (the texts, articulation, she is really a good presenter). I actually think she is quite smart. This kind of topic and message was a risky choice in the current day or age, it could be unpopular, yet, it came out to be provocative and, as an opposite to the 'equality' we are used to now in many places, people started to show interest to the content with a completely opposite meassage - that now looks rebellious yet was quite normal in the past (let's remember some old Hollywood movies and their plots). I actually think she is more than average smart, but will read this thread to learn more.
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It may seam so if you are young or not experienced. I’m a bit older than Aija, didn’t have a good upbringing and learned it a hard way. If you have a good reference point you immediately see through her and realize that it’s all smoke and mirrors. It’s good that one wants to better them selves but most of her teachings involve questionable choices and puts young girls in very risky situations. She is talking about marrying rich, men bringing you to and from a date, not getting a proper education etc. She is not mentioning the basics about security.
Read the treads and wiki. There have been a bunch of girls who are middle to upper class and everyone was giggling about how wrong perception she has about the “rich elite” and what are her giveaways. She is very middle class not even upper middle class. And this is what I hate about her- she is like a snake-oil seller. Promising young and desperate women everything but at the end they will be lucky if they get away safe (and not being trafficked, raped, robbed and what not) just less the money they gave to this “teacher”.
Plus if you speak at least one other language besides your mother tongue at a good level, the word salad she is putting out is hurting your eyes/ears.
 
Pasha said:
There have been a bunch of girls who are middle to upper class and everyone was giggling about how wrong perception she has about the “rich elite” and what are her giveaways. She is very middle class not even upper middle class.
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This! 👏
I know that from time to time Anna's fans or people that recently bought her scam land here on Tattle and may think: "well, but her advice is not that bad! I feel it has been helping me!" - if that's the case of any of you reading, I think you could keep the "good advice" but read ALL the previous Tattle threads and start having a degree of suspicion here.

Anna sometimes offers what seems like good advice mixed with DANGEROUS bad advice.

Example.

Ironing your clothes, grooming yourself and buying linen stuff? Yeah, that's ok 🙏 I would be saddened to hear that you were not doing those things before finding Anna.
Recognising that you were probably depressed / not taking care of yourself it's the first step to recognise that you are on a vulnerable position, where scammers like Anna would take advantage of you.

Dangerous advice is making girls think that going by yourself or with random people you met on her App to a Polo event could land you on bagging a billionaire. That's just delusional and if anything, hanging around hotel lobbies sends ALL the wrongs messages to men out there.
That's plain and simple: escort behaviour.

She sells that has important information about "the elite" - she's never surrounded by any elite at all, I would even go as a far to say that she's not surrounded by ANYONE.

We could go back a million times on the basics on how to look better and "fit" into certain social circles, but I promise tha doesn't means avoiding brands as Zara or spending all your savings on Hermesas.

Have you learnt a second language? Do you go to the gym? Do you know how to cook?

I agree 100% that in 2022 it's quite bold to distinguish that men/woman are different and that some woman may want to be housewives.

How does it fit being a housewive without taking care of your body/skin and not cooking for your husband/family AT ALL?

I would expect Anna adressing this in a few days/weeks from now as she's glued to Tattle. As usual, she will address this with some lame advice because she has no anchor on real life at all.
 
This woman looks a bit like Jessica Alves.
Too much fillers.
 

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Vinglas said:
Look at here latest stories. It's not the same horse she is riding as the one she films on the field. The one one the field is Misty, why she not riding her "own" horse.
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She sold her Misty or never had it in the first place (my money's on she never owned it). She got triggered at me (and others) for laughing at the disappearing Misty. We will see a man's hand or some other body parts pretending to be Mr Hallit soon ;)

Vueve Clicquot01 said:
The human ken doll! Lol 😂
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simply put - a MILF.
 
Tara96 said:
I actually has bumped into her channel recently, and I like it - not because of the message she is providing, but I find it to be extremely well done (the texts, articulation, she is really a good presenter). I actually think she is quite smart. This kind of topic and message was a risky choice in the current day or age, it could be unpopular, yet, it came out to be provocative and, as an opposite to the 'equality' we are used to now in many places, people started to show interest to the content with a completely opposite meassage - that now looks rebellious yet was quite normal in the past (let's remember some old Hollywood movies and their plots). I actually think she is more than average smart, but will read this thread to learn more.
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Anna, is that you?!
 
tacokitten said:
I think she's afraid to ride Misty (at least on a trail ride) because she overhorsed 😑 and she knows it.
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Exactly! And, apparently Misty’s “horse summer training camp” wasn’t very successful. She’s way too much horse for Anna. But, Anna should consider lessons so she can catch up to the horse’s level. Unfortunately, she’s got a long way to go what with her horrible form and all.
 
Guys, just a technical stuff - seing that there are mostly new or lurking members now - even though I am a bit completely bored with “Anna Bey” and read only occasionaly here (as I prefer rather some other influencers and the Royal Family topics on tattle), I wonder - is there anyone ready to do so by 1000th post here? (It is recommened by 1000 posts per thread and we have now approx 950).

I might create a new one (as I did a couple of them in past), but we also need a good new thread name I could use. Preferably a catchy searchable phrase. Also, if we have a summary of this thread, that would be great (or else I just copy paste what I see and is relevant). To sum up: if there is anyone ready to take a lead here with a nice new name thread and create it, you are welcome, otherwise it might be quite boring.
 
I am convinced she never hires anyone as ‘assistant’ etc when she posts job listings. I am also convinced she writes the ‘assistant’ emails herself, probably books hotels and reservations through her ‘assistant’ but it’s her. What she does online is very basic and does not take much hours. Most of what she does (posting to Instagram and writing newsletter) can easily be done from the spa, side of pool or even just in bed. That plus 1 YouTube video every week or so.
 
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