Anna Bey #25 Lonesome in Paris & Return of the A-List, please put her on a no-fly list!

[laurensanchez]

I have met quite a few wealthy men, unfortunately the thing they all had in common was horrible treatment of women. They were all “busy”, unavailable and narcissistic. The emiratis were the worst.

in hindsight it was abuse but I didn’t see it as that. The way they spoke of women (ex wives etc) was disturbing to say the least.

I think rudeness in wealthy men is tolerated more, because at least you can go and cry in comfort

in any case, I won’t allow anyone to treat my badly anymore. Manners, turning up when you say you will & following through are basic things.

do you think they are rude / ungrateful/ dismissive because they know it will be tolerated ?

I think a lot of them are, depending on who you are to them. If they know you can be bought, they will treat you like what you are: an item. A lot of them have very little time, and even less patience and tact. It's not all a bed of roses when you date them. You have to give up your own life to fit around their schedule. You have to accommodate them in every way. Of course there are exceptions, especially if they really love you or they know you are your own strong woman. Then they can be very easily manipulated into being your little mouse, haha. But honestly I would not wish the life of a rich man's partner on everyone.

Mentally you must be strong or the lifestyle will break you. Look at a recent high profile example: Prince Harry. He seems awfully nice, but look at what his wife has gone through even though she got her prince? It is no fairytale ending. Give me a lowkey Slightly Above Average Joe any day over riches and fame.

@Bastine what kills me is, sure. Get a traditional man. But she has no feminine qualities to match! If you want yin/yang, then you should be a graceful, soft flower to the man. She even joked about not knowing how to operate a Nespresso machine. Is this a good investment for a wealthy man? A woman who cannot run a household? Her masculine energy jumps out the screen when you view her videos.

 

[Crazy_chick]

@Bastine de Beaumanoir he was brutal he said the ugly bitter true. I’m going to leave him

 

[AndNowImHere]

do you think they are rude / ungrateful/ dismissive because they know it will be tolerated ?

Yes, no one dares or cares.
Beides there will be more than enough women still willing to cling to them, since they have
So they won't have any aspiration to change.

by JetsetBabe / 89mo
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Have you ever had some deep talk with a rich man?

If yes, Why do they always run the same “poor me it’s not easy to be rich” stories?

It annoys the hell out of me I must say. One popular line seems to be:
“It’s so hard to find genuine people these days, especially girls who are not only after your money or who you are”.

bla bla bla…

I totally understand that this must be frustrating for guys who really are interested in meeting down to earth girls and build a normal life, with normal friends without all the show off.

But why I’m getting annoyed is that I always hear this particular phrase from guys who are:
1) Big show offs themselves
2) Dress/Act like they got the big bucks
3) Hang out only in places or with people of this kind.
I’m sorry, but in this circumstances I find it hard to believe this “cry me a river story” and that they want to be seen for who they really are and not what they have.
Such double faces, makes me sick! Grow up guys and come back to earth yourselves please!

- Anna Bey, master of doublethink and doublespeak

 

[AnnaBeg]

@AndNowImHere I think there are plenty of lawyers who are willing to work pro bono when it comes to our Rat.She should be worried about IVP and breach of confidentiality. She left enough of digital footprints all over internet. I'm quite sure that Tattlers would make crowdfunding campaign against her.Since Aija is huge fan of Sex and city doesn't she remember episode where Carrie I think said something about knowing B-list most important people.Security guards,bartenders etc.In my 20is I used those acquaintances to get into VIP departments of clubs,free entry,invitations,etc.

 

[Bastine de Beaumanoir]

@Bastine what kills me is, sure. Get a traditional man. But she has no feminine qualities to match! If you want yin/yang, then you should be a graceful, soft flower to the man. She even joked about not knowing how to operate a Nespresso machine. Is this a good investment for a wealthy man? A woman who cannot run a household? Her masculine energy jumps out the screen when you view her videos.

Yes, I saw the Nespresso video when you ladies put it on Tattle ! And I said to myself : Wow, this woman must be insane. First, insane to not know how to make a basic coffee with a basic capsule that basically one only has to put in that basic machine. And to make a video of it. Second, insane to try to convince us that she has a man in her life when she is not even capable to do a coffee or a tea or whatever. Even the most affluent woman surrounded by big staff knows how to prepare a simple coffee for herself. Actually, the more wealthy the woman is, the more expert she is in the domain of housekeeping. There is no such excuse like "but I don't drink coffee". Maybe the husband does, maybe your friends or your husband's friends do. Oh, wait, I am saying silly things : what husband, what friends, what husband's friends? This supposes a real house where people meet each other and a woman supposed to put some liquid in their recipients (water goblins?).

@Bastine de Beaumanoir he was brutal he said the ugly bitter true. I’m going to leave him

Yes, he was. And we love him. Somebody must put a link to TATTLE in his "comments" : grateful Tattle. But let's wait and see what will be her excuse for leaving her "strong, masculine" Pisa Tower. "He tried to utilize me" ; "He doesn't want children", blah, blahn blah. Girls, any idea for her? Let's help her to have a clean face, after all we are responsible for this mess. Her scam didn't work because of us, have a little bit of feminine solidarity.

 

[AndNowImHere]

@AndNowImHere I think there are plenty of lawyers who are willing to work pro bono when it comes to our Rat.She should be worried about IVP and breach of confidentiality. She left enough of digital footprints all over internet. I'm quite sure that Tattlers would make crowdfunding campaign against her.

I don't know what she spouted when it comes to her time visiting IVP, but her even disclosing the location of a hotel safe ...
I am convinced that right now Anna has more pressing matters than the IVP coming at her to worry about. I bet that @Bastine de Beaumanoir could give you a more detailed description about the legal formalities regarding the IVP

That would be an interesting campaign for sure Anna upset a lot of people and I see it money-wise happening, but on the contrary no one wants to be associated with her and her scamming.
Imagine coming from someone "And how did you, my righteous angel, came in contact with this toxic liar? In what circles do you move, my dear, to be associated with her?"

 

[NicePeasNorma]

I think a lot of them are, depending on who you are to them. If they know you can be bought, they will treat you like what you are: an item. A lot of them have very little time, and even less patience and tact. It's not all a bed of roses when you date them. You have to give up your own life to fit around their schedule. You have to accommodate them in every way. Of course there are exceptions, especially if they really love you or they know you are your own strong woman.

Unfortunately, I learned this the half way . However, that experience made something click in my mind and realise that I had some unsolved personal problems and needed a change in my life.

(That sort of attitude may not be just a rich man thing, though.)

 

[laurensanchez]

Yes, I saw the Nespresso video when you ladies put it on Tattle ! And I said to myself : Wow, this woman must be insane. First, insane to not know how to make a basic coffee with a basic capsule that basically one only has to put in that basic machine. And to make a video of it. Second, insane to try to convince us that she has a man in her life when she is not even capable to do a coffee or a tea or whatever. Even the most affluent woman surrounded by big staff knows how to prepare a simple coffee for herself. Actually, the more wealthy the woman is, the more expert she is in the domain of housekeeping. There is no such excuse like "but I don't drink coffee". Maybe the husband does, maybe your friends or your husband's friends do. Oh, wait, I am saying silly things : what husband, what friends, what husband's friends? This supposes a real house where people meet each other and a woman supposed to put some liquid in their recipients (water goblins?).



Yes, he was. And we love him. Somebody must put a link to TATTLE on his comments. But let's wait and see what will be her excuse for leaving her "strong, masculine" Pisa Tower. "He tried to utilize me" ; "He doesn't want children", blah, blahn blah. Girls, any idea for her? Let's help her to have a clean face, after all we are responsible for this mess. Her scam didn't work because of us, have a little bit of feminine solidarity.

Sorry. I have no sympathy. No excuses for the rat. I gave her too many chances, I even defended her in the past. My heart is cold.

 

[Bastine de Beaumanoir]

Sorry. I have no sympathy. No excuses for the rat. I gave her too many chances, I even defended her in the past. My heart is cold.

Just trying to make the impossible, haha, the woman doomed herself, she is a lost cause. As I've already said, at this point of lies she needs an exorcist, we can't do very much for her.

 

[AnnaBeg]

Aija aren't you afraid of gypsy babushks and their magic? Good ones don't even take money for their services....At age of 12-13 I was fascinated with magic.At 14 I upgraded myself to Aleister Crowley .At 17 I discovered quantum physics.In order to get good gypsy witch you need to crawl mountains and go to their village. You got plenty of EE girls.

 

[Sadies]

I love that you posted this!
Please post more of these notes if you have them.

Your wish is my command *does bad imitation of Sebastian*
A continuation of the notes from the podcast
"
Mindset

• Very important
• Mental training
• Stay strong mentally
• Be productive, be a go getter, take action
• Be aware of yourself and how you act
• Do not be fearful
• Set precise goals and focus on them. NEVER GIVE UP OR DIVERT
• Failures are not negative. You have to continue. See them as a test of god to know how badly you want to achieve your goals
• Always grow
• Get out of your comfort zone (it’s going to be scary and uncomfortable but this is an investment. You have to become comfortable with the uncomfortable)
• The more you want to achieve, the hardest it is
• Social climbing / transformation is a full time job
• Do I want to fantasize about the woman I could become or do I want to become that woman ?
• It’s not about luck, it’s about not giving up and working hard
• Be the best version of yourself
• Let go of impostor syndrom. You have a spot in high society. You have things to offer high society. Many rich people are bored. See yourself as an exotic person that will offer something special to the high society
• Create your own support system to use when you are in un uncomfortable situation (calm yourself, think about the fact that you are growing in that very moment, etc.)
• You might be gold digging shamed
• 2 types of gold digging :
• 
  
• Malicious opportunism
• Wanting the best while having morals and good intentions (evolutionary psychology)

Therapy

• Important to solve issues that hold back
• View different ones to choose the right one
• Choose someone who does psychotherapy and psychoanalysis

Journaling is really important : what are your obsticles ? What is holding you back ? How can you change that ?


"
BTW notice how golddigging is justified?
Next episode will be:
"Step 2 – Improve your personal presence (behavior)"

A little bonus excerpt from the notes of the book "How to be classy" by Aija Hallit:
"
How to speak in a classy way

• Moderate wolume
• Moderate pitch / intonation (not monotonous but not too much)
• Moderate speed
• Use a vocabulary everybody understands BUT that is expanded
• Proper articulation
• Do not curse
• Good grammar
• No filler words
• See a coach if necessary
• Read books + the dictionnary (lol)

"
Not cursing is the only thing Anna actually does...

 

[aser]

Aija aren't you afraid of gypsy babushks and their magic? Good ones don't even take money for their services....At age of 12-13 I was fascinated with magic.At 14 I upgraded myself to Aleister Crowley .At 17 I discovered quantum physics.In order to get good gypsy witch you need to crawl mountains and go to their village. You got plenty of EE girls.

lol don't get me started on the gypsy babushkas.. If only I had a thing that belongs to Raty..

 

[hereforitall]

Beides there will be more than enough women still willing to cling to them, since they have

But those relationships are never permanent And the man knows it! He might know he can get any girl but for how long! After a while, a man would care about those things.

But by the time they realize this truth, they are so set in their own ways that they cannot change or change as much as it matters. Most of them went through life treating women however they wanted and still always managed to have a woman or two by their sides anytime they wanted. So when the right woman, for them, comes along they wouldn't know how to treat her. They would try money but a woman of worth would demand more. They would try to be better but old habits die hard! That's why you do see a lot of those middle-aged men in the dating pool, looking. They might settle for that hot girl who is obviously after their money but most of them know they are not happy. They would settle for a show-off relationship with a girl they are proud to show off to their friends and family to convince them that they do have their life figured out.

I guess this could be true for any man but men with money have a much easier time being and staying an ass (if they ever were) and do not have to change themselves to get a woman. By the time they realize they can't keep up with their old ways and get the women they want, it's too late.

This has been my painful personal experience!

 

[Renata]

I have heard many women say (indirectly) that they would (and have) put up with this “abuse” because it gave them the lifestyle they wanted.

The thing is the guy didn’t want that and disrespected them more.
So, even if you shut up & put up it may not work because both sides know it’s disturbing behaviour & by allowing it you endorse it.

 

[tacokitten]

Yes, I saw the Nespresso video when you ladies put it on Tattle ! And I said to myself : Wow, this woman must be insane. First, insane to not know how to make a basic coffee with a basic capsule that basically one only has to put in that basic machine. And to make a video of it. Second, insane to try to convince us that she has a man in her life when she is not even capable to do a coffee or a tea or whatever. Even the most affluent woman surrounded by big staff knows how to prepare a simple coffee for herself. Actually, the more wealthy the woman is, the more expert she is in the domain of housekeeping. There is no such excuse like "but I don't drink coffee". Maybe the husband does, maybe your friends or your husband's friends do.

I'm thinking the same every time she says that she can't make coffee or can't \ doesn't want to cook etc... that's not relatable (if that what she's after...), that's plain stupid. What kind of hostess are you if you can't make coffee, tea, a few cocktails or a simple pasta dish you whip up quickly when someone comes over?

 

[indiana]

by JetsetBabe / 84mo
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I’ve started to finally understand what my issue is by writing this blog anonymously.

I’ve been blaming my reasons on loads of different things, come up of long theories of why I prefer it this way for now and so on. But yesterday I had a good think about myself, my issues and my character – and I finally reached the root of the reason WHY I’m an anonymous blogger.

I don’t want to be in the spotlight.

I don’t feel comfortable with any form of attention but I’m not a shy person – actually the opposite I’m social and forward. I just don’t like being in focus with all eyes on me kinda thing.

Being in the spotlight for more than a few minutes makes me extremely uncomfortable, even if I don’t always show it.

It’s weird because many people who are not shy, they love attention, the validation of it and gain loads of energy by being in the lime light. Or the people who can sit and talk forever about themselves and their lives without feeling awkward. I can’t do it.

In my real life I have loads of similar characteristics. For example I tend not to talk so much about myself unless I’m very comfortable with someone. When I speak I make sure I’m not just talking some random bla bla bla but actually have something of interest to say.

Holding meetings and presentations at work used to be my biggest night mare! Gosh, I don’t miss those days. Public speaking is probably one of the worst things on this planet, because when you’re in front of that crowd, you can literally feel everyones eyes on you. It’s like being in a horror movie!

Another thing which may seem a bit sad to some people, but I actually never celebrate my birthday, throw parties or entertain people at my house where I am the host. Being the centre of attention feels extremely uncomfortable for me, I prefer being in the background. Having friends over for dinner, where I personally cook is like stepping on a land of mines because I know me and my cooking will be in focus. Can’t do that!
I’m such a weirdo but I can’t help feeling this way. Surely I have moments like everyone else where we are in focus, crack jokes or talk in front of groups of people and I actually enjoy it! It’s absolutely fine for like 5min but after I hit my limit I need to quickly withdraw myself.

The reason why I’ve kept a low profile about my identity is simple because of this characteristic of mine. I feel most comfortable this way. But I will take a step forward in my development of un covering myself, but I need to feel 100% ready. Work in progress, hopefully soon!

If we have any psychologist in here I’d really like to hear what this is and where it usually comes from? But most importantly, does anyone else have something similar?

 

[tacokitten]

Does a violinist who owns a 19th century museum count?
Allegedly, she posted pictures of a book by an author that wrote a piece (classical) just for her.

This imposter is the gift that keeps on giving!
I want to get on fiverr and get hired for the A-List.
Oh and is this her black concert hall?

 

[teki_awas]

This imposter is the gift that keeps on giving!
I want to get on fiverr and get hired for the A-List.
Oh and is this her black concert hall?

How did you... wow! Im impressed.

 

[sashabunny]

Not many posts from Anna lately... it has been about a week and that is a long time for someone's job/income of which depends on an active and engaging social media presence.

I'm honestly starting to believe Anna only had maybe 1 or 2 temporary virtual workers and now she works alone, after the hacking incident. I remember when she wanted people to apply for a fake job position, for her to only steal their idea submissions which she required on the application.

I doubt she has a real "team" at all. I think it's all Anna, hence why she is apparently so "exhausted" most of the time. Going through a spreadsheet with the emails and passwords for fake profiles must be tiring and weird. Imagine trying to keep up with so many lies and fake personas... not fun or healthy for the mind at all.

Ladies, Ready to Glare is a great, honest and intelligent YouTuber with over 700,000 subscribers. It would be interesting if she could analyse Anna Bey. I don't think it's ever too late to reply to this tweet with suggestions.

Ready to Glare's YouTube channel: https://www.youtube.com/c/READYTOGLARE/videos
Enquires can be submitted to her on this page: https://www.youtube.com/c/READYTOGLARE/about

 

[teki_awas]

Not many posts from Anna lately... it has been about a week and that is a long time for someone's job/income of which depends on an active and engaging social media presence.

I'm honestly starting to believe Anna only had maybe 1 or 2 temporary virtual workers and now she works alone, after the hacking incident.

I doubt she has a real "team" at all.

Here to confirm your theory.