@Sadies : there are some gems in your last post for the Tattle Books Club. Like :
"Personnal presence is SO MUCH more than manners and etiquette. The most important is
class". This "class", "classy" word is to avoid when in presence of educated people. It's what they consider the most vulgar word of our days.
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You are the representation of your man + your close friends " No comment.
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Be educated + informed with the news (even pop culture) + informed with what happens in the high society ". No comment. Oh, yes : news are not equal with news from pop culture, also not equal with news from the "high society".
" Sit down like a lady ". And that buttock what it's doing in the air?
ETC.