Thanks for such a loving welcome to the forum
I will share with you a personal anecdote (God, I have so many!) that I believe fits this thread.
One of my bests friends is an Argentinian trust fund guy. His granfather moved to South America after the WWII and decided to invest all his money on different bonds and companies. This is a pretty common story all over the world, as it was the post-war mindset. Then a part of that goes to their sons/grandsons. Classic.
My friend has a pretty successful career, lovely guy. By chance, he met this woman that could be an Anna's student
She was all about elegance, going to expensive places, had a LV bag (this in South America is
super over the top), always bragged about her travels to 5 star hotels, the pics for the gram with long shiny silk dresses. You get the picture. Her way of dressing up all over the top, all the freaking time, was kind of ...weird,
but it could be that she was actually from a wealthy family! We just didn't know at that time.
They dated for a few months and eventually, he told me that this woman was not paying for anything at all and that he was basically "sugar daddying" her. The trigger situation
(from which my friend was asking me advice ) was that she was spending money like crazy as it was an infinite resource and asking him all the time to buy her stuff and book the most expensive restaurants.
For my friend, it didn't make sense, because if she already had a LV bag and all the brag when they met... what was going on there?
He had the money, he just had a weird feeling about the situation.
I had to explain him that some girls may lie. Yes, lie to pick up well established guys. As I had access to some personal sensitive information thanks to my job (some people here already been exposing Anna thanks to the same thing
lovely detective work),
I just told him: her numbers don't add up. RUN. She is not who she is telling the world she allegedly is. I showed him some actual proof about how fucked up the situation was and... that was it.
This girl was "elegant", had a fake LV, had the best manners in terms of etiquette. She had no job, she was not "old money".
They obviously broke up.
What's the moral of the story here:
why would you want your future sugar daddy to think that you are already wealthy? (?) No, but seriously, Anna's logic doesn't make sense.
Being honest and don't trying to avoid ALL the expenses is the correct and most elegant thing to do.
Latest Ana's video saying to not pick up your wallet. I mean...
When I was single and I couldn't pay for anything, I was honest about it. No shame.
If the guy is into you for whatever reason and he enjoys your company. He will pay.
But it's a conversation that
(if you want something serious with him and not just being an Escort) you should have. The silence between the bill and him paying for it, is just weird. He will probably only smile at you if you go grab your purse and make a hand gesture.
Anna just keeps giving advice about how to be a prostitute. Nothing wrong with that, but that's different than "bagging" a husband material guy.
That's all my dear elegant ladieez. Good night x