Past follower of Anna here!
i just recently stoped following her and now I have to unsubscribe and delete everything of hers.
i feel so naïve and imbecile
I really felt as if I could bag a millionaire that truly loves me as easily as being pretty, slim, feminine and a good company (easily proven false by looking at the wife’s of affluent men, not their mistresses). The fact that I am a young adult probably helped majorly, but I really got sold. And now I truly see how those fake coaches and influencers sell and make you believe what you really want to believe. Safe to say, I lived in a family with the struggle lifestyle and it impacted me so much so that I have been gullible out of fear of living a miserable life. And off course, I wanted the easy way out, which Anna offered.
Although she hasn’t had an extensive education (as stated here) she is truly intelligent in her marketing skills and persuasion technics. The A-list was the one I almost bought into. The number of times I have been bombarded by her marketing and advertising, I really thought It was the only way I could level up and meet affluent people (funny thing is nobody of high status or reputable families, lurks on those kinds of sites, they have their one events and circles). All disguised as self care and level, and investing in yourself.
At first when I stumbled here, I did not believe a single thing written, but after a bit of research and reflection, I can see that I was wrong. Her tips really revolved around the sugar baby, prostitute lifestyle. Although I believe in hypergamy, her message was really to use your body to get money out of it, the you’re doing it anyway, why shouldn’t you capitalize in on it. Find any man willing to throw money at you and be available for them to use.The lifestyle of so many Instagram influencers and glamourized sex workers. I am truly scared when I see that many young women follow her accounts and tips putting themselves in great danger, abuse and emotional damage. Many studies explain the mental effect of such lifestyles and it is truly horrifying. Many women are also stepping up, but many are still glamourizing that lifestyle in front of many really young girls and that is disgusting. Not too long ago I was still in high school and the number of girls (younger than 18) that already had a sugar baby lifestyle dream, an only fans, or pictures and videos circulating online was scary. My heart aches for them.
I still can’t insult her, as she helped me majorly to find my way and reconnect with my femininity, but I can attest she is not an elegant lady and probably will never be. Her attempt at rebranding is not convincing me anymore.
sorry for rambling on, I was shocked and feel wronged by someone I thought I knew and trusted.
She doesn't know real love. She doesn't trust men & to her a relationship is a game of sorts, a game of deception, who has the upper hand, it's all very calculated and unattractive (to men, but also who would want her as a friend).
