Maybe she didn't visit him because he doesn't want to pay for her flight and hotel? we all know that she still a broke girl before scamming girls online.
Why would she have to pay for her own flight and hotel if she visits her boyfriend?? She would stay at his place no? And he would invite her like an affluent gentleman would (as she claims he is one)...
But even a non affluent boyfriend would invite you to his place...else it’s just weird AF.
I think either that...or an easier and more likely scenario (as girls have seen Joe hiring male escorts) is that they did not ‘date’ exclusively...like as normal people think of relationships...
He went to London every few weeks or month for a weekend trip with his friend Btf to hire male and/or female escorts...have a great weekend.
Maybe he contacted Aija during these weekend - either for the full 2-3 days or for 1 night/ day or lunch whatever? We will never know.
But think about it logically and emotionally as well.
Could any of You date a man you want to have a serious relationship with (remember she was above 30 when she met him - and she was looking for a husband! She said this herself) and not visit him during the 2,5 years more than a few times? Wouldn’t you care how he lives? Meet his friends? How his everyday life is? Etc.
Aija lies about literally everything. She was secretive for so long about her relationship for a reason...and it wasn’t privacy as she had no problem showing him off in Mexico and Italy like 3-4 years back?
She was also verrry happy sharing the detail - when she lived in London - that her boyfriend pays for her new Apartment and gives her pocket money! She basically bragged that she has finally made it! She doesn’t have to escort anymore, she has a Sugardaddy who visits her every few weeks for a weekend. She was proud of this.
Maybe she was looking for other potential husbands/partners - as she mentioned in this wedding video that she didn’t like him at first. He was too young and was a finance guy. Meaning she was hoping for an older old-money (as she is obsessed with that) SD she can convince to marry her. Seeing she mentioned she doesn’t like sex. Maybe she hoped that with an old guy the money and status would come but she wouldn’t have to do much except look & act like a pretty Lady. She had a naive fantasy she based on what she saw on IG...
She has written about this fantasy several times on her old JSB blog. It was baffling to me even then how naive she is...
She basically is living her fantasy in a muted and lesser version. She didn’t get to bag an old money aristocratic millionaire/billionaire and live in a mansion, drive luxury cars, have all the jewellery and luxury fashion, travel around the world on her private jet...vacation on yachts.
She married a guy who has a 9-5 job, is an immigrant in Europe, bisexual or gay (yay she doesn’t have to have sex), lives in a tiny rental, got nothing from hubby(no car, house, jewellery, not even 1 gift she mentioned - where is her wedding gift???) except and Ikea closet and she has to work to fill it with non Mango/Zara clothes, travels in off season & cheaper hotels (remember her 3 star vacay in Greece?), etc.
What affluent and wealthy husband doesn’t get his Fiancée and later Wife anything ever??
(If he would she would constantly show it off like she did with the 500€ LV sneakers yesterday and last year, Btf’s rose bouquet, etc.)
What’s the levelling up in that?
Correct. Hence the sarcasm in my post.
I detailed it for all the new members who are not all aware of Aija’s past and lies as they don’t all read the tons of threads we have here
Just wanted to say that most of us base our comments on facts here - mixed with speculation (that most likely will turn out to be true thanks to Aija and her constant reaction to Tattle).