All That Dreams Glitters #9 Stacey and her stunning tat, buy jack a backbone instead of all that crap

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I really hope Stacey has been signposted to support groups for families looking after asd children. Case workers, health visitors and inclusion partners can help with referrals... How she's living is so unhealthy for poor A. It's total sensory overload, and the fact she uses it for content makes me cross. Where's his dark den, his soft play area to disregulate in? Instead of buying utter tat, put that, or his dla towards something of his benefit. Then share that content to support others. No one, no one, sees these videos as keeping it real, because in real life many people do not live like that.

I feel like a utter cow for the above, but I find her content upsetting not bloody relatable!
 
I dip in to a few threads on here where the person in question has questionable behaviour. Stacey is the one I have genuine concern for. I’ve said before my worries about her so I won’t list them all again. I’m sad to see she still isn’t getting help and things actually seemed to have escalated 😩. The girl is harmless but very, very lost
 
I feel the same and have been meaning to come on here and say this - often she is very quiet between events. But she pops back up just in time for the next one. I can't remember if she does anything for valentine's Day but I think we can assume she does, so she will go very overboard, lots of stories, outfits etc. And then she will go quiet again until either mother's Day or Easter when it repeats - lots of buying, outfits, stories etc. And so on and so forth.
She puts SO much effort into these events, TOO much effort and then has some sort of come down from it.

She's definitely trying to fill some kind of void and it's sad viewing now.

She needs to put the baby into a nursery or with a childminder / relative for a couple of days a week and either volunteer somewhere or get a part time job, she needs out of those four walls.
 
DevaVictrix said:
That bedroom looked like it really smelt bad
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The whole house probably smells.

Windows are never opened, food left on plates in kitchen for the week, despite having a dishwasher. Used nappies left on living room floor. General human smells.

Add on top of that a dog plus the cheap scented candles and wax melts that she burns then add on top of that all the cleaning products and zoflora she sprays everywhere.

It's the place where they make migraines.

The state of Averys room and her room was just awful. Alissas room was piled high too but she didnt show it.

Her family must see this, why aren't they bothered? Jack's a right lazy toad too.
 

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If she does this decluttering constantly, how on earth does it get so bad again. Once she's on top of it, that should be it! She's got serious issues to be living like that. It's far too embarrassing for the gram. It's not real, it's far from real. It's one of them tit holes they do programmes about with hoarders. Get help Stacey It's worrying!
 
I find the fact A’s bedroom is still decorated like a nursery, despite the fact he’s nearly 6, really creepy. It’s like a shrine to him as a baby or something… like he’s not allowed to grow up. All very bizarre! :oops:

Also the fact she put an artificial poundshop rose in Jack’s gift bag after she said she wanted to get things he actually needed or uses… just what every man wants 😂
 
Why oh why is Avery’s bedroom like a baby’s nursery 🙈 he doesn’t need all that tat and it will mean much less cleaning for her to do if she just gets rid or put a lot of it away in a memory box. He’s not a baby he’s a little boy with additional needs. He needs sensory toys and lights not rocking horse ornaments and photo frames and wooden stars…my son has ASD too and his room is his quiet place, leds, bubble lamps etc, everything is calm and relaxing. She can even get a list off occupational therapy of what’s appropriate for his sensory needs. That after declutter looks like a before photo 🙈🙈
 
Princesst said:
I find the fact A’s bedroom is still decorated like a nursery, despite the fact he’s nearly 6, really creepy. It’s like a shrine to him as a baby or something… like he’s not allowed to grow up. All very bizarre! :oops:

Also the fact she put an artificial poundshop rose in Jack’s gift bag after she said she wanted to get things he actually needed or uses… just what every man wants 😂
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I think the rose was made of chocolate, probably not a good gift for someone with diabetes 😂
 
My son is a few month younger than Avery. When he was born, his nursery looked pretty much like Averys. Yes, I had grey and stars and scan pics etc 🤣 after a year/18 months we started introducing the dreaded Peppa pig and paw patrol because he loved it. By age 2, all signs of a nursery were gone. Its all space themed now with rockets/stars and plantets and he loves it. Really don't know why she won't allow the poor boys personality in the room. She even bought more star drawers in grey for the room! What the hell!
 
My kids bedrooms where what they wanted, even from a younge age. Not my taste but it ain’t my bleeping room. She needs to grow the duck up and stop being such a hun and let him have the room he’d feel comfy in. My god, my girl wanted bright pink room with stars and all sorts, I can’t stand the colours but again, it ain’t my room. That’s her safe place she can have what the duck she wants (unless it was all black, then I draw the line lol) but common it’s like a babies room m.
 
My Son didn't have much say in the decor of his room, as in the wall colour because we wanted it plain so he can have ever changing themes without redecorating the lot, he is 8 so his favourite things changes like the wind but he decides what bedding he wants and recently asked for a more "gamer" room which I managed to create with some pegboards and led lighting, he absolutely loves it and it is his space and I wouldn't want it any other way.
Stacey on the other hand, she can't handle anything but her own versions of things, her own ideas and wants. Avery needs more than anything a room to suit his needs and she can't even put her selfishness aside to accommodate him and it is a crying shame.

She could have used one of the many drawer sets from Averys room and transformed under his bed in to a sensory area with lights and stuff, a nice calm, clear space for him but no, 50 hidden drawers full of crap instead.

Wfh isn't something that happened for a couple of weeks, it has been on going so the fact that both her and Jack didn't have a bit of a move about to sort out a decent work space for him is also baffling, I could not sleep or work in the state they live in and it doesn't get like that over night. Simple tidying up after yourself and as you go along prevents this, it isn't difficult.
 
Canyoukeepasecret said:
My Son didn't have much say in the decor of his room, as in the wall colour because we wanted it plain so he can have ever changing themes without redecorating the lot, he is 8 so his favourite things changes like the wind but he decides what bedding he wants and recently asked for a more "gamer" room which I managed to create with some pegboards and led lighting, he absolutely loves it and it is his space and I wouldn't want it any other way.
Stacey on the other hand, she can't handle anything but her own versions of things, her own ideas and wants. Avery needs more than anything a room to suit his needs and she can't even put her selfishness aside to accommodate him and it is a crying shame.

She could have used one of the many drawer sets from Averys room and transformed under his bed in to a sensory area with lights and stuff, a nice calm, clear space for him but no, 50 hidden drawers full of crap instead.

Wfh isn't something that happened for a couple of weeks, it has been on going so the fact that both her and Jack didn't have a bit of a move about to sort out a decent work space for him is also baffling, I could not sleep or work in the state they live in and it doesn't get like that over night. Simple tidying up after yourself and as you go along prevents this, it isn't difficult.
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This is exactly what I did with my lad, plain walls that were interchangeable with his tastes by using stickers, decals , canvases etc all brought together with soft furnishings! Kids change what they like, like the wind haha
 
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