Alicej_t #2 Yesterday utter disarray but hey at least I've now got a fiance - Slay!

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Prettybutterfly is obviously Dan. What a smug prat he is. And what an odious character. It looks to me like they have split up. He is trying to highlight this through his pathetic comments. If they have split up I feel sorry for Alice. Most of what is said on here about her is correct. Annoying, a fantasist, self-indulgent, pompous, pathetic, misleading, etc etc etc. But ask yourself how unhappy and empty you need to be to constantly need worthless affirmation from strangers? Someone pointed out that her real friendships are short-lived. Imagine if all your friendships ended and you were constantly starting again. I cannot imagine what that feels like. Her romantic life is a car crash. But stop for a minute and just think how embarrassing the Gramps thing was. On its own without the world knowing was bad enough. To then realize not everyone is a cheerleader, blowing smoke up your arse. Lots of people actually see the real you. They have noticed the inconsistencies and in some places full-blown lies. They see through the designer bags and expensive holidays. You are mortified. You withdraw, but that gaping chasm within you that can eat an infinite volume of affirmation needs to be stroked. You then lurch into this new bloke. He's a bit slimy and untrustworthy, but you are desperate. It is obviously a rebound thing, but because you are embarrassed and that chasm doesn't fill itself, you go with it. Then the fantasist in you takes over. Maybe there is a big slice of "duck you" in there for gramps, who didn't want your kids. "Look this new bloke wants me and my kids." So in a whirlwind you get carried away. Here is where I find it difficult. Who then follows through and uproots their kids. Even with everything else I have said I don't get this. The fantasist within her must be HUGE. But she did. And now she is possibly sitting in a house which must be costing 2k a month. On her own, with no real reason to be there. She must be shell shocked. Also she knows that we know. She knows that we see the real her. She knows it is going to come out and she is going to look ridiculous. Just think how embarrassing that must feel? Go on. Genuinely try to put yourself in her shoes. If some sick doesn't come into your mouth you are not trying hard enough. Let's all try to be kind when the big reveal happens.
 
I think it's pretty obvious they've broken up...plus SW19 isn't Barnes, that's SW13, so my guess is he must've moved out already. Holy hell, hate to say that everyone saw it coming. I wonder if the Bumble post on here might've contributed to it??
 
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