I wouldn't be surprised! Especially as next year Ella will no doubt want driving lessons!Her kids will have jobs before her. Hopefully they didn't inherit her work ethic.
Happy birthday, birthday buddy! All the best to you!It’s my birthday, Cookie, and hearing that you are finally going to be free and able to breathe, avec your bebe, is one of the best presents I could ever have. I’m absolutely thrilled for you. You will be able to wake each morning without that sense of choking dread that presages a new day with a narc. So much love to you ❤
And people actually know who he is. Even if they don't know his name, they'll know his face from that role. Hell, I do and I've never watched it!He also looks clean and he's probably not a dick.
Wonderful news! Have a lovely time to yourself with your baba. I do that with my dogs and cat, and it's such balm to the soul after so many years of family Christmases of shouting, argument and tears. Eat and drink whatever you want and read, watch or listen to whatever you want.Mum had to go to hospital about 3 weeks ago, and the whole tit hit the fan in a good way leaving her waiting to go into respite and then permanent care, and me actually being free of her narc abuse for the first time ever! Finances and housing are still very much up in the air, but the fur baby and I will be spending the Christmas period in peace, probably broke but safe and happy. Thanks to everyone here who gave me support and made me laugh like a sieve. You made what was almost unbearable tolerable. ❤
Happy birthday, Auti, and may the coming year be full of joy and blessings for you. Your contributions are so full of wisdom and thought, and I really enjoy reading them. I hope that your own situation has improved or at least is more bearable.It’s my birthday, Cookie, and hearing that you are finally going to be free and able to breathe, avec your bebe, is one of the best presents I could ever have. I’m absolutely thrilled for you. You will be able to wake each morning without that sense of choking dread that presages a new day with a narc. So much love to you ❤
Happy birthday @Autisteuse. You are one of the kindest, most eloquent of turds, and I always take something from your posts, they are thought provoking. As an old crush of mine would say, live long and prosperIt’s my birthday, Cookie, and hearing that you are finally going to be free and able to breathe, avec your bebe, is one of the best presents I could ever have. I’m absolutely thrilled for you. You will be able to wake each morning without that sense of choking dread that presages a new day with a narc. So much love to you ❤
Wishing you and your fur baby peace and healing. You deserve nothing but the best Cookie, you have such a beautiful soul. Love youBrilliant recap @Old Soak ❤ Sending much love and good vibes out to everyone who struggles with the Christmas period and endless ads of happy, happy families shoved down our throats.
Mum had to go to hospital about 3 weeks ago, and the whole tit hit the fan in a good way leaving her waiting to go into respite and then permanent care, and me actually being free of her narc abuse for the first time ever! Finances and housing are still very much up in the air, but the fur baby and I will be spending the Christmas period in peace, probably broke but safe and happy. Thanks to everyone here who gave me support and made me laugh like a sieve. You made what was almost unbearable tolerable. ❤
Speaking of which, @Ally Pally MALICE is going to HATE that thread title! I wonder if she'll pack the kids off to friends and wear her wedding dress roleplaying their wedding on YoBee's big day? Or just spam SM with her own wedding pics? Poor Alice, she's yet to realise that when you're out of a narc's abuse circle, their behaviour is just so embarrassingly ridiculous.
Happy birthday to you! *Raises glass to fellow introvert* I hope you’ve had a relaxing, unpopulated day!!Happy birthday, birthday buddy! All the best to you!
Happy birthdayHappy birthday, birthday buddy! All the best to you!
What a great mother Alice is. Teaching her child skills that will likely be irrelevant by the time she's old enough to use them. Next week, how to use a rotary phone!Maybe she is driving? Or maybe it’s old View attachment 3324922 q
Me and the husband (recently married after crappy things happened and I put them behind me and got on with my life) are watching a cheesy Christmas romance every night. The one tonight had a really lovely actress who did it very well. So I decided to check out The Christmas Card again. Jesus's christ, she is truly bloody awful. How she thinks she 'gave up' a 'career' is truly beyond me. Anyway I'm a very occasional poster but avid reader so Merry Christmas & best wishes to all of you. And to all with struggles I hope the other side comes bright and soon x
And Keri Russell's husband.Wow - "holding on to my dignity and self respect" is a euphemism for don't even ask me to take a day job because I won't. She thinks at this stage of life she deserves Keri Russel's career. Not going to happen.
that account randomly popped up on my feed and look which woman that totally has moved on is living in the comment section
I obviously dont know that woman but she claims that her ex left after caught cheating, so very different to Alice who was left, and then she tore her kids life apart by making a drama where she forced them to chose between them, making them falsely believe that she is a hero rather than the destroyer of theit lives, and defacto cult members of an court proven abuser
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yes, why do these pesky in-laws never take the side of their non-relative /s
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ahahahaha, the narc shines through here
reality: Ioan wasted 20 years by settling for someone not even worthy of his little finger
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and yet she wants his money around and talks constantly about him
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here she continues to lie about the fact that she had no career anymore
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"Alice has moved on" - she clearly is praying daily for a breakup. also you lose them how you get them describes cheater Alice well
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says the woman that agreed on shared legal custody because otherwise she has to pay for every damage her kids cause
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Reminder: since the separation Alice has received 80 % of Ioan's income and had to pay pretty much no lawyer fees - Ioan shouldn't have to spend all his savings for a chance to spend time with his kids, and yet abuser momma had other plans...
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this is what I don’t understand though. She has her kids 100% of the time. And? They go to school all day. They’re old enough not to need her with them 24/7. Does she really think all single parents with full custody don’t have to work because they have kids???? Her argument makes no sense to me. Single parents work, Alice. You alienated the kids so you’d get them 100% of the time … it doesn’t mean you get to sit home all day while they’re at school and not help contribute. Your cons are a great source of income. Keep doing them while you have a more reliable job. Use your skills outside of acting to help and actually show your girls that you’re self sufficient. Stop using them as an excuse. Be the role model they deserve.
Happy birthday your MajestyHappy birthday, birthday buddy! All the best to you!
With all her insinuations of abuse, all her claims of how upset and terrified the babieez are (when they aren't laughing and laughing and laughing), fears of poverty and homelessness, she says the hardest thing to get over is wasting 20 years of her life on somebody not worthy of her?? Like damn Alice can you narc a little harder?Lol she doesn't like being told to get a job. Gavron Schavron. Wonder what her stash is now?
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Narc injury. Remember Alice dumped baby angel lol in some parallel universe
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And then got a nanny/housekeeper (essential when a SAHM!)mAlice - the only SAHM who worked when her kids were babies but "gave up her career" whenthe work dried upthey got to school age
One of my sisters kids has asperges, it didn't stop her from working, because she had too, before his diagnosis it was incredibly hard for her, but she still worked, multiple jobs, and has done various degrees. She struggled for a good 20 yrs, but it's paid off now, I thought my work ethic was good, but she's on another level! I'm not saying that just because she's my sister either. She's 52, and has 4 kids, and was a single parent, getting CP, but not enough, so she worked as well, 3 jobs at one point. The kids still see there father, apart from the oldest one who has a different dad, he has a horrible car crash when she was pregnant, and was in a coma for about 12 yrs, he passed away about 3 years after he came out of the coma.You gotta love the contrariness (cuntrariness?) of Alice and her current motley crew.
When they are not screaming about how traumatic it was for their perfect life to be destroyed by their husband leaving they are accusing him of being a monster. I mean how did this monster give them a perfect life ?
Then it is how the dastardly ex forced them to sacrifice their amazing career. But never quite explain why they don’t work when they no longer have that obstacle- because he is out of their lives. Instead it is a complete impossibility to work.
I get that careers do take a hit due to pregnancy and the early years. This is an unfairness and inequity for all women who don’t have a nanny or two. But it doesn’t stop you working for ever unless you have a kid with extra needs. Even then I have known mothers keep on working. These are choices.
Having just said that I fully expect Alice to now declare how she has to be home because of the babies special needs.