Alice Evans & Ioan Gruffudd #282 Alice’s poverty is more abstract than abject.

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Loveu2 said:
Why does Alice's head float in her videos and selfies?

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I think she's sticking her head forward to stretch out her neck, as she's lost the contour of her jaw and skin; which at her age, the up/down with the weight etc, is normal, even my neck isn't as taught as it was 5 years ago. She's obvs got a filter on 🤣

If she got a job, she could have a lift, oh wait... 🤦🏼‍♀️
 
She looks better in the wild than the cartoonish image she creates with filters. There is nothing human about the image those filters create for her or anyone else when used to this extent. She would look even better in the wild if she didn’t duck around with surgery and fillers to the extent she has.

People often ask when she will get her comeuppance but I think she is serving her sentence. All she has left to make money is this trash work. Doing the low end work in cons and selling stories to the tabloids. Basically she is at best a ridiculous figure to people who might recognise her.

Someone posted a fluff piece from a magazine interview she did in Paris after Dalmatians. It was a load of paid for bollox about how she was claiming to be a renowned and celebrated member of high society. This is of course just her usual lies peddled to a tame journalist. But it referenced how everyone wanted to know her and how she snubbed grand ladies trying to get her attention. Which as we know is Alice payback for being snubbed herself not a reality. How they must bleeping laugh their pants off at her if they even know who she was and is.

Hopefully this won’t come across as tone policing. I don’t know if Alice spends big holidays on her own. She has no family in America but she does have a few friends. They are good awful people but they exist. She has otherwise alienated a lot of people and that is on her.

But some people do drift into isolation later on life through no fault of their own. They do spend holidays on their own because friends don’t think to invite them to what are otherwise family events and they don’t have any family of their own.
 
Ally Pally said:
I'll never understand how someone could sabotage themselves so much.
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From my own personal experience, it's by being totally reactive to everything. Instead of actually thinking about how you are going to deal with a situation - like your partner leaving - you go with your initial reaction and next thing you are going down a path that you feel you can't get off of.

Of course you can step off of it anytime, by holding your hands up and saying 'Mea culpa, I acted without thinking, things have got out of hand, all the nonsense needs to stop' - but for narcs like Alice (and my mother) that is admitting you've done something wrong/are wrong, and of course they are perfect and therefore never wrong so that's something they will never do.

Edit: English is my second language, so many mistakes.
 
Edna said:
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Only someone as innately stylish and fabulous as you Edna can pull these off.
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Mittens said:
From my own personal experience, it's by being totally reactive to everything. Instead of actually thinking about how you are going to deal with a situation - like your partner leaving - you go with your initial reaction and next thing you are going down a path that you feel you can't get off of.

Of course you can step off of it anytime, by holding your hands up and saying 'Mea culpa, I acted without thinking, things have got out of hand, all the nonsense needs to stop' - but for narcs like Alice (and my mother) that is admitting you've done something wrong/are wrong, and of course they are perfect and therefore never wrong so that's something they will never do.

Edit: English is my second language, so many mistakes.
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No mistakes seen. Your English is great 😃

I think a big part of it is narcs like her are so terrified of abandonment and being alone that they have to control everything and everyone. They do it with deceit, manipulation, sabotage, abuse and that need for total power over others that they end up with everyone leaving and they create a tiny, bitter, angry, unhappy life for themselves. My mother has a tiny, tiny fraction of the life she could have had and frankly it's mainly all of her own doing. On the inside Alice is as unhappy, angry, bitter and envious as my mother is. It's sad really. They create the life they are terrified of but they don't have the emotional capacity or honesty to see it or do anything positive to change it. The hell they inflict on their prey is ultimately the hell they end up stuck in.
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Sending lots of love and hugs to you @Old Soak ❤️🥰 You're my favourite snack buddy.
 
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Well humidity certainly helps thinner hair look a bit fuller and adds a balmy glow to the skin. I personally hate it in the UK as it takes on a whole new meaning here! My hair increases in volume x100 à la cavewoman and my face goes a nice shade of tomato, and sweaty as duck rather than balmy 😂
 
CookieMonsta said:
Only someone as innately stylish and fabulous as you Edna can pull these off.
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No mistakes seen. Your English is great 😃

I think a big part of it is narcs like her are so terrified of abandonment and being alone that they have to control everything and everyone. They do it with deceit, manipulation, sabotage, abuse and that need for total power over others that they end up with everyone leaving and they create a tiny, bitter, angry, unhappy life for themselves. My mother has a tiny, tiny fraction of the life she could have had and frankly it's mainly all of her own doing. On the inside Alice is as unhappy, angry, bitter and envious as my mother is. It's sad really. They create the life they are terrified of but they don't have the emotional capacity or honesty to see it or do anything positive to change it. The hell they inflict on their prey is ultimately the hell they end up stuck in.
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Amen to all of the above, my mother is exactly the same.

It is all about control - my mother has spent all of my life (and probably before I was born) trying to force others to care. She has no insight so can't understand that it's the FORCING that puts people off, makes them run a mile...and not care.

When my father left for OW, my mother would have got the caring that she desperately wanted if she'd just kept to the bare bones of it - "My husband of 23 years has left me for another woman. He was unfaithful our whole marriage but I'm still devastated" She would have got genuine sympathy from everyone, I'm sure...she did at first, but then a la Alice, she went too far. I've always said that I'm so so grateful that social media/the internet didn't exist when my parents split, my mother was bad enough without them!

Emotionally blackmailing myself and my two brothers to go full no contact with our father immediately was evil. She didn't give a rats ass about our feelings, didn't for one second think of us, it was (as it had always been) all about her. 35 years later, nothing has changed.
 
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