In my case its nowt to do with her being Black. It's because as a pp said, she's confusing in that she can come across very nice, but then turn if things don't go her way. According to her, you aren't allowed to have a negative opinion about someone who happens to be Black, because it's just purely racism.
Does anyone remember when she revealed the triple bunk (with the baby in the sleepy head and the curtains all the way around on the INSIDE of the cot) and people commented, concerned about this safety hazard (which was very legitimate IMO)? She said herself she became hysterical about it in her brother's car, then claimed it was racism. She clearly missed the whole Sleepy Head debacle that the white insta mums got slaughtered for! And I agree with her that Black and WOC get held to higher standards, but in this case I really don't think it was a racist issue, I think anyone looking at that (as beautifully made as it might be) sleep setup would have been inwardly horrified.
What happened with the decs?