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Thing is now days many girls will break up with their boyfriend and think they have to seriously hate each other because the relationship is over and start bad mouthing them claiming this that and the other. Like the girls on prick advisor claims all lads on their are narcissists šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Iā€™m not saying I believe what Donna said and Iā€™m not saying I donā€™t believe it but letā€™s be honest Donna isnā€™t the most reliable source. In the wise words of Donna her claims could be fake news. It wouldnā€™t be the first time she hasnā€™t lied about something this sick before. Itā€™s common sense also to not go around exposing a predator when they havenā€™t been charged etc it would be putting people on more danger than what they were.

People were speculating Charlotte not long ago Charlotte must of moved out maybe she moved out because her and T spent so much time together and it made sense them living with each other.

maybe Donnaā€™s off because sheā€™s not happy she moved out and wanted her to live with her a little longer and not live with T who slept with Ashley?

if she was in a DV relationship I hope T and Donna (Iā€™m sure theyā€™ll make up by Christmas) support her and help her realise to do better and she doesnā€™t need to be in a relationship to feel like sheā€™s worth something and the girls donā€™t need mum and dad together they just need parents to be decent and happy not arguing. I understand how this can end up being an endless circle Iā€™ve seen it my own eyes with my mum when I was 8-10.

but it is clearly she does need some extra support from additional services that have fresh eyes the situation is a mess. Iā€™m 20 odd and itā€™s giving me a headache trying to make sense of it all so god knows how this is feeling on Charlotte whoā€™s situation it is.

Unfortunately social services donā€™t seem to give a crap these days, Iā€™ve witnessed first hand domestic abuse in a relationship yet the childā€™s still there.
Wonā€™t do nothing unless they see it or a child has been hit or if the child says anything šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Thatā€™s what happened with me I had to get in front of a punch that was meant for my mum and I had to tell my dad the next day who reported it to ss

Unless Charlotte actually state what happens SS will not do anything regarding the physical abuse.they will open a welfare case check the children are healthy and looked after they will look at drs record for any injury.this will only happen if they don't deem the report as malicious.if the reporter has proof the event occurred be that even a text from Charlotte etc they will open a safeguard welfare straight away if not it will go into system which can take up to 6 weeks due to covid work rules and SS are working from home
Not all are working from home be skeleton staff but if itā€™s emergency then they would have to go out and check on the child. If neighbors have been phoning the police that could get the kids and place checked a lot more quicker and itā€™ll be logged also if they get the police to check on the regular then itā€™ll put them up on the list higher to needing more immediate support
 
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Exactly. Can never judge someone for going back, it can be done through manipulation, blackmail or threats or lies But Donna needs to phone social services for the twins and Charlotte's sake. Worst part is he will still have rights unless professionals state he's a dangee

I donā€™t think heā€™s on the birth certificate so he wonā€™t have none. Iā€™m sure she was with Ashley when the twins were born
 
Thing is now days many girls will break up with their boyfriend and think they have to seriously hate each other because the relationship is over and start bad mouthing them claiming this that and the other. Like the girls on prick advisor claims all lads on their are narcissists šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø

Iā€™m not saying I believe what Donna said and Iā€™m not saying I donā€™t believe it but letā€™s be honest Donna isnā€™t the most reliable source. In the wise words of Donna her claims could be fake news. It wouldnā€™t be the first time she hasnā€™t lied about something this sick before. Itā€™s common sense also to not go around exposing a predator when they havenā€™t been charged etc it would be putting people on more danger than what they were.

People were speculating Charlotte not long ago Charlotte must of moved out maybe she moved out because her and T spent so much time together and it made sense them living with each other.

maybe Donnaā€™s off because sheā€™s not happy she moved out and wanted her to live with her a little longer and not live with T who slept with Ashley?

if she was in a DV relationship I hope T and Donna (Iā€™m sure theyā€™ll make up by Christmas) support her and help her realise to do better and she doesnā€™t need to be in a relationship to feel like sheā€™s worth something and the girls donā€™t need mum and dad together they just need parents to be decent and happy not arguing. I understand how this can end up being an endless circle Iā€™ve seen it my own eyes with my mum when I was 8-10.

but it is clearly she does need some extra support from additional services that have fresh eyes the situation is a mess. Iā€™m 20 odd and itā€™s giving me a headache trying to make sense of it all so god knows how this is feeling on Charlotte whoā€™s situation it is.


Wonā€™t do nothing unless they see it or a child has been hit or if the child says anything šŸ¤·šŸ¼ā€ā™€ļø Thatā€™s what happened with me I had to get in front of a punch that was meant for my mum and I had to tell my dad the next day who reported it to ss


Not all are working from home be skeleton staff but if itā€™s emergency then they would have to go out and check on the child. If neighbors have been phoning the police that could get the kids and place checked a lot more quicker and itā€™ll be logged also if they get the police to check on the regular then itā€™ll put them up on the list higher to needing more immediate support
I work alongside ss and did for ss for a long time.there bare minimum in the office,majority of the sw are remote working through mosaic and having weekly Forum with am.home visits are if in emergency cases need stepping in,no reviews are happening face to face unless its at risk register which is on doorstep open door answer questions any new cases and reports are not having home visits unless there's definitive proof and deemed not malicious.i.e. the abused calls,the police contact as a matter of safeguarding or numerous reported incidents to same household.theres a few other circumstances.this is her local ss but other areas nay be different
 
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