Teen Mum Young & Pregnant #30

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Possibly unpopular opinion on this whole Charlotte and what not business over this. From growing up in a benefits household, where family members where teen mums. I was always brought up to try and better myself and got pushed to actually do something with my life than just keep the family cycle to rely on benefits. I seen how my mum struggled with debt, having to worry about the gas and electric suddenly going off and wonder where the moneys gonna come from till next pay day.
My sister was 18 having to bring up her own 2 year old son, my 2 year old sister and me 11 due to family issues and she was still holding a part time job even having to go on training, meeting with sw (due to being classed as a foster carer) while we had to deal with my dad having a terminal illness and parents with drug and alcohol addiction.
Yes, having twins and a mum that’s terminally ill is hard but it’s not an excuse. If you want something so badly you’ll do everything you can to make it work, you’ll have the motivation and dedication to get what you want.
Unfortunately, some people get brought up in this cycle of benefits is the only way they can live or see it as they aren't the type to go on and do better which doesn’t have to be going to uni 🤷🏼‍♀️ Could just be getting a job just to show younger people in the family to get a work ethnic.
like my sisters boyfriends family hates me because I didn’t pop a kid out before I was 20, I went to uni instead where as all those in his family don’t know what contraception is. To them just living on benefits and trying to get as much as possible by making lies up to get DLA is all they know
 
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No mask on the train again Donna
 
Jadeyjade said:
She made a big deal before about how she wears one everytime she’s out and that anyone who said otherwise was lying. You can also tell from how clear Charlotte is speaking that she doesn’t have one on either
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Yeah probably true
But she will say she's exempt
Or no one was on the train
Or she took it off to eat
Or maybe irs a new high tech invisible mask only available to big D
 
Angelagirl_86 said:
I honestly think everyone is just waaay too harsh on Charlotte, girl is 19 with twins and is a carer for her mum (everyone can say Donna seems fine but have they not clamped down on carers allowance so she must be genuine?)

Also all these people saying she needs to "better herself" honestly not everyone has o have aspirations- my dad doesn't have a qualification to his name worked a manual job his whole life and to me that's as worthy of being looked up to as a single mother going and doing a nursing degree.

I just think her kids are still so young - if once the twins start school she still ain't working (if she's not a full time carer then) then yes I can understand everyone's criticism.

Also to the person who said about girls not wanting to work so just keep having kids - I'm sure there are some who do it but to me going out and working a full time job is so much easier than handling a newborn baby so it does just baffle me why anyone would do it 😅
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I can see your point however the only issue Charlotte is going to have is if her mum does pass away there’s only going to be one lot of benefits coming in where as at the moment Donna would be getting a lot of benefits which obviously helps Charlotte out too if she needed it. Charlotte needs to learn to become financially stable for herself before anything does happen. Being 19 and having twins isn’t an excuse, there’s loads of girls out there who have 2 children by the time they are 19 who still work a part time job or study. She’s not Donnas carer her sister is, there’s nothing stopping her getting a part time job or going into studies, she would still have plenty of time to make memories with her mum and the girls
 
JHB73 said:
Anyone else think that Brett trying to get back with Charlie so now has to be horrible to this other girl (Charlotte) to make Charlie feel more secure
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She’s too pretty to be arguing with either of them 😂 if I was her I wouldn’t Brett the time of day she was really doing some charity work there , Brett and Charlie are made for eachother looks wise
 
Laylayxo said:
She’s too pretty to be arguing with either of them 😂 if I was her I wouldn’t Brett the time of day she was really doing some charity work there , Brett and Charlie are made for eachother looks wise
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I think she’s stunning and also think Charlie’s really pretty as well (although not a very nice person at times). How Brett managed to get either of them is beyond me
 
Big D not wearing a mask as per usual. And I don’t wanna hear any bollocks about her being exempt, she has a face and a terminal illness, if she wants to spend as much time as she can with her family she should be wearing one!!!!! Very selfish behaviour. Terminal illness or not she doesn’t have my sympathy, as I think her passing will be really hard for Charlotte who clearly relies on her a lot.
 
Charlottes went live a little while ago to I guess rant to her followers that she’s ‘stranded’ because the lift in the train station was out of service. She apparently couldn’t go up the stairs because the girls were sleeping in their pushchair. Not being funny but there were other people and the train station staff on the platform that she could’ve easily asked to help her up the stairs but no she’s says that she’s going to put a complaint in to TfL 🥴
 
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