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I felt sorry for Chloe, he is clearly using her and she’s too insecure to find someone else. She needs to just move on and find someone better than him! Show him what he’s missing!!
I still feel sorry for ste, he’s trying his best but amber just messes with his head completely. I think he struggles with his mental health anyway and she realllllly doesn’t help the situation. He is so in love with her and she just doesn’t give a tit. He has massively missed out on Hudson being a new born ☹️

Respect for tel ringing Dylan and talking about it like adults! I don’t understand why they are keeping the baby a secret and have clearly told the kids to not say anything. I know it has nothing to do with Megan but out of respect they should have told her I think. 🤷🏼‍♀️ I really like them together tbh! Just don’t rush into having a baby please megs 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻
 
Ltc8106 said:
Has anyone just seen Chloe’s recent post about losing her aunty? The poor girl can’t catch a break. I’m wondering if this was the aunty who gave her the money to pay for her flooring? Anyone know what’s happened to her. Poor Chloe she really is going through hell at the moment.
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Omg yeah how awful for her. Wonder if it's the same one who's been on the show. Poor chloe and her family.
 
opini0nated said:
hi there! just been stalking this thread and saw some posts about sassi, she was definitely my favourite of the mums as she actually seemed to know what she was doing such as getting a job and always making meals for her family which is a contrast from some of the others like chloe who take up every hobby in the book and rely on insta deals for money. granted, she’s studying but she seems to have a new interest every episode. who saw that next week she’s starting singing? yikes! anyway, I was quite upset when I saw sassi wasn’t in this season, much prefer her to this new Emma but glad Shannon isn’t in it as all her clips were arguing! Sassi used to go to my gym, not sure if she still does because lockdown and I hadn’t seen her beforehand and she was actually really nice when I spoke to her, even offered I could join her PT group! wish she was still in the show as she mentioned Darren when I met her and going on holiday with him and I was intrigued!
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Have you seen Sassi’s Instagram? She does just as many sponsored ads as all the other girls, they all advertise the same things! And Chloe has always worked - Megan, Amber and Shannon maybe not though.
 
I came on here to say Emma needs a flippin pram!! And I see a couple of others have commented it too. Even on the one occasion we saw her gorgeous little baby in a pram, he was in the car seat attached to it. Why??!!! Its well documented that they shouldn't spent long periods of time in car seats. I really liked Emma at the start, and I don't dislike her now, but her immaturity is showing through now. Going back to Nasseh even though he is a complete waste of space. Hair done, nails done all the time but can't afford a decent pram for her baby. I know she has autism but she seems to have a fantastic support network around her so you'd think they would advise her if she needs it.
 
My heart absolutely breaks for Chloe, I've been the girl that takes the tit off her partner because you just want them to love you. It's awful to watch it play out on telly and you can see how much his comments and actions hurt her, she just doesn't make a big deal out of it as much because she doesn't want to rock the boat and potentially make him leave. I don't dislike Jordan, I just think their relationship has run it's course, they don't make each other happy any more.

Awful to see her aunty has passed away, I hope she doesn't use Jordan as an emotional crutch time and end up in a worse place. Hopefully her family can all rally round and support each other 😔
 
Trey93 said:
Amber is really struggling and it must be hard but Ste deserves to see the baby too. She could have pumped so he could feed the baby although it looked like they gave him formula at the end
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You shouldn't pump before 6-8 weeks as it can less with your supply and in turn cause blockages, oversupply and mastitis. It's also not good for a breastfed baby to be given bottles and dummies before BF is well established as it can cause nipple preference, latch problems and stretch their stomachs. Some women also simply cannot express milk despite being perfectly able to breastfeed as pumps aren't as effective as a well latched baby. Plenty of women who exclusively breastfeed can only express an ounce or less.

Also the fact that she clearly, You know, just didn't want to? She is making it very clear she wishes to keep Hudson off of formula and breastfeed him so I'm not sure why her mum and Steve can't just support her making that choice for her baby. 🤷‍♀️ Ste' s making out like he can't get near the baby but there's no reason he can't bath, change, wind, cuddle, massage, do tummy time, read to, sing to, skin to skin with baby, take him out in the pram or a sling for a walk whilst Amber naps etc. Not bonding with a baby just because you can't feed it is a lame excuse. Telling her he's not happy Hudson is staying with her when she's just given birth tonhim a week ago is vile - I honestly wouldn't lost it if I were her. And I don't even like the girl 😂
 
Brightybox said:
My heart absolutely breaks for Chloe, I've been the girl that takes the tit off her partner because you just want them to love you. It's awful to watch it play out on telly and you can see how much his comments and actions hurt her, she just doesn't make a big deal out of it as much because she doesn't want to rock the boat and potentially make him leave. I don't dislike Jordan, I just think their relationship has run it's course, they don't make each other happy any more.

Awful to see her aunty has passed away, I hope she doesn't use Jordan as an emotional crutch time and end up in a worse place. Hopefully her family can all rally round and support each other 😔
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Same here, I was also that girl... it went on for 15 years when to be fair it had ran its course within the first 2! I was too frightened of doing it alone, I also put up with domestic violence the last 5 or so years. I eventually found the courage to break free with the help of my family & friends... (even though I hadn’t really had a lot to do with them because of him) they had my back & built me up.
Chloe will be just fine & I bet she has an amazing glow up (as have I) when she has him out of her system, it’s always the best revenge 😂❤️👌🏻
That poor family has been through loads of late!
 
Honestly I think ReAnne is a troublemaker. In the baby shop, she was bitchy and Dylan looked awkward as duck. At the meal she really wanted a good witch and Dylan didn’t seem to care then either. I do think Dylan has mellowed, I’m not his biggest fan but to me ReAnne seems very threatened by Megan still. I guess that’s what happens when your man cheats on his gf with you. As for Tel, I do think he overreacted about the school situation and while I think he’s a knob for it, he’s also a young guy in the middle of this baby triangle and it must be difficult.

Chloe I do feel sorry for. Yes she nags, yes she’s a tit cook but nobody deserves to be treated how she is. It’s easy to say just leave but that girl loves Jordan with every inch of her heart and she just wants to be loved in return. Sadly I don’t think that will ever happen and she will hurt herself more in the long run. I find it difficult to watch because ive been in a relationship like that and it’s horrendous. No woman should feel THAT insecure because one silly man couldn’t appreciate what he had at home. I’ll say it again if you’re not happy then leave, don’t shatter someone’s confidence because you thought with your cock.

I feel sorry for amber in the sense that she’s had it rough since Hudson was born but she messes with Stes head and she knows it. Yes she’s BF but that doesn’t mean Ste can’t see his own newborn son. He’s convenient when it suits her and nothing more.

With emma I agree she needs a pram but apart from that, I don’t have much to say. She clearly loves her son and I think she has the best intentions for him. She’s only 18 and I think she’s doing an alright job so far. I’d have head butted her ex so she’s got more patience than me.
 
Bec3007 said:
Honestly I think ReAnne is a troublemaker. In the baby shop, she was bitchy and Dylan looked awkward as duck. At the meal she really wanted a good witch and Dylan didn’t seem to care then either. I do think Dylan has mellowed, I’m not his biggest fan but to me ReAnne seems very threatened by Megan still. I guess that’s what happens when your man cheats on his gf with you. As for Tel, I do think he overreacted about the school situation and while I think he’s a knob for it, he’s also a young guy in the middle of this baby triangle and it must be difficult.

Chloe I do feel sorry for. Yes she nags, yes she’s a tit cook but nobody deserves to be treated how she is. It’s easy to say just leave but that girl loves Jordan with every inch of her heart and she just wants to be loved in return. Sadly I don’t think that will ever happen and she will hurt herself more in the long run. I find it difficult to watch because ive been in a relationship like that and it’s horrendous. No woman should feel THAT insecure because one silly man couldn’t appreciate what he had at home. I’ll say it again if you’re not happy then leave, don’t shatter someone’s confidence because you thought with your cock.

I feel sorry for amber in the sense that she’s had it rough since Hudson was born but she messes with Stes head and she knows it. Yes she’s BF but that doesn’t mean Ste can’t see his own newborn son. He’s convenient when it suits her and nothing more.

With emma I agree she needs a pram but apart from that, I don’t have much to say. She clearly loves her son and I think she has the best intentions for him. She’s only 18 and I think she’s doing an alright job so far. I’d have head butted her ex so she’s got more patience than me.
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I havent watched last nights yet but completely agree with this full comment 👏👏
 
Fishnips said:
You shouldn't pump before 6-8 weeks as it can less with your supply and in turn cause blockages, oversupply and mastitis. It's also not good for a breastfed baby to be given bottles and dummies before BF is well established as it can cause nipple preference, latch problems and stretch their stomachs. Some women also simply cannot express milk despite being perfectly able to breastfeed as pumps aren't as effective as a well latched baby. Plenty of women who exclusively breastfeed can only express an ounce or less.

Also the fact that she clearly, You know, just didn't want to? She is making it very clear she wishes to keep Hudson off of formula and breastfeed him so I'm not sure why her mum and Steve can't just support her making that choice for her baby. 🤷‍♀️ Ste' s making out like he can't get near the baby but there's no reason he can't bath, change, wind, cuddle, massage, do tummy time, read to, sing to, skin to skin with baby, take him out in the pram or a sling for a walk whilst Amber naps etc. Not bonding with a baby just because you can't feed it is a lame excuse. Telling her he's not happy Hudson is staying with her when she's just given birth tonhim a week ago is vile - I honestly wouldn't lost it if I were her. And I don't even like the girl 😂
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He voiced his opinion but didnt kick off at her though - he even said that. Hudson is HIS child too and he has every right to express concern. I would have concerns about a new born being in hospital for a week, particularly with his mum being so ill. Hospitals are riddled with illness. Appreciate she wants to breast feed but she needs to take a step back and think about whether her desire to do it is clouding the well being of her child. She needs to stop making out she’s a single mum who is so hard done by. She said a few episodes ago she wouldn’t have ste in the house, she makes out this baby is hers and he is just on hand to look after Brooklyn. I feel bad she has had such a rough time but I think her behaviour is selfish and (illness aside) focussed purely on what she wants.

Also... controversial opinion. But if Jordan behaved the way chloe did...not answering her phone, coming home late and missing dinner plans she would’ve KICKED OFF!!!
 
Fishnips said:
Also the fact that she clearly, You know, just didn't want to? She is making it very clear she wishes to keep Hudson off of formula and breastfeed him so I'm not sure why her mum and Steve can't just support her making that choice for her baby. 🤷‍♀️ Ste' s making out like he can't get near the baby but there's no reason he can't bath, change, wind, cuddle, massage, do tummy time, read to, sing to, skin to skin with baby, take him out in the pram or a sling for a walk whilst Amber naps etc. Not bonding with a baby just because you can't feed it is a lame excuse. Telling her he's not happy Hudson is staying with her when she's just given birth tonhim a week ago is vile - I honestly wouldn't lost it if I were her. And I don't even like the girl 😂
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This 🙏🏼🙏🏼 I did not want to leave my baby for a second after he was born I can completely relate to Amber here, and it was so annoying when my partner and MIL were making me feel bad for not wanting to leave him.
The girl has literally just had a baby, Ste and her mam need to leave her alone she's doing what she thinks is best for him in regards to being close to him and breastfeeding
 
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