Teen Mum UK #18

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Spencerskates said:
Amber is probably Chloe’s size/bigger butdresses amazingly, wears clothes that fit and flatter and she always looks gorgeous. Chloe could learn a thing or two!
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Amber really does dress so well!. I didn’t particularly warm to amber during the series, but to give her credit, she hasn’t succumbed to the photoshop madness and isn’t afraid to show her true self!.
 
Hayley2349 said:
Amber really does dress so well!. I didn’t particularly warm to amber during the series, but to give her credit, she hasn’t succumbed to the photoshop madness and isn’t afraid to show her true self!.
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I like Amber and I like ste but together I’m just waiting for it to kick off. I hope they have done what they said with a year off the screens and worked together for the boys to bring them up with no drama. Amber is a great person but when you look at her mother, you can see where she gets the urge for dramatics.
She’s a lot more down to earth than Chloe but I think she’s probably more realistic. She’s in rented accommodation with 2 boys possibly one of them with ADHD and she just gets on with it. I would say girls probably look at Chloe and Amber and aspire to be like Chloe but in reality Amber is so much more relatable
 
_basic_ said:
I like Amber and I like ste but together I’m just waiting for it to kick off. I hope they have done what they said with a year off the screens and worked together for the boys to bring them up with no drama. Amber is a great person but when you look at her mother, you can see where she gets the urge for dramatics.
She’s a lot more down to earth than Chloe but I think she’s probably more realistic. She’s in rented accommodation with 2 boys possibly one of them with ADHD and she just gets on with it. I would say girls probably look at Chloe and Amber and aspire to be like Chloe but in reality Amber is so much more relatable
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Exactly this! At least amber doesnt take any tit off a man either, I would hate my daughter to watch Chloe and think it’s ok to forgive a cheating partner because you have a nice haaaaase together
 
sassylash said:
omg how many loves of life’s has she sad she’s not even 30 yet
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I'm not defending her here but think she's said she has eupd/bpd and I've got it along with bipolar and other conditions and one of the problems we face is having intense relationships so this may explain her behaviour 🙂 it's not a very nice condition to have and it's not very well understood either :(

We also make very implusive decisions which may explain why she kept a horse in the back garden
 
Rach88 said:
I'm not defending her here but think she's said she has eupd/bpd and I've got it along with bipolar and other conditions and one of the problems we face is having intense relationships so this may explain her behaviour 🙂 it's not a very nice condition to have and it's not very well understood either :(

We also make very implusive decisions which may explain why she kept a horse in the back garden
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I get it because I also have EUPD but I don’t think there’s been a time where she’s engaged in therapy further than couples/family for her and Dylan. It’s very hard to find the balance of living ‘responsibly’, if you will, but with it becoming more of a well known and recognised condition more and more the support alongside is broadening too. Obviously it is her choice to do whatever but I wonder if she’s fell out with her Mum, as from the series, she seemed to help influence more positive and constructive decisions.
 
Bhyfs said:
I get it because I also have EUPD but I don’t think there’s been a time where she’s engaged in therapy further than couples/family for her and Dylan. It’s very hard to find the balance of living ‘responsibly’, if you will, but with it becoming more of a well known and recognised condition more and more the support alongside is broadening too. Obviously it is her choice to do whatever but I wonder if she’s fell out with her Mum, as from the series, she seemed to help influence more positive and constructive decisions.
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It is getting more recognised but there's still a long way to go in my view it's still very stigmatised and mh teams will find any excuse not to work with you. She's not the type to sit there and want to talk about things and rather bottle them up the thearpy I need the mental health team will not offer so I'd need to go private I live alone with a flat to run its just not feasible so I've got the dbt work book for now I'm not sure I think they still speak
 
Rach88 said:
It is getting more recognised but there's still a long way to go in my view it's still very stigmatised and mh teams will find any excuse not to work with you. She's not the type to sit there and want to talk about things and rather bottle them up the thearpy I need the mental health team will not offer so I'd need to go private I live alone with a flat to run its just not feasible so I've got the dbt work book for now I'm not sure I think they still speak
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Oh no I completely agree, I’ve been passed around a fair few and even now I’m not 100% with a team because they either don’t have the staff and/or therapies available unless you wait 3-5 years it seems. I opted to attend a local support group in the meantime which has helped more than any team ever has. A DBT workbook sounds like it’d be a great starting point but definitely push for the therapy you need, they wouldn’t turn away a broken leg so I truly believe there will be funding somewhere for you to be able to access it, MH just require you to jump through a few burning hoops first lol. Regardless, Megan does seem to be doing okay despite her boyfriend choices. I hope you find the right pathway that can help you along soon♥️
 
Bhyfs said:
I get it because I also have EUPD but I don’t think there’s been a time where she’s engaged in therapy further than couples/family for her and Dylan. It’s very hard to find the balance of living ‘responsibly’, if you will, but with it becoming more of a well known and recognised condition more and more the support alongside is broadening too. Obviously it is her choice to do whatever but I wonder if she’s fell out with her Mum, as from the series, she seemed to help influence more positive and constructive decisions.
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i mean she could have had therapy without any of us knowing the show hasnt recorded for a long while now so dumno if thats fair to say
 
Bhyfs said:
Oh no I completely agree, I’ve been passed around a fair few and even now I’m not 100% with a team because they either don’t have the staff and/or therapies available unless you wait 3-5 years it seems. I opted to attend a local support group in the meantime which has helped more than any team ever has. A DBT workbook sounds like it’d be a great starting point but definitely push for the therapy you need, they wouldn’t turn away a broken leg so I truly believe there will be funding somewhere for you to be able to access it, MH just require you to jump through a few burning hoops first lol. Regardless, Megan does seem to be doing okay despite her boyfriend choices. I hope you find the right pathway that can help you along soon♥
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It's ridiculous isn't it I would go to support groups but they all stopped in the first lockdown and their still not back on they've tried doing it through zoom but literally I can't get anything out of it doing it via there at all for me group works virtually but that's me yes absolutely I say this everytime they try fob me off 😂 I keep pushing though I'll get there aye bless her

Bhyfs said:
She’s been very vocal on her stories about not needing any medication so I assumed she hadn’t, apologies if I offended you but it’s my opinion at the end of the day
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And tbf to her medication as you well know dosent specifically treat bpd just other symptoms around it I can't blame her actually tbf
 
Here she goes again ..all she shares is stuff where she insists people are intimidated/jealous 😭 girl thinks she’s chocolate
 

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whisperchat said:
Chloe is just so desperate to portray the perfect life on social media. She just wants everyone to look at her and think WOW! Honestly all I think when I look at her is MUG
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Get where you are coming from, other month I told some girl about her boyfriend who been talking to me all the way through their relationship (I only found out about her because I found his Facebook) sent her screenshots of everything told her to even check the apps me and him were talking on. She gave me crap and stayed with him. Found her Instagram on the weekend and literally since the day I told her about me and him all she’s done is post pics of them together 😂 like if you didn’t know what happened you’ll think perfect couple but like looking out from the outside it’s like you can tell she’s trying to push an certain image
 
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