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Scar14 said:
I think all couples have their secrets and drama. The issue for most the girls on this show is that the secrets don’t stay a secret. But Chloe has done a good job of keeping her private life private. With regards to Marley, kids do pick up on stuff but at least he’s not stuck in the middle of it. They’re not arguing in front of him (that we’ve seen) and he’s not around when Chloe is upset or talking about the drama (again, that we’ve seen) which is more than we can say for the rest of the girls.
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I agree, I think Chloe is the only one who’s realised that she can still give some of her private life to the show to keep her still relevant, but keep a lot to her self so she’s not fully airing her dirty laundry. Almost like the perfect balancing act really.

Like most of us here, I can’t stand smoking in day to day life (purely because the smell makes me feel sick) but after a couple of drinks I’m the first one pestering somebody for a ciggy in the smoking area haha!! This is the same for weed, besides smoking at uni it’s never something I’ve really done as an adult. But I’ve also been to Amsterdam quite a few times and smoke whilst I’m there.
 
CharlieSmith96 said:
I agree, I think Chloe is the only one who’s realised that she can still give some of her private life to the show to keep her still relevant, but keep a lot to her self so she’s not fully airing her dirty laundry. Almost like the perfect balancing act really.

Like most of us here, I can’t stand smoking in day to day life (purely because the smell makes me feel sick) but after a couple of drinks I’m the first one pestering somebody for a ciggy in the smoking area haha!! This is the same for weed, besides smoking at uni it’s never something I’ve really done as an adult. But I’ve also been to Amsterdam quite a few times and smoke whilst I’m there.
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To be honest it’s like when Sassi and Darren went to Amsterdam. We all know they both smoke weed from their insta and private life but when they went to Amsterdam together we didn’t see any evidence with what they were really do there even though we all probably know. I’m sure it was Chloe or Megan who said they get to decide what gets edited and what doesn’t

like I know the twitter cheating with Jordan was circling around twitter but the snapchat cheating was kept really quiet I only knew about it from the show.
 
Sorry but who wants to watch a YouTube video of her doing the same thing she does on most of her Insta stories 😴 someone send the girl some ideas 😭

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Judyjudgejudy said:
Because the court can't make Nasseh act as a parent, they can make an order but they can't make him be present or show for visits. She also can't just hop straight to court for CSA either. She has to ring up, they would set him up on direct pay first (he pays direct to emma) they are ridiculously lenient for late payments ,and give the non resident parent several chances. Then if there is a an obvious history of missed payments ( ideally 6+ months), they will seek an attachment on wages or benefits.

Nasseh also strikes me as the type who gets paid under the table, so his maintenance amount would be ridiculously low for that reason, not forgetting the fact he has several children.

For the joy of being rightfully paid as well she also has to pay £20 to open a claim against him 😂 Honestly wish the UK was more like America in regards to child support.
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Yep my kids dad pays like £3 per week out of his unemployment benefits, works all the time but cash in hand so it's never declared.

Also he can not sign on for a few months and get all his money backdated when he does, but they won't backdate the child support lol
 
Angelagirl_86 said:
Yep my kids dad pays like £3 per week out of his unemployment benefits, works all the time but cash in hand so it's never declared.

Also he can not sign on for a few months and get all his money backdated when he does, but they won't backdate the child support lol
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My favourite with CSA is also if the non resident parent is living with a person who has kids, and they are in receipt of child benefit. The non resident parent gets a nice little deduction on how much support they have to pay you as well. Plenty of ways to dodge around your real contribution for CS🤬😡

So Emma would be lucky if she got anything from Mumbles, unfortunately.
 
Jennytea said:
Sorry but who wants to watch a YouTube video of her doing the same thing she does on most of her Insta stories 😴 someone send the girl some ideas 😭

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I find chloe so dull and boring. No I do not want to watch a video of your skin care. Honestly if I see one more insta wanker show off there lumi I might scream they can’t be that amazing as the company’s handing them out free to these people. If there as good as were told why hadn’t they brought one themselves in the first place
 
Judyjudgejudy said:
My favourite with CSA is also if the non resident parent is living with a person who has kids, and they are in receipt of child benefit. The non resident parent gets a nice little deduction on how much support they have to pay you as well. Plenty of ways to dodge around your real contribution for CS🤬😡

So Emma would be lucky if she got anything from Mumbles, unfortunately.
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In my experience the CSA are not looking out for the kids and do alot of protecting the non resident parent however after a massive fight he does now pay but sporadic but they say along as he pays sometimes they can't take action . They suck big time . Why is the dad of the non bio kid that has to be taken into account when calculating not supporting his own child or they probably are. so not only do they get child support for step child but get a % off supporting their own children this is wrong on so many levels .
 
Fozziebear79 said:
In my experience the CSA are not looking out for the kids and do alot of protecting the non resident parent however after a massive fight he does now pay but sporadic but they say along as he pays sometimes they can't take action . They suck big time . Why is the dad of the non bio kid that has to be taken into account when calculating not supporting his own child or they probably are. so not only do they get child support for step child but get a % off supporting their own children this is wrong on so many levels .
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The best one is my friend. She provided all details for CSA, they came back like this number doesn't pick up, this business says he doesn't work here and the female at the address says she never heard of him

She pointed out the female is her ex new partner, the address is also on the court order where she has to legally drop the children off! The business also pays him cash in hand so of course they won't declare him.

They told her there's nothing they can do as she's provided incorrect details in helping them trace him. He's basically a ghost, doesn't claim benefits, not on an electoral roll and not on any tenancy agreement.


Why I giggle when people immediately suggest CSA, you can tell they've never used them before.


Sorry for going off on a tangent everybody! I shall say no more, on my love for the CSA.

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Is he saying he wasn't present for the DNA? Most DNA places require mother, and father present for the swabbing. So did she do a sibling one for Jelani on Jeremiah?
 
Judyjudgejudy said:
The best one is my friend. She provided all details for CSA, they came back like this number doesn't pick up, this business says he doesn't work here and the female at the address says she never heard of him

She pointed out the female is her ex new partner, the address is also on the court order where she has to legally drop the children off! The business also pays him cash in hand so of course they won't declare him.

They told her there's nothing they can do as she's provided incorrect details in helping them trace him. He's basically a ghost, doesn't claim benefits, not on an electoral roll and not on any tenancy agreement.


Why I giggle when people immediately suggest CSA, you can tell they've never used them before.


Sorry for going off on a tangent everybody! I shall say no more, on my love for the CSA.


Is he saying he wasn't present for the DNA? Most DNA places require mother, and father present for the swabbing. So did she do a sibling one for Jelani on Jeremiah?
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Literally same as my sisters ex. She didn’t bother going to CSA for him to contribute, it was literally argument after argument with him till he contributed. He’s argument was the fact CSA was making his brother pay his ex £12 or £2.50 so that’s all my sister would get off him for two kids when his brother was only paying for one. He was a window cleaner so cash in hand so she was threatening to grass him up to benefits if nothing gets done so his was to try and get the kids taken off her. Now he just pays for what the kids needs and for material things to point score

lads need to be held accountable a way lot more
 
Lester34 said:
What I don’t get is why has he posted a random picture of himself with the text he’s put 🤨😂
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Yeah I know so random! I clicked on it to see what that post was about and it was a post from June 2020 🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄 he is so self involved!!

Judyjudgejudy said:
The best one is my friend. She provided all details for CSA, they came back like this number doesn't pick up, this business says he doesn't work here and the female at the address says she never heard of him

She pointed out the female is her ex new partner, the address is also on the court order where she has to legally drop the children off! The business also pays him cash in hand so of course they won't declare him.

They told her there's nothing they can do as she's provided incorrect details in helping them trace him. He's basically a ghost, doesn't claim benefits, not on an electoral roll and not on any tenancy agreement.


Why I giggle when people immediately suggest CSA, you can tell they've never used them before.


Sorry for going off on a tangent everybody! I shall say no more, on my love for the CSA.


Is he saying he wasn't present for the DNA? Most DNA places require mother, and father present for the swabbing. So did she do a sibling one for Jelani on Jeremiah?
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I have no idea! I have no clue on DNA tests, a little naive if I’m honest haha! But I would love to know if he was present or not!
 
tmttea said:
Yeah I know so random! I clicked on it to see what that post was about and it was a post from June 2020 🤣🤣🙄🙄🙄 he is so self involved!!


I have no idea! I have no clue on DNA tests, a little naive if I’m honest haha! But I would love to know if he was present or not!
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For it to stand up and be classed as valid in regards of court or maintenence, he would have had to be present. It's to stop paternity fraud. Its why courts don't really like them at home DNA tests, no proof who took the test. The clinic ideally likes to take a picture of the mum dad and child, and some form of identification presented.


Sibling DNA also isn't as reliable as a straight up parental DNA, learnt that gem from Jezza.


This whole outburst between them is making me nostalgic and reminding me of Jeremy Kyle.

Edit - Side note, I am not a professional in regards to DNA testing, my only experience in this matter is 10+ years of watching day time TV programmes that feature DNA testing 😄
 
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Judyjudgejudy said:
For it to stand up and be classed as valid in regards of court or maintenence, he would have had to be present. It's to stop paternity fraud. Its why courts don't really like them at home DNA tests, no proof who took the test. The clinic ideally likes to take a picture of the mum dad and child, and some form of identification presented.


Sibling DNA also isn't as reliable as a straight up parental DNA, learnt that gem from Jezza.


This whole outburst between them is making me nostalgic and reminding me of Jeremy Kyle.

Edit - Side note, I am not a professional in regards to DNA testing, my only experience in this matter is 10+ years of watching day time TV programmes that feature DNA testing 😄
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Your way more knowledgeable than me 🤣🤣

but yes I suppose it makes sense, picture and ID etc.

It does say on the DNA not for court use or something! So I’m guessing it was a at home test! But I can’t see why Emma would lie about Jelani being his?!!

Yes you are a dead beat!! Whether Jelani is his or not, he still doesn’t seem like the best dad to Miah!!
 

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Every one that isn’t court ordered will normally say not for court testing, it’s because they aren’t 100% that’s why it’s like 99.99999999999 🙄

but that’s a paternity test not a sibling test so she would have had to take a swab from mumbles at some point. He’s maybe insinuating she swapped his with her boyfriends Swab and that’s why he wants her boyfriend to take one too?
But surely the best result for Emma would be for her boyfriend to be the dad if that’s who she’s with lol why lie about it.
He’s just in denial talking absolute tit.
 
noddyrojjy said:
Every one that isn’t court ordered will normally say not for court testing, it’s because they aren’t 100% that’s why it’s like 99.99999999999 🙄

but that’s a paternity test not a sibling test so she would have had to take a swab from mumbles at some point. He’s maybe insinuating she swapped his with her boyfriends Swab and that’s why he wants her boyfriend to take one too?
But surely the best result for Emma would be for her boyfriend to be the dad if that’s who she’s with lol why lie about it.
He’s just in denial talking absolute tit.
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She’s not with him anymore is she?
 
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