Teen Mum UK #12

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Pansypotts said:
Ambers mum is toxic, she needs to stay out of it. It’s none of her business really.
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Things seemed to be quiet in the Amber and Ste drama before all of this. Ste may well be all of those things but none of this drama would have happened if Amanda had not commented about it. Amanda brought this current Instagram drama onto Amber all on her own. If Amber wants to tell someone off she should start with her mum.
 
How anyone can feel sorry for ste is beyond me. I don’t agree with ambers mum plastering it all over SM but it’s blatantly obvious that Ste is abusive to amber and is extremely good at manipulating the situation to look like amber is the instigator. All I see from amber is reactive abuse. Ste is a scumbag. The episode where he pushed the door into amber when she was pregnant with his child? Ew. I’m sure I’ve heard that he has spat at her as well.

Missdissapointed said:
How anyone can feel sorry for ste is beyond me. I don’t agree with ambers mum plastering it all over SM but it’s blatantly obvious that Ste is abusive to amber and is extremely good at manipulating the situation to look like amber is the instigator. All I see from amber is reactive abuse. Ste is a scumbag. The episode where he pushed the door into amber when she was pregnant with his child? Ew. I’m sure I’ve heard that he has spat at her as well.
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And to add, I don’t agree with ambers mum putting it in SM but I think she’s sick of seeing amber being constantly trodden down by him
 
I don’t think ambers mum Should have posted it on social media. But I wouldn’t suggest staying out of it completely. Everyone needs someone to vent to. And Let’s say for argument sake Amber were in an abusive relationship (I’m not saying that’s true), you would hope her mum would be there for her. But posting it on Facebook was bang out of order
 
CharlieSmith96 said:
Thank you for doing the lord’s work and messaging Amber!! I have to say though, I really feel sorry for Ste. He’s clearly vulnerable and from what we’ve seen of him flying off the handle so isn’t mentally stable (not saying this as a jab). But I can imagine how it feels, not seeing your kids for 7 weeks because your ex has told you that you can’t stay. And then you hear there’s a new guy who will be seeing your own kids more than you, I’d be devastated too.

I think Amber confuses Ste being mad about her speaking to a guy with Ste being jealous of her moving on. I think Ste kicks off that the guy will be more involved in his kids lives than he is, not because Amber is moving on.
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something that was said by amber and ste’s therapist on the show is that ste has very low self esteem and he views things said to him in an extreme way which is why he flies off the handle, so you’re totally right about his mental state needing to be taken into consideration
 
TeaAndYoutube said:
I’m American and have never heard of “Ste” as a nickname for Steven. It’s usually shortened to Steve but I can’t see our Ste as a Steve, it sounds goofy. I can’t look at the name Steve the same way anymore. If you’re a Steven or even just a Steve you’re now a “Ste” to me
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Probably because we say our vowels shorter than you do, so Ste rolls off our tongue better than yours. The nickname Ste is very stereotypical here, for the most part I’ve only encountered young Stes or older people who won’t/can’t grow up 🤣 Sorry in advance to anyone who knows a ste
 
SimbKins said:
I don’t think ambers mum Should have posted it on social media. But I wouldn’t suggest staying out of it completely. Everyone needs someone to vent to. And Let’s say for argument sake Amber were in an abusive relationship (I’m not saying that’s true), you would hope her mum would be there for her. But posting it on Facebook was bang out of order
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Definitely shouldn’t have posted it. If anything the fact they have been on the show should be more of a reason to keep things separate. Nothing good ever comes from sharing these kinds of disagreements no matter how frustrated her mum might be
 
SimbKins said:
I don’t think ambers mum Should have posted it on social media. But I wouldn’t suggest staying out of it completely. Everyone needs someone to vent to. And Let’s say for argument sake Amber were in an abusive relationship (I’m not saying that’s true), you would hope her mum would be there for her. But posting it on Facebook was bang out of order
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She doesn’t need to stay out of it she just needs to keep it off social media. The fact that she had to say her post wasn’t about herself is laughable. She knew what she was doing by posting it. She wanted to shame Ste to bring out support for Amber. Now Amber can’t get away from not commenting about the situation. They both have to one up each other with nasty comments to prove the other is a terrible person. Amber and Ste will never move on whether it’s co-parenting situations or relationships if other people keep opening up new wounds with their meddling. Amber seemed to be in a good place mentally lately and this isn’t helping. They feed off of the drama of playing with each other’s emotions. It’s a highly toxic situation
 
Bk2021 said:
What’s up with TMT & her comments on Ste’s live? Thought gossip pages are meant to be unbiased? That page is an absolute joke & how unprofessional considering she’s meant to be a ✨journalist✨

TMT’s comment for anyone who doesn’t follow (excuse her poor grammar & spelling 😂🥴):

“Stee won’t let me joint and Amber will tell him off like last time she’s controls everything he does”

“there man haters”

“I have always support you stee”
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Fact the gossip page is now exposing the TMT page 😂
 
I just wanna know what I did to get blocked by the new gossip page 💔💔 never even liked or commenting on anything!
 
Missdissapointed said:
just watched a clip of Ste’s live, he made me feel sick. He wants to concentrate more on his hygiene than abusing amber. Typical abuser wanting sympathy
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Wow you really have w lot of hate for Ste. You should be careful throwing the word abuser round like it’s nothing. You don’t know them personally so you can’t really make that much of a serious judgment
 
Missdissapointed said:
Amber is reactive to Ste. Call them as I see them. He’s blatantly abusive to her on the show 😂
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So by your logic it’s okay for Amber to have violent outbursts and not Ste? I just think we see what’s edited onto the show and a few clips on insta that’s it. We don’t know any of the teen mum families personally to comment who is and isn’t abusive. It’s a serious allegation, just because it’s obvious to you doesn’t make someone automatically an abuser! He hasn’t come across that way to me? He’s reacted to the drama publicly in not the best way but on the show I don’t think he was abusive at all either? Amber clearly didn’t too because she begged for him back multiple times and even had another baby with him. If anything, Amber was mentally abusive to him on the show when he was with Kirsty! But like I said, we don’t know them so we can’t comment serious allegations like that
 
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