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Ambers mum has done completely the opposite of what she thought she was doing 🤣 she’s made Amber look a dick and tbh I feel really sorry for Ste. His live is heart breaking and just shows people only tell one side of the story. If her and her mum are having every Tom dick and Harry round and Ste has a vulnerable dad he’s obviously going to be nervous about seeing the kids. Also, ambers mum saying he was kicking off in front of the kids but thought he hadn’t seen them for weeks? She’s an utter joke. Really really made her and Amber look like complete idiots
The moms on insta saying hes playing victim but also saying he calls them 100 times a day. Like where is she trying to go with this!? 😅
 
I totally agree with this. Breast feeding is so rewarding, I breast fed for 7 months. It was harder for me to stop than my baby because I was so addicted to the closeness that we shared. The first time they went to sleep without it I cried so much haha.

I think once a child starts to walk breast feeding should be limited and eventually stopped because it just becomes a comfort to them and they don’t actually need it anymore.

Don’t come at me breast feeding police ha we all have our own opinions and what is right for me isn’t right for everyone of course.

I did want to just ignore this comment but I just want to say im not the breastfeeding police but I am passionate about spreading the right information, breastfeeding has health benefit past 1 years old, plus babies can start walking at 10 month and some can start at like 18 months, basing when to stop feeding on walking is ridiculous.

also does the same go for bottle feeding? Once a baby starts walking should their mum cut out their milk?
 
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I’ve messaged amber, her response is;
•Stes found out that she is speaking to someone and amber questioned him on the you haven’t seen the boys for 7 weeks but can now come see them for the birthday, he gave her loads of abuse last night for it that’s why Amanda’s status was wrote
•he’s hurting from it
•he’s said because she’s speaking to someone and he doesn’t want the kids to be around the guy eventually he’s going to make her life hell starting with a live video and that he will smash anyone’s face in who goes near the kids cos he can’t cope with it
•she’s not stopped the kids from seeing him, shes done nothing but help him and support him through this lockdown
•her or her mum are not violent, it’s him that is violent that’s why she doesn’t want him in the house no longer especially for long periods
•she’s had about 100 abusive messages from that live people telling her to kill her self, kids get took off her and this is apparently what he said he would do and make happen to ruin her life.
Omg
That is all I’ve got for now. (had to keep going back to the chat to write all this) #commitment

I did want to just ignore this comment but I just want to say im not the breastfeeding police but I am passion about spreading the right information, breastfeeding has health benefit past 1 years old, plus babies can start walking at 10 month and some can start at like 18 months, basing when to stop feeding on walking is ridiculous.

also does the same go for bottle feeding? Once a baby starts walking should their mum cut out their milk?
Fed is best 👏🏼🙌🏼
 
Oh Ste is such a baby. Amber’s mum should not be putting her business online, Ste is using this as an excuse to have a tantrum, in public, Brooklyn is more composed than he is. I bet his ex Kirsty is laughing her head off at all this, she obviously had a lot going for her compared to Amber and treated him so well, lovely gifts and giving him lifts everywhere and cheated on her, then binned her off all on tv. Let’s hope she is going out with someone more on her level now.
 
People that are saying what’s the difference between this lockdown and the last two. This one differs because of the new strain that is highly contagious hence the super spike in the third wave. Stee and Amber both have many faults and they just don’t seem to get along on any level they both need therapy.
The new variant only got discovered recently less than 7 weeks ago, this lockdown is a lot more lenient then the first lockdown. Ste was living with his dad during the first lockdown and was still seeing the kids then and during November lockdown but suddnely during this one his dad is vulnerable and not seeing the kids? It doesn’t make any sense
 
I think this seems like a name she would go for, goes well with Isabella and she definitely likes traditional names rather than made up like Megan dulcie... surely she's invented that, how uNiqUe

Dulcie isn’t a made up name as such. I had a great auntie called Dolsee and have a niece named after her spelt Dolcie, I also have a school friend with a daughter named Dolcie, all from before Teen Mom UK.
 
I’ve messaged amber, her response is;
•Stes found out that she is speaking to someone and amber questioned him on the you haven’t seen the boys for 7 weeks but can now come see them for the birthday, he gave her loads of abuse last night for it that’s why Amanda’s status was wrote
•he’s hurting from it
•he’s said because she’s speaking to someone and he doesn’t want the kids to be around the guy eventually he’s going to make her life hell starting with a live video and that he will smash anyone’s face in who goes near the kids cos he can’t cope with it
•she’s not stopped the kids from seeing him, shes done nothing but help him and support him through this lockdown
•her or her mum are not violent, it’s him that is violent that’s why she doesn’t want him in the house no longer especially for long periods
•she’s had about 100 abusive messages from that live people telling her to kill her self, kids get took off her and this is apparently what he said he would do and make happen to ruin her life.
Omg
That is all I’ve got for now. (had to keep going back to the chat to write all this) #commitment


Fed is best 👏🏼🙌🏼
Thank you for doing the lord’s work and messaging Amber!! I have to say though, I really feel sorry for Ste. He’s clearly vulnerable and from what we’ve seen of him flying off the handle so isn’t mentally stable (not saying this as a jab). But I can imagine how it feels, not seeing your kids for 7 weeks because your ex has told you that you can’t stay. And then you hear there’s a new guy who will be seeing your own kids more than you, I’d be devastated too.

I think Amber confuses Ste being mad about her speaking to a guy with Ste being jealous of her moving on. I think Ste kicks off that the guy will be more involved in his kids lives than he is, not because Amber is moving on.
 
Thank you for doing the lord’s work and messaging Amber!! I have to say though, I really feel sorry for Ste. He’s clearly vulnerable and from what we’ve seen of him flying off the handle so isn’t mentally stable (not saying this as a jab). But I can imagine how it feels, not seeing your kids for 7 weeks because your ex has told you that you can’t stay. And then you hear there’s a new guy who will be seeing your own kids more than you, I’d be devastated too.

I think Amber confuses Ste being mad about her speaking to a guy with Ste being jealous of her moving on. I think Ste kicks off that the guy will be more involved in his kids lives than he is, not because Amber is moving on.
The fact that she has to get abuse thrown at her for moving on/having a new boyfriend is not right though, the girl sounds drained with it all. Unfortunately that’s life though and he has to man up and accept it, it’s hard and emotional yes but Thousands of split up parents eventually with have a new woman or man around their kids, people can’t expect to be single all their life because the other parent doesn’t like it. Everyone will have different opinions though.

Feel bad for ste, last lockdown Amber let him stay so that's the difference. This lockdown she isn't letting him stay and he lives with his dad. So he can't be going back and forth if his dad is vulnerable. I would have thought Amanda would understand as she is a carer.
She has said it’s because he was violent at times last time and caused unnecessary arguments and he tried it on with her when she was asleep😬
 
Ste is hardly David beckham ffs. I just don’t get it at all. Honestly amber needs to just move on with her life and allow herself to be happy. Ste reminds me of my ex so much and he was so manipulative and loved to play victim because he knew I wasn’t petty enough to air our drama on social media and would not retaliate ever.
she clearly doesn’t want him to stay because she’s speaking to someone else and Ste would probably try ruin that for her, he’s a psychopath. If you wanted to be a role model dad, get a job, rent your own house, and have your kids on your days off ste like most men do. Stop trying to sponge off your ex and make her put her life on hold cos you’re a bum.
 
Dulcie isn’t a made up name as such. I had a great auntie called Dolsee and have a niece named after her spelt Dolcie, I also have a school friend with a daughter named Dolcie, all from before Teen Mom UK.
I do like the dulcie, it’s not a common name but I like that. Do we know 100% the new baby’s name is Francesca?
 
The fact that she has to get abuse thrown at her for moving on/having a new boyfriend is not right though, the girl sounds drained with it all. Unfortunately that’s life though and he has to man up and accept it, it’s hard and emotional yes but Thousands of split up parents eventually with have a new woman or man around their kids, people can’t expect to be single all their life because the other parent doesn’t like it. Everyone will have different opinions though.


She has said it’s because he was violent at times last time and caused unnecessary arguments and he tried it on with her when she was asleep😬

It is a very hard situation I can completely understand loving someone but not been able live with them anymore. Sometimes it’s better for you mental health to go it alone then stay in a relationship that makes you unhappy. But then it opens up new people coming into your child’s life and that’s just horrible knowing you have no control over that aspect of your ex’s life and you can’t move on yourself but expect them to stay stuck in the past. Ste was having days out with Brooklyn and Kirsty and it killed Amber so she has to understand how it feels but like I said life moves on you can’t stay stuck in the past especially when it’s so toxic. Better two happy parents then living in a warzone.

The new variant only got discovered recently less than 7 weeks ago, this lockdown is a lot more lenient then the first lockdown. Ste was living with his dad during the first lockdown and was still seeing the kids then and during November lockdown but suddnely during this one his dad is vulnerable and not seeing the kids? It doesn’t make any sense

Im pretty sure the new strain has been rampant since Christmas which is 7 weeks ago.
 
Oh Ste is such a baby. Amber’s mum should not be putting her business online, Ste is using this as an excuse to have a tantrum, in public, Brooklyn is more composed than he is. I bet his ex Kirsty is laughing her head off at all this, she obviously had a lot going for her compared to Amber and treated him so well, lovely gifts and giving him lifts everywhere and cheated on her, then binned her off all on tv. Let’s hope she is going out with someone more on her level now.
In all fairness, Amanda started the whole drama thing publicly. If she hadn’t, I think Ste would still be pretty quite as he hasn’t really said anything memorable in a long time, kept it on the low. So I don’t think it’s a publicity thing for Ste
 
I don’t agree with how they speak or act to each other at all. It was awful in the show how they spoke to each other especially in front Brooklyn.
Ste shouldn’t be threatening and stop being horrible to Amber when she speaks to anyone, but it’s when they try making him out to be a bad dad when he clearly is not. A bad dad is Charlie and Emma’s baby dad, not ste.

I can see them both being aggressive with each other and they need to both grow up and stop airing their dirty laundry. Ambers mum posting that, and ste doing the live is just throwing more tit in that doesn’t need to be done.

stop dragging each other’s names through the mud and focus on what this would be doing to those poor children.
 
Am i right in saying someone on a previous thread mentioned Brooklyn had already had fillings etc because she gives them really sugary fizzy drinks? 😫

I remember in one of the episodes he was in his pushchair swigging from a bottle of coke wasn’t he 😂

I think this seems like a name she would go for, goes well with Isabella and she definitely likes traditional names rather than made up like Megan dulcie... surely she's invented that, how uNiqUe

Dulcie is a Spanish name...which makes me laugh even more tbh 😂😂
 
I would like to think Ste is worried about this new guy being around the kids because of COVID. If he is around the kids, the kids are also at school, and then they see Ste then Ste is potentially bringing all that back to his Dad. Amanda saying Ste should take the kids to his mum’s is mixing with several different households when you add in the kids which is not allowed. I don’t think the Butler’s understand nor follow the rules and restrictions.

Amber did the same thing when Ste was with Kirsty. Constantly mad at him for being with her, Brooklyn seeing Kirsty, them seeing Brooklyn together and having days out. You can’t win with Amber and Ste. Someone is always in the wrong but Amber in the end is always right. It’s a lot to keep up with.

I think Ste is just trying to defend himself after Amanda started drama that she should have stayed out of. Amanda is the instigator in this. Amber should be sorting this out with her mum.
 
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