See being a kid witnessing dv I donât want to dismiss claims
but then I am aware of women who would use dv as an excuse to break up with someone when dv wasnât involved. Itâs like when they break up with someone and they get with someone else a year or two younger and suddenly that person is a ponce.
Now going by my experience my mum would still let my sister see her dad, bearing in mind my mum had no family her own. So too her she wanted us to know our dads and have them involved no matter what and let us make our own judgement when old enough.Saying that though me mum never fully broke up with my sisters dad, he was very manipulative, narcissistic and really got into her head. To the point he made her think I was jealous of my sister and kept making out I was trying to kill her, perks of being the exâs kid
. So itâs probably different to when youâre not with them anymore.
Charlie is probably not arsed over H, so letting Brett have her is probably less hassle, less drama and saves going to court but then she needs H for engagement sake to get those insta collabs.
What I can say is though, if you was scared of someone coming over to beat you up etc you wouldnât make a big song and dance about it on Instagram like charlie did.
Charlotte not really saying whatâs happening. Well all I can say is my mum never fully said to anyone what was happening it was me and my older sister. She use to walk out with black eyes making excuses over excuses. My nan my dads mum confronted my sisters dad over stuff and letâs just say that meant my mum getting the biggest hiding I seen and it wasnât until I got in front of a punch meant for my mum it was taken seriously. A victim wonât come out or admit because of the consequences afterwards. My mum phoned the police loads but always thought itâll get better but it never.
If the dv is true then Charlie outted it for her own sake not for charlottes she did the same with other charlotte too. If she was that concerned she wouldnât make it public on social media