Justcametobenosy
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Definitely think she's pregnant.... harlow will be pushed aside, Oliver will be blackmailed and controlled and God help the baby
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Blondeangel2515
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The way it is currently most terrible things happens when it’s someone close to family or said child people forget this because they get more concerned over grooming happening online or by strangers outside when most cases it’s people close to the family. There’s some men that would only go out with women who are single mothers because it’s easy access to the child.
I’m not saying he’s a predator or anything but it is so concerning his behaviour towards Harlow and Charlie pushing this to point score against Brett
Here2BNosey
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This is absolutely my thought process. There is a picture on Charlie's grid of the 3 of them. Oliver is holding H and her smile is more like a grimace.
I wasn't saying he was a pweirdo I just find the entire situation really concerning. I also think most "normal" men would actively avoid taking someone else's toddler daughter swimming on their own if the weren't old enough to go in a change room and dress themselves or have another female present to do that. He could have taken her to a park, soft play, trampolining somewhere that doesn't involve him being naked in front of her and having her undressed my him. It literally makes my skin crawl thinking about it.
Do you have to get married if he’s in the navy and gets her pregnant? Seems a bit backwards for 2022
have the privilege
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Do you have to get married if he’s in the navy and gets her pregnant? Seems a bit backwards for 2022
A family member had to get married in the army in order to live in military housing together when he’s moved. I’d imagine it’s a similar thing? Single men were in barracks but being married means they’re entitled to a flat or house.
hello52718273
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You're absolutely right! It does feel so strange. When I was a toddler my stepdad didn't even want to be left on his own with me due to fear of what people would say. Let alone taking me swimming. So weirdThis is absolutely my thought process. There is a picture on Charlie's grid of the 3 of them. Oliver is holding H and her smile is more like a grimace.
I wasn't saying he was a pweirdo I just find the entire situation really concerning. I also think most "normal" men would actively avoid taking someone else's toddler daughter swimming on their own if the weren't old enough to go in a change room and dress themselves or have another female present to do that. He could have taken her to a park, soft play, trampolining somewhere that doesn't involve him being naked in front of her and having her undressed my him. It literally makes my skin crawl thinking about it.
Hann98
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Yeah if you’re not married you won’t get housing unless you meet the extreme requirements. It happened to me. We planned to get married I fell pregnant on the pill. My hubby was sue posting so we got married as it meant we’d be a unit xDo you have to get married if he’s in the navy and gets her pregnant? Seems a bit backwards for 2022
If they had a kid together and broke up meaning Ollie was a single parent and had the kid 50% of the time he’d be offered a house or flat. Xx
There’s deffo something going on. Easter leave is coming up so he’s used a few days leave I think
sparklingdee
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Ollie is a bit thick if he doesn't realise the implications of taking someone else's toddler swimming and having to get them changed - no it doesnt mean he's a weirdo or a s*x offender but just... why would you? Its not like him and chodder have been a solid couple for any long amount of time!!! when they break up he's the worst person in the world according to her
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Missdissapointed
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Nahh I’m sorry but this is such a disgusting thing to write about someone on the internet. You have absolutely no grounds to be making such allegations like that!! Potentially very dangerous!!!Came straight here when I saw Charlies story. I know a lot of us have thought there's something not quite right about the way he is with H. Seriously though, babysitting a 2 year old for the day and out of all the activities you could choose to do on a lovely warm sunny day, you take them swimming???Nah hun, f**k that. Brett get that pest away from your daughter before it's too late!!! So much for Charlie's, "all I wanna do is protect you".......ok sure you do !!!
Here2BNosey
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Allegations, what Allegations did I make? Its bleeping weird though whatever way you look at it and if I was Brett I would be concerned. Charlie goes big about protecting her daughter and she does the opposite. If that's the kind if behaviour you're cool with then that's your perogative but I would NOT allow a non family member to provide intimate care to my children. He could literally have picked any other activity, why that one? I'm also not the only person who thinks so, don't see you going for them though
Ishallnotbenamed
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Glad someone else finally said this. If it was Charlotte taking Harlow swimming nobody would bat an eyelid. As much as Charlie is an absolute weirdo and so is Ollie. I don’t think he’d ever do anything to hurt Harlow. If I’m honest I didn’t even think anything was wrong when I saw him posting. Or is that just me?
i think it’s easier for a female to take a little girl swimming though surely? I mean he’s not her dad so if she didn’t have the swimming costume under her clothes already he’d be undressing her and stuff not saying he’s a predator or would harm her but I can understand why people would question a man who’s been in the picture a matter of months taking on a responsibility like that for a child that’s not his.Glad someone else finally said this. If it was Charlotte taking Harlow swimming nobody would bat an eyelid. As much as Charlie is an absolute weirdo and so is Ollie. I don’t think he’d ever do anything to hurt Harlow. If I’m honest I didn’t even think anything was wrong when I saw him posting. Or is that just me?
However, him participating in swimming in the pool and all that I don’t think it’s bad, it is actually quite sweet; it’s more the dressing and undressing side of it that makes it seem slightly awkward.
I can’t imagine being with a man that’s not my children’s father and having him undress and dress my little girl when I’ve only been with him 6 months or so, but each to their own everyone has different levels of what’s the norm and isn’t to them I guess?
I don’t see bretts girlfriend Charlotte taking Harlow swimming when she has her by herself all day? I just think it’s about boundaries really he clearly doesn’t know the meaning. It’s all very weird and it probably makes brett very uncomfortable as it should.
hello52718273
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No I can't see her doing that either. Taking her to the park or something maybe. Ollie isn't her dad and I know it would make most people feel uncomfortable. It doesn't help that when Charlie and ollie split up she was making all sorts of allegations and calling him all sorts of names. She doesn't help any situations at all tbh
With Charlie’s abuse allegations during their break up would put doubts in anyones mind. If he’s abusive like she said he was would you really let him be around your child? I certainly wouldn’t!
hello52718273
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Exactly. If someone was abusive to me there is no way on earth I would let them anywhere near my child again! Let alone on their own. Silly girl making these allegations
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Maybe next time Hodders will think before she posts accusations to try get sympathy votes because now this is following on from information she spouted on social media…so before anyone tries to defend her she should remember what she’s posting..it was said back then if it wasn’t true it’s still going to stick with him
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Missdissapointed
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‘Brett get that pest away from your daughter before it’s too late’ I quoted your post because although others have commented that it’s slightly weird (which I agree with) what you’ve posted is taking it too far.Allegations, what Allegations did I make? Its bleeping weird though whatever way you look at it and if I was Brett I would be concerned. Charlie goes big about protecting her daughter and she does the opposite. If that's the kind if behaviour you're cool with then that's your perogative but I would NOT allow a non family member to provide intimate care to my children. He could literally have picked any other activity, why that one? I'm also not the only person who thinks so, don't see you going for them though
Missramone
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The comment did go too far without any evidence of him being a pweirdo, but to be fair we've all seen her allegations of abuse against him so what does she expect people to think.
Basically she's a bleeping idiot and needs to grow up a little bit, yes she's young and I was a bit of a tit at her age but I didn't have a child to worry about .
Basically she's a bleeping idiot and needs to grow up a little bit, yes she's young and I was a bit of a tit at her age but I didn't have a child to worry about .
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