Teen Mom Young & Pregnant #31
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tftrc
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Blondeangel2515
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Canāt believe people are arguing over this being A&E or the job centre Charlie really needs to upload more screenshots for dramaLol whyi cant lie, I have
winter.emily83
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He works full time though, Charlie sits on her arse & still seems to have Ā£Ā£Ā£Ā£ to do what she wants
she obviously gonnna have her more when 37.5 hours of the week arenāt taken up by work
Trace
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OooopsI think thatās where you sign in to A&E
she will be the type to tag herself there on fb and have hundreds ask if sheās ok and will just ignore everyone or reply to a few saying will pm you 
Scar14
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Sheās said several times that she works (she canāt have her nails done bc of it). We clearly donāt know what she does as sheās kept it quiet so how can we say she sits on her arse.He works full time though, Charlie sits on her arse & still seems to have Ā£Ā£Ā£Ā£ to do what she wants
I currently stay home and look after my baby but I still expect my partner to spend time with our son every single day, even after work.
tftrc
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I'm sure she posted herself wearing a black polo before with some sort of logo she probs just works in a pub or something hahahahaha
eyespybs123
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Not sure what's so funny about 'just' working in a pub?
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Sorry Iām a long-time lurker here and just been reading through this. I donāt usually post but I need to disagree with your first comment here. My brother work 12 hours/day Mon-Fri and unfortunately the Mother of his child will only really allow every other weekend stays. She wants some weekends with her kids (which I totally understand) and therefore thatās the best they can come up with. I think youāll find a lot more Dads then you realise are also in the same situation. Therefore slightly harsh to assume that these āDadsā are happy with these arrangements. Co-parenting can be extremely frustrating at times, i know this first hand.
The problem here is that Brett & Charlie are extremely immature and have stupidly posted about everything on social media.
However, the problems they are facing, are a lot more common than we realise.Iāll probably return to my background lurking again
I totally agree with most things posted here butcouldnāt possibly read this without helping to keep an open mind here that maybe Brett isnāt entirely āhappyā with his arrangements but unfortunately like many others, his hands are tied.
Omg would you climb out of her arse please? Starting to think youāre Huggins! All you ever do is defend Charlie and slate Brett.. very sus
Blondeangel2515
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Yeah because Charlie isnāt the manipulative type and be like āBrett you aināt seeing her, if you want to see her take me to courtā when she doesnāt get her own way.
Charlie clearly works when all she does is sit on her arse taking selfies on the bed 24/7 I know when Iām in work I barley have time to be on my phone never mind doing q&as asking myself questions and uploading on my story.We only ever hear about his āworkā when it get mentioned on here that she sits on her arse.
But sorry Brett and Charlie live separately, not even sure how far they live and Harlow needs a routine and we donāt even know bretts working hours. I assume by the time he finishes work it should be time for H to settle down.
Instead of living in this fairy land that Brett should be seeing H everyday after work etc be more realistic because for one itās clear Brett and Charlie are still toxic to each other even when they aināt together if itās better this way for lack of interaction for them then itās alright for H because at least she wouldnāt have to deal with them arguing everyday.
tftrc
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I meant because she's so illusive about it lol. I literally have a similar job myself
Thereās no need to get offended for a comment that wasnāt even made about your brother.. but from experience a lot of dads are happy with that amount of contact and donāt push or try for more and coming from someone whoās parents are still together so grew up seeing my dad everyday and from someone who is still with my childrenās father and how he is from not seeing his children one day because he works, it just shocks me that dads will just settle for seeing there kids a very little amount.. I also donāt agree with the fact of they work so they donāt see them as often, you would try and make it work so you could see your kids more often, I understand if the mum is being difficult and hard work and keeping the kids from the father, then thatās crappy, but thatās clearly not happening here as Charlie palms harlow off to literally anyone who will have her, so Iām sure if Brett offered to have her more than she would be fine with that, but he doesnāt even want to be a part time dad at this point, seeing your child twice a month is not okSorry Iām a long-time lurker here and just been reading through this. I donāt usually post but I need to disagree with your first comment here. My brother work 12 hours/day Mon-Fri and unfortunately the Mother of his child will only really allow every other weekend stays. She wants some weekends with her kids (which I totally understand) and therefore thatās the best they can come up with. I think youāll find a lot more Dads then you realise are also in the same situation. Therefore slightly harsh to assume that these āDadsā are happy with these arrangements. Co-parenting can be extremely frustrating at times, i know this first hand.
The problem here is that Brett & Charlie are extremely immature and have stupidly posted about everything on social media.
However, the problems they are facing, are a lot more common than we realise.Iāll probably return to my background lurking again
couldnāt possibly read this without helping to keep an open mind here that maybe Brett isnāt entirely āhappyā with his arrangements but unfortunately like many others, his hands are tied.
tftrc
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It's not like they're even far away from each other, I agree he should try do more
Did anyone get a screenshot of these messages? I missed them..
UnawarePear123
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I wouldnāt go as far as saying it offended me, nor my brother. Itās more so a comment i clearly didnāt agree with, arent we all on this site to have discussions?
I see how quickly people are to judge and make comments when in reality, they might not have a clue of others situations. I also notice how quickly those who arenāt agreed with, can get very defensive. If youāre going to post a public comment, expect a bit of backlash. You can certainly comment on Brett as you know what he posts, however to make a general comment can be very hurtful for somebody. Some Dads may be happy with that kind of contact and yes that is wrong, but some arenāt and havenāt got much choice in the matter.
We donāt know how much Brett is allowed to see his child, theyāll allow us to see what they want and thatās all we can comment on
.Charlie has posted screenshots of her asking him to see Harlow more and he said no.. thatās what my comments were based on, also based on other dads that I know who are happy with the twice a month visits, like you said itās a discussion, from your experience, your brother is clearly a good dad and wants to be involved in his childrenās lives, which is great, but the majority that Iāve seen is dads that are happy to be a part time parentI wouldnāt go as far as saying it offended me, nor my brother. Itās more so a comment i clearly didnāt agree with, arent we all on this site to have discussions?
I see how quickly people are to judge and make comments when in reality, they might not have a clue of others situations. I also notice how quickly those who arenāt agreed with, can get very defensive. If youāre going to post a public comment, expect a bit of backlash. You can certainly comment on Brett as you know what he posts, however to make a general comment can be very hurtful for somebody. Some Dads may be happy with that kind of contact and yes that is wrong, but some arenāt and havenāt got much choice in the matter.
We donāt know how much Brett is allowed to see his child, theyāll allow us to see what they want and thatās all we can comment on
UnawarePear123
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He works full time though, Charlie sits on her arse & still seems to have Ā£Ā£Ā£Ā£ to do what she wants
I bet when he has H, heās spending quality time with her. Unlike Charlie, who palms her off during the time they have together.
I work full-time and I honestly find I ābabysitā my Daughter, I come in from work, put her to bed.. wake up take her to my Mums. The only time I get to spend quality time with her is when Iām not working (usually the weekend). I suppose you donāt know how hard it is with a child and working full-time unless youāve done it yourself.
Well I apologise, I havenāt seen these screenshots just going on what I know and that is that i donāt know fully their situation.
I agree with what youāre saying completely. I just have experience with Co-parenting myself as my Mum & Dad split up when I was young. He went on to have another son and now weāre both older we often talk about how different our experiences with our Dad are. The weekends he had me, he would have off work and spend lots of quality time with me. The time with him, he would spend at work and maybe see him for 10 minutes a night (if heās lucky) before he goes to bed.
I didnāt ever feel my Dad was crappy for being a āpart-timeā parent. I have lots of memories with him even if it was twice a month. I also totally appreciate that there are Dads that do both. Iām not trying to stick up for Brett too much as Iām aware he has his faults but my gosh, I feel so sad for H in all of this.
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