Teen mom young and pregnant #15

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Are u one of the teen mums šŸ˜

Someone not agreeing with what is generally being said on the thread doesnā€™t immediately mean that theyā€™re one of the mums duck me šŸ˜‚ itā€™s a thread for opinions, everyone else is offering up theirs so Iā€™ve given mine.

My husband makes enough money so I can stay home with our son and do online uni but ya know šŸ˜³
As long as your kids are happy and well looked after, who cares? šŸ˜¬

Nobody. Everybody does what works for them. I wanted to go back, some people donā€™t. It doesnā€™t mean anybody is wrong for what they do. I just take issue with the hypocritical nature that people take with it šŸ˜‚
 
If Charlotte is in a position she doesnā€™t need to work then whatā€™s the difference? Whatā€™s the difference in Brett paying for Charlieā€™s lifestyle and benefits paying for Charlottes? Itā€™s neither of their money. Ones sponging off tax and the other sponging off her partner. Where is the line? There isnā€™t one. I think peopleā€™s opinions on Charlie not working would be different if she worked 9-5 monday to friday and Brett did sod all honestly, maybe Iā€™m wrong saying that, but I do think people would have a lot more to say, but the opposite is fine because Charlieā€™s a mum and not a dad. Both can do what they want, but thereā€™s not much difference in either of them except circumstances, and Charlieā€™s is doable, she just chooses not to.
Big big difference between ā€˜spongingā€™ off your partner then sponging Off benefitsšŸ¤£ atleast one of them is working
 
Tbf, Charlotte probably gets quite a bit cos sheā€™s probably said sheā€™s her mums carer and that sheā€™s a ā€œsingleā€ mum. But at the end of the day, why does it matter? If the girls want to stay home with their babies whilst their still young, then theyā€™re entitled to, especially now this virus is going around. Obviously in a few years when the kids are at school, the situation will be different, especially for Charlotte. However, if both Brett and charlie are okay with Charlie not working/only working a few hours a week, then why does it matter.
If there wasnā€™t such a stigma about how awful people on ā€œbenefitsā€ are, then I probably wouldnā€™t have spent the last year in debt - that Iā€™m still attempting to pay off - after not asking for help when I was struggling with my agoraphobia. The system is there for a reason, theyā€™re not abusing it (yet).
 
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