Teen mom young and pregnant #15

Status
Thread locked. We start a new thread when they have over 1000 posts, click the blue button to see all threads for this topic and find the latest open thread.
In MissDissapointed defence, I think we all know someone like charlotte, who will probably never work a day in her life even when the kids are grown šŸ¤£

Now she may shock us all and prove us wrong but I think we all judge a bit on this forum about what we think will happen rather than confirmed facts all the time.

So yeh do whatever you want till your kids are in school but she should be working at some stage in the future
 
I think Charlotte should be in some sort of education at least. Theres a grant or scheme to help with child care for parents under 20 years old. I think she should take advantage of it whilst sheā€™s still young instead of worrying about her dumb relationship with Connor. I understand that she wants a family with him but the girls arenā€™t going to care if theyā€™re parents are together or not. As long theyā€™re both actively in their lives it really shouldnā€™t be her top priority. I understand that Donna is terminally ill aswell but thatā€™s still not an excuse for her not being in education or doing something productive
 
I think Charlotte should be in some sort of education at least. Theres a grant or scheme to help with child care for parents under 20 years old. I think she should take advantage of it whilst sheā€™s still young instead of worrying about her dumb relationship with Connor. I understand that she wants a family with him but the girls arenā€™t going to care if theyā€™re parents are together or not. As long theyā€™re both actively in their lives it really shouldnā€™t be her top priority. I understand that Donna is terminally ill aswell but thatā€™s still not an excuse for her not being in education or doing something productive
How do you know shes not in education or not going to go into education when the girls are older?
 
How do you know shes not in education or not going to go into education when the girls are older?
Because in one of the lives or YouTube videos Donna said that Charlotte was going to do hair and beauty in college but then she got pregnant and her illness came about so she thought it would be ā€˜too muchā€™ for Charlotte to go to college
 
[
Sorry but what job are you expecting her to of had before the twins when she was 16/17 when next to no where hire anyone at that age? I'm not a fan or anything of charrlotte, but if she can stay at home and wants to then why can't she? I'm not getting the issue with it tbh. Free hours come in at 2 years i know loads of women who don't go back till then, even though the government help pay they want to raise their babies.

I mean to be fair i worked from 16 and so did most of my friends. The ones who didnt still dont at 22/23.
 
I know charlottes an absolute knobhead for MANY reasons but I feel itā€™s harsh writing her off already saying sheā€™s never worked etc šŸ˜‚šŸ˜… sheā€™s literally had twins at a super young age and weā€™ve been in a pandemic majority of this year. Having twins that young is reason enough lol. Letā€™s give her a chance ffs šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚ they arenā€™t exactly 10 šŸ¤£
 
I mean to be fair i worked from 16 and so did most of my friends. The ones who didnt still dont at 22/23.
No where in my area will hire under 18 because of the extra health and safety measures ect unless its a paper round šŸ˜… I'm 24 now and I could get one when I was 16 but recently no one hires at that age now, my sisters 18 and all her friends and her have tried for 2 years, none of them managed to get one till turning 18.

They donā€™t look ā€œfixedā€ to me šŸ¤£ still all pete burnsy! Just the make up has a) covered up the redness and b) used lip liner to shape them better
I was thinking that it's just the lipstick šŸ¤£ and the foundation covering the filler migration
 
No where in my area will hire under 18 because of the extra health and safety measures ect unless its a paper round šŸ˜… I'm 24 now and I could get one when I was 16 but recently no one hires at that age now, my sisters 18 and all her friends and her have tried for 2 years, none of them managed to get one till turning 18.


I was thinking that it's just the lipstick šŸ¤£ and the foundation covering the filler migration

charlotte is 18
 
Charlotte is younger with twins and as far as I know a primary carer for her mum. Charlie is in a relationship where they live together, and can work around eachothers schedule. Instead of palming Harlow off every weekend she could work saturday sundays. Thatā€™s how me and my partner do it anyway. Sons nearly 2, his dad works Monday-Friday, I work Saturday and Sunday. Itā€™s far more ā€œdoableā€ for Charlie. In my opinion*.
 
Charlotte is younger with twins and as far as I know a primary carer for her mum. Charlie is in a relationship where they live together, and can work around eachothers schedule. Instead of palming Harlow off every weekend she could work saturday sundays. Thatā€™s how me and my partner do it anyway. Sons nearly 2, his dad works Monday-Friday, I work Saturday and Sunday. Itā€™s far more ā€œdoableā€ for Charlie. In my opinion*.

But financially if her and Brett are in a position where she doesnā€™t need to work, why should she? All the other poster was saying that if Charlotte wanted to go out and get a job thereā€™s ways for her to do it, her nursery fees would be basically all paid for her and besides sheā€™s also got Connor involved so whatā€™s stopping her leaving the girls with him whilst she goes out and works a little part time job? Donna clearly has support around her that isnā€™t Charlotte because weā€™ve seen Charlotte not staying at home, in a flat etc so really thereā€™s duck all stopping her either.

I just find it absolutely hilarious how people go for Charlie about not working yet excuse Charlotte, they could both go out to work if they wanted. I mean at least Charlie tries, moan about her not working then moan cos sheā€™s not working enough šŸ˜‚
 
But financially if her and Brett are in a position where she doesnā€™t need to work, why should she? All the other poster was saying that if Charlotte wanted to go out and get a job thereā€™s ways for her to do it, her nursery fees would be basically all paid for her and besides sheā€™s also got Connor involved so whatā€™s stopping her leaving the girls with him whilst she goes out and works a little part time job? Donna clearly has support around her that isnā€™t Charlotte because weā€™ve seen Charlotte not staying at home, in a flat etc so really thereā€™s duck all stopping her either.

I just find it absolutely hilarious how people go for Charlie about not working yet excuse Charlotte, they could both go out to work if they wanted. I mean at least Charlie tries, moan about her not working then moan cos sheā€™s not working enough šŸ˜‚

If Charlotte is in a position she doesnā€™t need to work then whatā€™s the difference? Whatā€™s the difference in Brett paying for Charlieā€™s lifestyle and benefits paying for Charlottes? Itā€™s neither of their money. Ones sponging off tax and the other sponging off her partner. Where is the line? There isnā€™t one. I think peopleā€™s opinions on Charlie not working would be different if she worked 9-5 monday to friday and Brett did sod all honestly, maybe Iā€™m wrong saying that, but I do think people would have a lot more to say, but the opposite is fine because Charlieā€™s a mum and not a dad. Both can do what they want, but thereā€™s not much difference in either of them except circumstances, and Charlieā€™s is doable, she just chooses not to.
 
But financially if her and Brett are in a position where she doesnā€™t need to work, why should she? All the other poster was saying that if Charlotte wanted to go out and get a job thereā€™s ways for her to do it, her nursery fees would be basically all paid for her and besides sheā€™s also got Connor involved so whatā€™s stopping her leaving the girls with him whilst she goes out and works a little part time job? Donna clearly has support around her that isnā€™t Charlotte because weā€™ve seen Charlotte not staying at home, in a flat etc so really thereā€™s duck all stopping her either.

I just find it absolutely hilarious how people go for Charlie about not working yet excuse Charlotte, they could both go out to work if they wanted. I mean at least Charlie tries, moan about her not working then moan cos sheā€™s not working enough šŸ˜‚
Are u one of the teen mums šŸ˜
 
Status
Thread locked. We start a new thread when they have over 1000 posts, click the blue button to see all threads for this topic and find the latest open thread.
Back
Top