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Someone wrote this comment about Matt. No wonder some boys/ men feel they don’t have to step up for their kids with comments like this accepting their behaviour
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Davena94 said:
I know it says they’re offered counselling throughout so I really hope Chloe gets some help she doesn’t seem right to me. Not talking about her disabilities cos obviously that affects her but she’s got some deep routed issues with her mother and it’s having a bad impact on her relationships with her own child. It’s sad really and I hope she can get some help with it
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Yeah I think it’s very clear she needs to come to terms with being in care and not projecting those feelings onto her mum or EH. I think with counselling she’ll learn to cope with it and trust her mum more or anyone alone with eh for that matter. Like the walk she seemed really on edge her mum was 30 mins not 10 mins. If that were my mum and son it wouldn’t phase me at all I’d just think they’ve been held up etc or are too busy having fun but she clearly couldn’t cope so hopefully with help she’ll get better with things like that
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
Someone wrote this comment about Matt. No wonder some boys/ men feel they don’t have to step up for their kids with comments like this accepting their behaviour
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Even worse when we all know that in 90% of the situations it’s the boys desperate to have sex and not to use condoms as well 🙃

Really irks me that boys are let off from all responsibilities and left to do as they please when it that was Angel behaving like that she’d be getting all the hate
 
stargirl23 said:
Yeah I think it’s very clear she needs to come to terms with being in care and not projecting those feelings onto her mum or EH. I think with counselling she’ll learn to cope with it and trust her mum more or anyone alone with eh for that matter. Like the walk she seemed really on edge her mum was 30 mins not 10 mins. If that were my mum and son it wouldn’t phase me at all I’d just think they’ve been held up etc or are too busy having fun but she clearly couldn’t cope so hopefully with help she’ll get better with things like that
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I don’t think she’s even that bothered that she was in care just uses it and throws it around because it seems to be the only thing she has against her mum and ammunition she has 🤷🏼‍♀️ not many people are educated or knwo what it’s like etc so it’s another thing like her health she can use to her advantage and get sympathy for and to use to justify her behaviour. If she was that bothered over being in care she wouldn’t pic and choose when to use it
 
Chloe’s mom must be sick of her. When Chloe brings up her childhood in totally random situations her moms face looks puzzled initially. I think it’s obvious Chloe is trying to put her mom down and rub it in her face that “shes a better mom” than she was. Also, I think Chloe thinks to be the best mom you have to be physically attached (even if that is just lying on the sofa all day)
 
Rosy said:
Chloe’s mom must be sick of her. When Chloe brings up her childhood in totally random situations her moms face looks puzzled initially. I think it’s obvious Chloe is trying to put her mom down and rub it in her face that “shes a better mom” than she was. Also, I think Chloe thinks to be the best mom you have to be physically attached (even if that is just lying on the sofa all day)
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Presumably she’s been trying her best to sort her life out for Chloe and Pamela since she got Chloe back at 3. I’d be really puzzled too and telling her to get help
 
Rosy said:
Chloe’s mom must be sick of her. When Chloe brings up her childhood in totally random situations her moms face looks puzzled initially. I think it’s obvious Chloe is trying to put her mom down and rub it in her face that “shes a better mom” than she was. Also, I think Chloe thinks to be the best mom you have to be physically attached (even if that is just lying on the sofa all day)
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Wouldn’t shock me if she’s only brought it up during filming and never mentioned it up until then
 
I honestly think the whole being in care and the attachment issues is for the story line. I just don't buy that she'd happy live in her mums house, allow her mum to do everything for her when she's having a bad day with her illnesses but then doesn't want her mum taking the baby for a 10 minute walk. I bet its just used for the show
 
lauren96111 said:
I honestly think the whole being in care and the attachment issues is for the story line. I just don't buy that she'd happy live in her mums house, allow her mum to do everything for her when she's having a bad day with her illnesses but then doesn't want her mum taking the baby for a 10 minute walk. I bet its just used for the show
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This is my thinking. If she’s that scared of EH being taken away all of a sudden why would she let the woman she herself was taken away from overnight to have EH alone? If I was that scared of my daughter being taken away out of nowhere I wouldn’t let her be with the person I was suddenly taken away from in fear she would be suddenly taken away out of nowhere while being with said person.
🤷🏼‍♀️ honestly being in care myself and knowing a large number of others who have who was with foster carers at a young age and for years or returned to their parents, I don’t know any who behaves or go on about it like Chloe so I am extremely baffled
Over 21 years on I can recall being taken from my mum and I still do get emotional thinking of that day and the stuff I witnessed and experienced my emotions still overflow me but Chloe just doesn’t show anything she just reminds me of the creepy kid in the centre I volunteered at even has the same dirty smirk as him
 
lauren96111 said:
I honestly think the whole being in care and the attachment issues is for the story line. I just don't buy that she'd happy live in her mums house, allow her mum to do everything for her when she's having a bad day with her illnesses but then doesn't want her mum taking the baby for a 10 minute walk. I bet its just used for the show
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She said she was in care from 18 months to 3/4 years, how does she even remember
 
Blondeangel2515 said:
This is my thinking. If she’s that scared of EH being taken away all of a sudden why would she let the woman she herself was taken away from overnight to have EH alone? If I was that scared of my daughter being taken away out of nowhere I wouldn’t let her be with the person I was suddenly taken away from in fear she would be suddenly taken away out of nowhere while being with said person.
🤷🏼‍♀️ honestly being in care myself and knowing a large number of others who have who was with foster carers at a young age and for years or returned to their parents, I don’t know any who behaves or go on about it like Chloe so I am extremely baffled
Over 21 years on I can recall being taken from my mum and I still do get emotional thinking of that day and the stuff I witnessed and experienced my emotions still overflow me but Chloe just doesn’t show anything she just reminds me of the creepy kid in the centre I volunteered at even has the same dirty smirk as him
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There is definitely something iffy about her, she is a bit creepy. Like others have said she surely wouldn’t have any memories of being taken away from her mom and living life without her mom. Even if that was the case she’s gone from age 3 to however old she is (17?) completely fine and only brings up this “epiphany” when MTV are round 🤔
 
I've worked with children who have been in care and honestly I just can't get my head around it. A lot of the kids went through the system for many years and most of them had relationships with their parents if able. Especially at her young age I don't thibk I remember stuff from being 5_6 never mind 3 so I don't get the whole hanging on to this attachment issue. If I felt that way about my mum taking my child for a walk I don't think I'd letting her bath the child and all the other things her mum does when it suits chloe
 
Rosy said:
There is definitely something iffy about her, she is a bit creepy. Like others have said she surely wouldn’t have any memories of being taken away from her mom and living life without her mom. Even if that was the case she’s gone from age 3 to however old she is (17?) completely fine and only brings up this “epiphany” when MTV are round 🤔
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I said it before but my sister was 2 when we got taken off my mum. She doesn’t remember much but she does remember seeing her at a contact centre once and they made an papier-mache pig, she kept it for years. She has no resentment to her or anything and still goes on about this darn pig and never mentions about being in care or attachment issues.
Considering I remember everything because I went through it all when I was a kid, I don’t have no resentment ether and if my mum was still alive I wouldn’t throw it in her face ether.
I just find this with Chloe very insulting and very odd.
 
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