SmudgeTheCat
Chatty Member
You obviously are free to have an opinion I just think this part ‘people seem to have a complete inability to be objective’ is just so untrue! I’ve been on this thread for years and I do think it’s been fair with Mia and there has always been a lot of positive comments about her. Also in regards to how her behaviour will affect M.. I’m in my 30’s and only now are the poor decisions made by my parents during my childhood evident. It can take a long time for a child to really reflect and be aware of how bad someone’s parenting really is/was but it will affect her in some way. You don’t have to be abusive to a child to be a tit parent. You can simply have bad judgment and be selfish without intentionally meaning to cause harm. I think their life is very unstable and Mia doesn’t seem to be prioritising that part of her life. She should be focused on getting a permanent home for them both and trying to show M some sort of stability for the first time in her life.
I have to agree about the stability part. I mean the girl is constantly moving from place to place. Can remember when she gave up a house because she ‘didn’t like it’ compared to her flat like wtf? Shouldn’t you think about what’s best for your child? I get she wanted to stay with her dad because he was ill but now she’s at her mums and I think the money she was saving could have been put down on their own place instead of moving in with a someone else who let’s face it is used as a babysitter. And M will have to be moved again… when is it going to end