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Unless you are exactly the same or Mia herself, I don’t get the need to jump to her defence constantly. She is a covert deadbeat sorry, I call them out on here and irl. This thread is tame compared to others 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve noticed it used to be 50/50 with her on here but everyone pretty much agrees she doesn’t prioritise M at this point.
 
I'll admit Mia did used to be my favourite and I did used to think aw people are really harsh on her, but some things you just can't ignore and I am now seeing what others saw all along. Marliyah obviously loves her Mum to bits and it's clear they do have such fun when they're together, they're always laughing, but being a full time Mum is about more than being able to have fun with your kid. She's not present for her all the time and unfortunately going out on the piss and going on holidays seems to be a priority for Mia. Nobody is saying Mums can't have fun and go out, of course they can! But it's the sheer volume of time Mia spends doing that over doing stuff with Marliyah that gets her criticised.
 
Elle Woods said:
I'll admit Mia did used to be my favourite and I did used to think aw people are really harsh on her, but some things you just can't ignore and I am now seeing what others saw all along. Marliyah obviously loves her Mum to bits and it's clear they do have such fun when they're together, they're always laughing, but being a full time Mum is about more than being able to have fun with your kid. She's not present for her all the time and unfortunately going out on the piss and going on holidays seems to be a priority for Mia. Nobody is saying Mums can't have fun and go out, of course they can! But it's the sheer volume of time Mia spends doing that over doing stuff with Marliyah that gets her criticised.
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The thing is she is still the most likeable in my eyes because she has a good personality even with all her annoying bullshit and the fact she annoys me not putting her daughter first. Everyone does route for her. But just like we can compliment her we can say when she’s acting an irresponsible idiot. I feel like she’s used massive chunks of M’s childhood to prioritise herself and her needs which is really selfish. She’s totally in denial even after everything too, she’s actually giving people advice on Instagram when her life is a shambles.
 
To be fair I grew up with a mother similar to Mia (who also was 19 when she had me). I’m not going to lie it definitely was a bit damaging to feel like my mum’s friends and going out were always more important than me so I do feel for Marliya. That being said I do think the more damaging part of Mia’s parenting is her relationship history - again speaking from experience. While she might wait to introduce Marliya, children are not stupid and Marliya will more than likely know if Mia is in a relationship or not. I actually really like Mia and I do believe she adores Marliya, she just needs to find a better balance and she definitely needs to reconsider what she posts online as a mother of a child in school.
 
Sophiadee said:
Unless you are exactly the same or Mia herself, I don’t get the need to jump to her defence constantly. She is a covert deadbeat sorry, I call them out on here and irl. This thread is tame compared to others 🤣🤣🤣 I’ve noticed it used to be 50/50 with her on here but everyone pretty much agrees she doesn’t prioritise M at this point.
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😂 I can assure you I most certainly am not Mia! I’m old enough to be her mum! As for ‘jumping to her defence constantly’, I could say the same for those who jump on her every move and make it negative every time. The girl can’t win no matter what she does. She posts M and it’s ’because she reads here and ‘only to prove a point’, she goes out and people are up in arms because she has a life that isn’t solely spent with M and only M. Then we’ve the comments saying that ‘I rarely go out, she’s always out blah blah’ people parent differently and just like the Kate Lawler thread, people seem to have a complete inability to be objective. That said, this is a gossip site, so hardly surprising!
The proof will be in the pudding in the end - if these girls remain in the public eye for years to come, it will become evident whether their children have been affected by their upbringing, whether people agree with it or not.
My money is on M turning out to be a well rounded, confident individual, as she has more than just Mia around her for support and guidance. I guess we’ll see!
 
Lilylate said:
😂 I can assure you I most certainly am not Mia! I’m old enough to be her mum! As for ‘jumping to her defence constantly’, I could say the same for those who jump on her every move and make it negative every time. The girl can’t win no matter what she does. She posts M and it’s ’because she reads here and ‘only to prove a point’, she goes out and people are up in arms because she has a life that isn’t solely spent with M and only M. Then we’ve the comments saying that ‘I rarely go out, she’s always out blah blah’ people parent differently and just like the Kate Lawler thread, people seem to have a complete inability to be objective. That said, this is a gossip site, so hardly surprising!
The proof will be in the pudding in the end - if these girls remain in the public eye for years to come, it will become evident whether their children have been affected by their upbringing, whether people agree with it or not.
My money is on M turning out to be a well rounded, confident individual, as she has more than just Mia around her for support and guidance. I guess we’ll see!
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You obviously are free to have an opinion I just think this part ‘people seem to have a complete inability to be objective’ is just so untrue! I’ve been on this thread for years and I do think it’s been fair with Mia and there has always been a lot of positive comments about her. Also in regards to how her behaviour will affect M.. I’m in my 30’s and only now are the poor decisions made by my parents during my childhood evident. It can take a long time for a child to really reflect and be aware of how bad someone’s parenting really is/was but it will affect her in some way. You don’t have to be abusive to a child to be a tit parent. You can simply have bad judgment and be selfish without intentionally meaning to cause harm. I think their life is very unstable and Mia doesn’t seem to be prioritising that part of her life. She should be focused on getting a permanent home for them both and trying to show M some sort of stability for the first time in her life.
 
Lilylate said:
😂 I can assure you I most certainly am not Mia! I’m old enough to be her mum! As for ‘jumping to her defence constantly’, I could say the same for those who jump on her every move and make it negative every time. The girl can’t win no matter what she does. She posts M and it’s ’because she reads here and ‘only to prove a point’, she goes out and people are up in arms because she has a life that isn’t solely spent with M and only M. Then we’ve the comments saying that ‘I rarely go out, she’s always out blah blah’ people parent differently and just like the Kate Lawler thread, people seem to have a complete inability to be objective. That said, this is a gossip site, so hardly surprising!
The proof will be in the pudding in the end - if these girls remain in the public eye for years to come, it will become evident whether their children have been affected by their upbringing, whether people agree with it or not.
My money is on M turning out to be a well rounded, confident individual, as she has more than just Mia around her for support and guidance. I guess we’ll see!
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No but literally whatever she does, you defend it. She can never do any wrong to you when she’s clearly in the wrong like the bar incident, it’s getting a bit weird. Like I’ve said before, I criticise the people I love too when they’re wrong. Why should it be any different for a girl on a reality show on a literal gossip site lol? And she gets slated when she does post M because it’s after she’s had a read here and realised how she’s coming across - which is a covert deadbeat/ Disney mum who’s only there for the fun stuff and not the real parenting. I was out 2-4 nights a week just before I fell pregnant at 21, as an uni student, and would black out most nights. I actually went out a couple times whilst pregnant before I found out which I have so much guilt over. Me and Mia had our girls months apart. Me and Mia had very similar lives but difference is that I changed as soon as I saw a positive pregnancy test. Mia still prioritises her old life and it’s clear she sees herself as more of a friend than parent to M. I still love the odd night out, festival, Ibiza etc just like Mia (I always thought we’d get on if we bumped into each other on a night out lol similar energy in that sense) but my daughters come first and I wouldn’t dare have more girl trips than family holidays like her. I also wouldn’t introduce 7 different men to my child or the thought of dragging them to the other side of the country for dick wouldn’t even cross my mind. There’s plenty of examples of how she’s not prioritising M, I could go on…
 
Sophiadee said:
No but literally whatever she does, you defend it. She can never do any wrong to you when she’s clearly in the wrong like the bar incident, it’s getting a bit weird. Like I’ve said before, I criticise the people I love too when they’re wrong. Why should it be any different for a girl on a reality show on a literal gossip site lol? And she gets slated when she does post M because it’s after she’s had a read here and realised how she’s coming across - which is a covert deadbeat/ Disney mum who’s only there for the fun stuff and not the real parenting. I was out 2-4 nights a week just before I fell pregnant at 21, as an uni student, and would black out most nights. I actually went out a couple times whilst pregnant before I found out which I have so much guilt over. Me and Mia had our girls months apart. Me and Mia had very similar lives but difference is that I changed as soon as I saw a positive pregnancy test. Mia still prioritises her old life and it’s clear she sees herself as more of a friend than parent to M. I still love the odd night out, festival, Ibiza etc just like Mia (I always thought we’d get on if we bumped into each other on a night out lol similar energy in that sense) but my daughters come first and I wouldn’t dare have more girl trips than family holidays like her. I also wouldn’t introduce 7 different men to my child or the thought of dragging them to the other side of the country for dick wouldn’t even cross my mind. There’s plenty of examples of how she’s not prioritising M, I could go on…
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Agree with all of this. I just ignored this at the time but a few weeks ago that poster said Mia can’t win because we criticise if Mia takes Marliya to bars or if she’s left at home. I made a comment that she could also choose to stay home with her and they responded “Why should she?”
What? Why should a mother choose to stay home and be a parent?!
 
Sophiadee said:
No but literally whatever she does, you defend it. She can never do any wrong to you when she’s clearly in the wrong like the bar incident, it’s getting a bit weird. Like I’ve said before, I criticise the people I love too when they’re wrong. Why should it be any different for a girl on a reality show on a literal gossip site lol? And she gets slated when she does post M because it’s after she’s had a read here and realised how she’s coming across - which is a covert deadbeat/ Disney mum who’s only there for the fun stuff and not the real parenting. I was out 2-4 nights a week just before I fell pregnant at 21, as an uni student, and would black out most nights. I actually went out a couple times whilst pregnant before I found out which I have so much guilt over. Me and Mia had our girls months apart. Me and Mia had very similar lives but difference is that I changed as soon as I saw a positive pregnancy test. Mia still prioritises her old life and it’s clear she sees herself as more of a friend than parent to M. I still love the odd night out, festival, Ibiza etc just like Mia (I always thought we’d get on if we bumped into each other on a night out lol similar energy in that sense) but my daughters come first and I wouldn’t dare have more girl trips than family holidays like her. I also wouldn’t introduce 7 different men to my child or the thought of dragging them to the other side of the country for dick wouldn’t even cross my mind. There’s plenty of examples of how she’s not prioritising M, I could go on…
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Whatever she does I defend it? Really?! I think it’s more weird that you’re taking so much notice of what I post! 🥴 As said further up, I don’t go on many threads on here, I tend to dip in and out of this one as I watch the series and have a mild interest in how the young mum’s are getting on. I prefer the Ashley Cain and KP threads because as far as I’m concerned, they’re focused on people who are much much more guilty of wrongdoing and I’m interested to see how things with them play out.
I’m sorry I can’t be bothered replying to the rest of your message.
 
Lilylate said:
Whatever she does I defend it? Really?! I think it’s more weird that you’re taking so much notice of what I post! 🥴 As said further up, I don’t go on many threads on here, I tend to dip in and out of this one as I watch the series and have a mild interest in how the young mum’s are getting on. I prefer the Ashley Cain and KP threads because as far as I’m concerned, they’re focused on people who are much much more guilty of wrongdoing and I’m interested to see how things with them play out.
I’m sorry I can’t be bothered replying to the rest of your message.
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I think she’s commenting on when Mia had M in a bar around Xmas at 10PM and you said it was impossible like we were lying but it was literally evidenced on Instagram 😂 you seem overly defensive of her. You are acting like people are sending Mia threats or calling her horrendous names.
 
I’ve never understood the, if you criticise someone then you must be jealous of them trope. This entire forum is opinions, good and bad of people who put themselves in the spotlight. Just because you’re favourite isn’t receiving favourable comments doesn’t mean people are jealous 😂 and let’s be real, what on earth is there to be jealous of? She has nothing to show for her life so far.
 
Lilylate said:
Whatever she does I defend it? Really?! I think it’s more weird that you’re taking so much notice of what I post! 🥴 As said further up, I don’t go on many threads on here, I tend to dip in and out of this one as I watch the series and have a mild interest in how the young mum’s are getting on. I prefer the Ashley Cain and KP threads because as far as I’m concerned, they’re focused on people who are much much more guilty of wrongdoing and I’m interested to see how things with them play out.
I’m sorry I can’t be bothered replying to the rest of your message.
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Your name stands out cos it kept popping up to her defence, it was getting ridiculous, hardly strange to notice that when I’m following a thread 🤣🤣 okay good cos there’s no comeback or defence for Mia this time is there lol.
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Jennytea said:
I think she’s commenting on when Mia had M in a bar around Xmas at 10PM and you said it was impossible like we were lying but it was literally evidenced on Instagram 😂 you seem overly defensive of her. You are acting like people are sending Mia threats or calling her horrendous names.
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Conveniently blind to when we praise her too
 
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