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This was obviously filmed over 6 months ago and Mia hasn’t moved up north so I honestly don’t think she will.
Amber OMG get a grip and give poor bent a medal! #freebeth 🤣
Sassi that cult retreat yikes!
Chloe 🥱
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Just an added note and something to kind of praise Chloe for is that she still has Sunny the dog when she got her years ago o thought once the cute puppy stage went then she would get rid but the dog must be 5/6 years old now
 
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crazycakelady said:
This was obviously filmed over 6 months ago and Mia hasn’t moved up north so I honestly don’t think she will.
Amber OMG get a grip and give poor bent a medal! #freebeth 🤣
Sassi that cult retreat yikes!
Chloe 🥱
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Just an added note and something to kind of praise Chloe for is that she still has Sunny the dog when she got her years ago o thought once the cute puppy stage went then she would get rid but the dog must be 5/6 years old now
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Personally I do think Chloe is the best mom. She’s annoying af and selfish but she does have her head screwed on more so than the others. Even if she is just doing influencing work, she owns her house compared to the others. Marley seems looked after and she clearly gives a lot of love to the dog too… and Sonny. Haha joking! I do think she’s the better parent out of the other 3. But don’t get it twisted she’s still insufferable😂😂😂

I want a new season but then they just did next generation and yikes… maybe it’s had its day. They should bring back Megan or Shannon I’d be interested to see what they’re doing.
 
If Chloe never had the help and support from her family she wouldn’t be where she is. I’m all for bettering yourself and compared to the other girls yes Chloe has done well, but without her family she would probably be in the same situation as the others. If she stuck to her guns when Jordan cheated she also wouldn’t be the only one still with the dad. You can’t compare her to the others when her circumstances and upbringing have been completely different. I don’t think you can say she has her head on her shoulders when she wants Jordan at home all the time and her income isn’t stable. She also hasn’t got a job to fall back on when it goes tits up.
 
I think Chloe genuinely thinks she’s a big time influencer. I think she copies Mrs Hinch a lot - she had a grey hausss like Mrs Hinch, now she’s got a ‘cottage’ with a Mrs Hinch style kitchen getting fitted. mrs Hinch’s husband is a stay at home dad, so she wants Jord to be..

Realistically if I was just a standard influencer like Chloe, I wouldn’t be ‘retiring’ my partner, because he’s a young, fit & healthy man who should be working & also contributing to the household. If she hit the big time, then yeah I understand her being the breadwinner & him being at home, but her ‘campaigns’ seem very few and far between, and definitely not enough to sustain the big hausss they’ve bought. I think it’s sad that she clearly doesn’t trust him, so she’s trying to keep him at home like a skivvy so she can piss off to events and claim she’s grafting & he does nothing.
 
InchSchlong said:
I might be in the minority here but I don't agree at all with Beth grabbing Hudson and the way she shouts in his face. That is EXACTLY the behaviour she's telling him off for! No child is naughty, behaviour is communication. His needs are NOT being met which is why he is the way he is.
Amber needs early help intervention, some citalopram, counselling and a parenting course centred around gentle parenting.
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I agree. You can't except a child to emotional regulate themselves when your shouting at them like that.. tense energy fuels a tense reaction. As a parent to a additional needs child I know myself how difficult it can be to handle melt downs but you have to put the work in because the child can't learn skills if you aren't showing them how to cope in those moments.

The last few season she's had ADHD people come to give advice on dealing with the boys behaviour, she doesn't seem to be taking it on board.
Honestly I wonder if their behaviour is purely poor parenting, didn't they go for an assessment and the doctor said he couldn't confirm? For his age a diagnosis shouldn't be difficult with school input, perhaps the lack of routine and regulation at home is the issue.
 
unsolicited.opinion said:
I agree. You can't except a child to emotional regulate themselves when your shouting at them like that.. tense energy fuels a tense reaction. As a parent to a additional needs child I know myself how difficult it can be to handle melt downs but you have to put the work in because the child can't learn skills if you aren't showing them how to cope in those moments.

The last few season she's had ADHD people come to give advice on dealing with the boys behaviour, she doesn't seem to be taking it on board.
Honestly I wonder if their behaviour is purely poor parenting, didn't they go for an assessment and the doctor said he couldn't confirm? For his age a diagnosis shouldn't be difficult with school input, perhaps the lack of routine and regulation at home is the issue.
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How olds Brooklyn? I think he’s roughly the same age as my son (my sons just turned 8) and his diagnosis was so easy because it’s was actually school who started it and got he ball rolling with the referral. I had thoughts growing up something wasn’t quite ‘the norm’ but once he started school it was so clear to see he had issues with learning. He’s a very well behaved boy but gets extremely stressed at himself because he lacks understanding in school and school said they realised he wasn’t being naughty he’d just talk to friends on his table and then distract them but once they spoke to my son they realised it’s because he was too scared to say he didn’t know what to do. Now he has a 1-1 he’s come on so much! So I agree with what you said re his age and school picking up on it
 
justanosey1 said:
Has anybody else noticed that since Ree has had access to the kids that Shan keeps posting about ‘her’ babies!! 😂😂
I don’t blame the girl as everyone says she’s done more for those kids than Ree ever has.
Just an observation that has tickled me
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I think it’s great she helps Dylan out but she is being over the top calling them her babies when she’s only been in their lives just over a year. Before she got with him he had some other girl playing mum to those kids
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
I remember his school said his behaviour was fine and they had no issues. So he actually hasn’t been diagnosed yet?
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Sadly quite often this is the problem, schools don’t take parents seriously as they don’t see the behaviour at school. My son is 12 and was diagnosed with autism aged 5 and he has undiagnosed adhd alongside learning disabilities, anxiety and ocd! Yet he masks at school, he exhausts himself in the process then explodes when he gets home. I’m not saying this is the case for Brooklyn but it’s a possibility! Diagnosis also depends per area, 5 year wait in my area unless they go private!
 
mrsblakey said:
Sadly quite often this is the problem, schools don’t take parents seriously as they don’t see the behaviour at school. My son is 12 and was diagnosed with autism aged 5 and he has undiagnosed adhd alongside learning disabilities, anxiety and ocd! Yet he masks at school, he exhausts himself in the process then explodes when he gets home. I’m not saying this is the case for Brooklyn but it’s a possibility! Diagnosis also depends per area, 5 year wait in my area unless they go private!
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It was either you or someone else before who said about their son doing this
 
The UK girls wont make the same kind of money the US teen moms have made, they won’t all have the big houses they have had. Personally I would of course grab any opportunity I could but I also would want something to fall back on it wont last forever, the UK show has already had a long hiatus next season’s aren’t guaranteed!
Jordan going back to work is so sensible on his part, and considering his previous mental health struggles and with the devastating situation with his best friend, I think Jord would benefit from a job and his own money and identity outside of Chloe.
 
stargirl23 said:
How olds Brooklyn? I think he’s roughly the same age as my son (my sons just turned 8) and his diagnosis was so easy because it’s was actually school who started it and got he ball rolling with the referral. I had thoughts growing up something wasn’t quite ‘the norm’ but once he started school it was so clear to see he had issues with learning. He’s a very well behaved boy but gets extremely stressed at himself because he lacks understanding in school and school said they realised he wasn’t being naughty he’d just talk to friends on his table and then distract them but once they spoke to my son they realised it’s because he was too scared to say he didn’t know what to do. Now he has a 1-1 he’s come on so much! So I agree with what you said re his age and school picking up on it
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The show started 2016 so I think he's around 9.

I would've thought after being at school for many years signs would've been picked up on, although I know some school might not be proactive however they attended the assessment for the show so there must've been a report of some kind.
I get Ste was diagnosed via the show and it does run through families, there's a high chance they could be ND without Amber being proactive at home she isn't do her best to ensure they get the additional support they need.

On a episode the other week Amber was saying how difficult it is to get Hudson into nursery, yet when Ste took him he was fine so their behaviour seems selective.
I do think she's extremely depressed, is she working on herself though, meds and therapy? Seems like she's burying her head in the sand thinking things will get better without realising she needs to be the one to make it happen... It's bleeping hard when your mental drained and your kids have additional needs that with lack of family support is tought.
She has mtv behind her, she could be making the most from having the resources and support. I wanna give her a slap then a big cuddle, she really needs to get it together for herself and the boys sake.

ADHD/ ASD doesn't necessarily equal bad behaviour, it's situations like this where parenting is lacking that gives ND children a bad reputation.
 
taurus_gal said:
Chloe’s attitude is a joke! She deffo wants Jordddd to be a house husband whilst she’s off doing events & being an ‘influencer’
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see to be fair, if it’s really “Jord” that’s wanting the second baby, I would think he would be willing to compromise and be a house husband/the main parent. Especially considering we’ve seen Chloe parent Marley for what feels like a combined 10 minutes across 8 (?) years of footage.

thing is, right now though they’ve not got a second baby and Marley is in school so for what reason do they both need to be at home! Let him go make some money and socialise at work ffs
 
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