Teen Mom UK #34

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Elle Woods said:
Precisely this. Chloe wouldn't know a hard day's work if it jumped up and slapped her in the face :ROFLMAO: Like duck would she do long arse shifts on a ward for the (unfairly) small wage that healthcare workers get. Don't you have to do loads of unpaid shifts too when you're training? She definitely wouldn't do it. Especially when she's supposedly doing well as an influencer, like she's then going to go and work for free at an actual job!
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To qualify you have to complete 2300 hours in placement for free over the three years 😳 and do all the assignments as well xx
 
Manley clearly didn't want to have a go at Mia on camera but was too thick to think if the cameras would still be there when he got home and called her 😆
I understand Mias previous relationship was abusive but how much of that does Marliya actually know and Manley doesn't exactly think about Marliya with his relationships and going round thinking he's gangster so he has absolutely no leg to stand on
 
So I’m not excusing Amber at all here but just feel like there is another perspective - clearly Amanda is a tit mum to amber and I feel like Amber obviously got pregnant young, probably has unresolved trauma from childhood with Amanda not caring and seems to me amber is just living in survival mode. Her house is a shithole and she probably feels in a rut with that - almost like the saying you can’t polish a turd. I have never fell for ste being a great dad persona he puts on and I think last nights ep proved it, I think he makes Amber look very reactive. Amber needs to take steps in healing herself to become a better parent and better lifestyle. I know it looked odd her not disciplining her kids at Beth’s but she had been at the hospital all night with them, stress of potentially having nowhere to live and then also the fact she’s been in survival mode her whole adulthood, she probably just felt comfortable enough to let Beth take the lead for a bit.

Mia is pathetic with Olly. Getting on my nerves with that storyline but Manley pulled a typical abuser tactic, funny how he only told her he needed to talk to her about something after she’d brought up M meeting Olly.. and then said he doesn’t have time to talk about it. That’s so she has to sit on it and worry what it is plus he needed time to think of an issue but he’s that thick he couldn’t do it on the spot hence the phone call of him kicking off
 
bigrednumber9 said:
So I’m not excusing Amber at all here but just feel like there is another perspective - clearly Amanda is a tit mum to amber and I feel like Amber obviously got pregnant young, probably has unresolved trauma from childhood with Amanda not caring and seems to me amber is just living in survival mode. Her house is a shithole and she probably feels in a rut with that - almost like the saying you can’t polish a turd. I have never fell for ste being a great dad persona he puts on and I think last nights ep proved it, I think he makes Amber look very reactive. Amber needs to take steps in healing herself to become a better parent and better lifestyle. I know it looked odd her not disciplining her kids at Beth’s but she had been at the hospital all night with them, stress of potentially having nowhere to live and then also the fact she’s been in survival mode her whole adulthood, she probably just felt comfortable enough to let Beth take the lead for a bit.
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I agree with what you’re saying about the house it looks really dated and run down I bet she doesn’t know where to start. It needs a huge clean out, freshen up and redecorating. If it was owned by her it’s one thing but because it’s rented that’s what makes me think she should just get somewhere new for a fresh start. Like why doesn’t anyone suggest this to her? 😩 I’m sure Blackpool is known for being really cheap for rent too. I bet she could get a beautiful house.
 
bigrednumber9 said:
So I’m not excusing Amber at all here but just feel like there is another perspective - clearly Amanda is a tit mum to amber and I feel like Amber obviously got pregnant young, probably has unresolved trauma from childhood with Amanda not caring and seems to me amber is just living in survival mode. Her house is a shithole and she probably feels in a rut with that - almost like the saying you can’t polish a turd. I have never fell for ste being a great dad persona he puts on and I think last nights ep proved it, I think he makes Amber look very reactive. Amber needs to take steps in healing herself to become a better parent and better lifestyle. I know it looked odd her not disciplining her kids at Beth’s but she had been at the hospital all night with them, stress of potentially having nowhere to live and then also the fact she’s been in survival mode her whole adulthood, she probably just felt comfortable enough to let Beth take the lead for a bit.

Mia is pathetic with Olly. Getting on my nerves with that storyline but Manley pulled a typical abuser tactic, funny how he only told her he needed to talk to her about something after she’d brought up M meeting Olly.. and then said he doesn’t have time to talk about it. That’s so she has to sit on it and worry what it is plus he needed time to think of an issue but he’s that thick he couldn’t do it on the spot hence the phone call of him kicking off
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I get what you mean about being at the hospital but Beth had been kind enough to let them stay and it’s just rude to sit there and not give any discipline at all
 
Jennytea said:
Also as you said you are only 20, take it from someone who’s actually got a degree and a masters that Chloe will NOT complete it.
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Why does that matter? I have a degree too but I don’t have any idea what others might or might not do. Chloe could maybe do it all when she’s older because she had Marley so young.
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Actually I remember being a bit judgmental towards a friend of mine who seemed to be an eternal student. But in the end, she has ended up getting a really good role in child mental health. So that showed me really. I try not to judge people after that.
 
Dollenganger said:
Why does that matter? I have a degree too but I don’t have any idea what others might or might not do. Chloe could maybe do it all when she’s older because she had Marley so young.
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There’s been a lot of comments since this discussing this which have all been deleted because someone on here got abusive and personal (assuming admin has deleted the conversation) So no point in me addressing this again as already discussed my thoughts.
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
I get what you mean about being at the hospital but Beth had been kind enough to let them stay and it’s just rude to sit there and not give any discipline at all
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No I do get what you mean, I myself wouldn’t be able to do that but I had a friend once that had so much stress in her life that when she came to mine or me to hers sometimes all she wanted was to check out and I didn’t mind pitching in with the kids when they were being extra cheeky. I don’t think I’d ever felt comfortable to be as stern as Beth was but I certainly did used to distract them and tell them when they needed to reign it in
 
Just watched the episode.

Felt sorry for Zenaya on the way back from parents evening. The way Sassi & Darren argue while walking down the street makes me cringe.

Can’t believe Amber let her friend discipline her child while she just sat and watched and huffed.Her kids just seem to have no structure or routine.

Chloe & Mia are boring
 
mrsblakey said:
I felt awful for Zenaya when they were laying into her at the restaurant about being naughty at school, then when Darren said others were doing better things. You just don’t say that 😭 every child is different, as long as they are trying their best and progressing at her own rate! If Zenaya is bit of a handful at school, is it any surprise to them? All she sees is her parents arguing and they put so much pressure on her!
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I absolutely HATED that bit. I really cannot fathom how parents compare their children to others and put them down.
We have one with ASD and another with severe dyslexia, we celebrate what they can do but NEVER make comment about what they can't do and how far behind their peers they are. It's disgusting behaviour.
 
Long time lurker and have watched since the start..

I have a son who’s suspected autistic and his behaviour can be challenging, I managed to try and get him into a routine but he don’t sleep well during the night, I feel amber may just feel worn out and it can easily get on top off you, however I do think she’s let herself get into a rut in the house. Hopefully in the next upcoming series she may off moved and doing abit better mentally. I do think she’s a good mum and she has the boys best intentions at heart. She try’s her best I think by them, perhaps when the scene where she was at Beth’s was shoot she literally had no sleep from the night before and was probably wondering what’s gonna happen next for her and the lads.

Mia & Chloe I just can’t watch I have to skip when there on.

sassi I think is passionate abouts zenayas education but there’s other ways to go about how she speaks to zenaya over it and I think it’s nice to see her sort off trying to move on from Darren and trying to keep it we civil as she can.
 
Leo100 said:
Just randomly remembered this can't remember if it was this weeks or last weeks episode when Marley was going to bed and they said night and didn't go up with him. Fair enough if he's happy to go and settles but I thought he was young to be taking himself up
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Yes, it was last night's I think.
Made me said because I think I'll still want to put ours to bed when they're teenagers
Its a special time for us, we read a story and have special hugs 🥺
 
Leo100 said:
Just randomly remembered this can't remember if it was this weeks or last weeks episode when Marley was going to bed and they said night and didn't go up with him. Fair enough if he's happy to go and settles but I thought he was young to be taking himself up
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I thought the same my 4 year old will take herself up to bed when she gets tired earlier than usually but I’ll follow her and make sure she’s got water and tucked in and she gets a cuddle and kiss from me and her dad and we let her know if she needs us to just come and get us.
 
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