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mrsblakey said:
I felt awful for Zenaya when they were laying into her at the restaurant about being naughty at school, then when Darren said others were doing better things. You just don’t say that 😭 every child is different, as long as they are trying their best and progressing at her own rate! If Zenaya is bit of a handful at school, is it any surprise to them? All she sees is her parents arguing and they put so much pressure on her!
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The thing that I find unforgivable about Sassi and Darren is that they expect their daughter to achieve more than they did and be different than they are - and it’s so unfair. Never expect your child to do something you wouldn’t have been able to. Hell, don’t expect your child to do anything so you can live vicariously through them.

Sassi telling Zenaya she’ll come home and go to bed every day if she misbehaves is ridiculous.
 
Jennytea said:
I’m sorry but FOUR years to do an English and Maths GCSE is bleeping ridiculous 😭💀 and now saying she’s going to have a year off to recharge! She could’ve done a whole degree and a masters in that time 🤣 who actually even gives a tit about GCSE’s when you are mid 20’s? Marley will have a degree before she does. Also the irony of her saying she has an English GCSE but wrote ‘off’ instead of ‘of’ and all her grammar is awful. Just give up hun. I would be kinder if it was anyone else but she’s so cocky and deluded in how she describes herself. How anyone could say she’s ambitious is crazy 🤣

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Sorry, I never reply to other comments on here I just come on and read because I watch teen mum. However, you’re being quite nasty. I want to add I am in no way a Chloe fan BUT I do understand her doing her GCSE’s. You HAVE to have a certain grade in maths to pursue midwifery, there is no other way around it. Yes, it took her 4 years and to some (even myself) that is quite long for one exam but we don’t know what went on behind the scenes, maybe nothing went on and she just couldn’t pass it. The fact you’re saying who even cares about GCSE’s in your mid 20’s shows you have no idea what it is to have to study for something to get into the career you want to pursue. I’m 20 and I’m pursuing education and law. I didn’t get to sit my exams when I graduated school due to Covid and didn’t get what I needed in maths so eventually will have to sit the maths exam again. It won’t take me 4 years BUT everyone’s journey is different.
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Dollenganger said:
Also, it doesn’t make anyone less of a person if they are not academic - everyone is good at something, I truly believe that. It’s not right in this country the way children are made to feel useless if they aren’t academic.
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1000% agree
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
It’s good Sassi said she was proud of Zenaya for trying but talk about mixed messages!
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So confusing! Sassi doesn’t realise how unkind she herself is until she sees Darren doing it! As one of you said above, the problem with those two is that they have no emotional intelligence. And that’s why they didn’t work together, as well.

Sassi will suddenly just spiral into a meltdown and blow up I’M LONELY!! ‘THIS CHILD IS…’ And Darren is Mr Defensive and Angry.
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RoryGilmore_ said:
Sorry, I never reply to other comments on here I just come on and read because I watch teen mum. However, you’re being quite nasty. I want to add I am in no way a Chloe fan BUT I do understand her doing her GCSE’s. You HAVE to have a certain grade in maths to pursue midwifery, there is no other way around it. Yes, it took her 4 years and to some (even myself) that is quite long for one exam but we don’t know what went on behind the scenes, maybe nothing went on and she just couldn’t pass it. The fact you’re saying who even cares about GCSE’s in your mid 20’s shows you have no idea what it is to have to study for something to get into the career you want to pursue. I’m 20 and I’m pursuing education and law. I didn’t get to sit my exams when I graduated school due to Covid and didn’t get what I needed in maths so eventually will have to sit the maths exam again. It won’t take me 4 years BUT everyone’s journey is different.
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1000% agree
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For some people, the traditional route just doesn’t work. My 19 year old sailed through school, GCSEs and A levels. And the 14 year old has struggled right from reception. She wasn’t even able to sit her SATS in year 6. She does have autism and ADD. I ended up having to take her out of school when she was in year 8. People telling her she’s thick was damaging her mental health. In the end, she took up horse riding and turned out to be brilliant at it. So the yard owner invited her to start their NVQ course which she is now doing and she will hopefully get Maths and English equivalent this way. She does practical stuff and yard work as well as some classroom teaching. It suits her much better. I think this sort of thing should be more accessible.
 
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Dollenganger said:
The thing that I find unforgivable about Sassi and Darren is that they expect their daughter to achieve more than they did and be different than they are - and it’s so unfair. Never expect your child to do something you wouldn’t have been able to. Hell, don’t expect your child to do anything so you can live vicariously through them.

Sassi telling Zenaya she’ll come home and go to bed every day if she misbehaves is ridiculous.
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Sassi and Darren confuse me 🤣 one minute I think she’s the problem then Darren pipes up then I think hmm it’s him but the two of them have zero communication skills, they discipline zenaya how parents in the 70/80/90s did thinking shouting works as authority when infact we can’t raise children the way we were raised as it’s a completely different world now. Children now aren’t as thick skinned as they were back then, mental health is massive now I would hate to think I could potentially cause my child to have anxiety or stress etc. I do believe in a child respecting peers but when her parents are young chavs then what do they expect? (Not dissing the chavs but that’s what they are or scheme kids from where I’m from) you are what u eat. So zenaya will turn out exactly like them if they don’t break the cycle and as much as I love sassi and Darren they are seriously toxic even as individuals but especially towards each other lol
 
When she says I wanna go such and such a place but can’t manage it ??? Doesn’t she just mean I can’t be arsed ??? And we all feel like that . It’s Not mental health problems it just means I can’t be arsed going 😂I always say I can’t be arsed going out but that’s cos I hate people not because I’m anxious or depressed
 
I was surprised by Ste this episode. Other seasons he's been so eager, maybe now he has a girlfriend he isn't as helpful as before. My daughters ASD waiting for ADHD assessment, I do feel for Amber as she seems so over whelmed and drained by the boys behaviour however she really needs classes on handling additional needs those boys run wild. They need structure, day to day life needs to be predictable for it to be smooth which limits meltdowns and I don't think she has the energy for it.


Chloe hasn't changed since previous seasons, still self obsessed and materialistic.


Sassi and Darren need some angry sex, those two argue purely because they both lack conversational skills.


Mia needs to sort her life out and learn some self love then she won't be so desperate and needy over a long distance boyfriend.

Manley had a good point about asking Marliya if she was happy to met the new boyfriend especially since the last one was abusive wasn't he?

Mia tried to turn it into a thing like Manley was jealous or annoyed she's seeing someone and putting him on loud speaker for Marliya to hear the conversation was horrific.
 
RoryGilmore_ said:
Sorry, I never reply to other comments on here I just come on and read because I watch teen mum. However, you’re being quite nasty. I want to add I am in no way a Chloe fan BUT I do understand her doing her GCSE’s. You HAVE to have a certain grade in maths to pursue midwifery, there is no other way around it. Yes, it took her 4 years and to some (even myself) that is quite long for one exam but we don’t know what went on behind the scenes, maybe nothing went on and she just couldn’t pass it. The fact you’re saying who even cares about GCSE’s in your mid 20’s shows you have no idea what it is to have to study for something to get into the career you want to pursue. I’m 20 and I’m pursuing education and law. I didn’t get to sit my exams when I graduated school due to Covid and didn’t get what I needed in maths so eventually will have to sit the maths exam again. It won’t take me 4 years BUT everyone’s journey is different.
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1000% agree
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I know a lot about what it takes to study towards something to get into the career I want to pursue and actually did it all in my 20’s working and as a mother so I can have an opinion on this type of situation thanks ☺ I stand by what I said.. the fact she wants to take a gap year after taking 4 years to complete a Maths and English GCSE tells me she is not going to have the go in her to complete an access course and then the degree. You might think I come across as ‘nasty’ but I suggest you realise that you are on tattle. There is much worse things to get offended by! You also do not know what people are qualified to comment on 😆. Also as you said you are only 20, take it from someone who’s actually got a degree and a masters that Chloe will NOT complete it.
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
Let’s be serious. Chloe is never going to be a midwife. We know it and she’s knows it so taking 4 years for a GCSE was pointless
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It’s all bullshit she is not going to do all the work required as well as 3 years of working 12 hour shifts on placements for free. And to be called nasty cause I said no one cares about GCSE’s in mid 20’s. Sorry but it’s true 💀 Everyone lies on CV’s and no one checks and the only time it can matter is when attending certain courses but a lot of the time modern access courses/foundation years include the required result instead 🤷🏻‍♀️
 
Miss.Chanandler.Bong said:
Let’s be serious. Chloe is never going to be a midwife. We know it and she’s knows it so taking 4 years for a GCSE was pointless
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Precisely this. Chloe wouldn't know a hard day's work if it jumped up and slapped her in the face :ROFLMAO: Like duck would she do long arse shifts on a ward for the (unfairly) small wage that healthcare workers get. Don't you have to do loads of unpaid shifts too when you're training? She definitely wouldn't do it. Especially when she's supposedly doing well as an influencer, like she's then going to go and work for free at an actual job!
 
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