Teen Mom UK #34

[Surreysue]

How much does Amber's brother look like Hudson View attachment 2474660

Albeit a lot cleaner than hudosn

 

[lookwhatthecatdraggedin1]

I had a thought about Zenaya. I noticed the teacher says she answers back a lot. In the scene at the restaurant where she says “what about a bath” I think she is genuinely asking. I was like that as a kid (I have ADHD) so tend to be more logical about things. And I wonder if she’s not “answering back” but is just disrupting the class or asking questions because she doesn’t understand things properly. I think Sassi should deffo get her an assessment. Adhd is harder to diagnose in girls but she’s showing the signs of it for sure. Wouldn’t surprise me either as Sassi deffo has signs of ADHD. I wish I could’ve had the support in school that is available now.



in the preview she literally stands and watches him pull that girls hair. I’ve got ADHD, it’s not an excuse for bad behaviour. If anything they need more routine

She’d 100% be the type to use having additional needs as a excuse for her kids bad behaviour, my son has autism (non verbal, limited understanding etc) and if her EVER dared acted in a bad way no chance would I be excusing it. Ambers a proper lazy parent who can’t be assed learning how to deal with her kids needs

 

[chaniikinns]

I had a thought about Zenaya. I noticed the teacher says she answers back a lot. In the scene at the restaurant where she says “what about a bath” I think she is genuinely asking. I was like that as a kid (I have ADHD) so tend to be more logical about things. And I wonder if she’s not “answering back” but is just disrupting the class or asking questions because she doesn’t understand things properly. I think Sassi should deffo get her an assessment. Adhd is harder to diagnose in girls but she’s showing the signs of it for sure. Wouldn’t surprise me either as Sassi deffo has signs of ADHD. I wish I could’ve had the support in school that is available now.



in the preview she literally stands and watches him pull that girls hair. I’ve got ADHD, it’s not an excuse for bad behaviour. If anything they need more routine

I agree I’m currently fighting for my daughter to be assessed for adhd and autism.

I didn’t watch the preview but aggression is common in boys adhd and autism sadly. My ex’s nephew had it and he was extremely aggressive, screamed, hit, broke things he was on medication as well.

Why do you think originally adhd was referred to as naughty child syndrome because they seemed just like a naughty child when actually it’s impulses that adhd kids struggle to control. Some have differently symptoms of adhd some don’t show lots of signs and it’s mild others it’s extreme. And yes they definitely need routine it’s literally in every book written about adhd and autism and doctors say the same and they need patience someone needs to be calm in the situation because they’ll get more worked up by chaos.

Amber blows her top instantly she has zero patience or calmness to her but ste while not able to be calm with amber does amazing being calm with the kids hence the no issues. I feel amber only seeks our help and support for the boys when cameras are around. It just saddens me because Hudson is showing the signs it seems again she’s not pushing to get help or trying to research and help him so sadly he’s going to be like Brooklyn where support comes to late for him

 

[Jennytea]

Amber blows her top instantly she has zero patience or calmness to her but ste while not able to be calm with amber does amazing being calm with the kids hence the no issues. I feel amber only seeks our help and support for the boys when cameras are around. It just saddens me because Hudson is showing the signs it seems again she’s not pushing to get help or trying to research and help him so sadly he’s going to be like Brooklyn where support comes to late for him

Agree with everything you are saying.. I think that’s why I get annoyed by her because she tries to put on this whole show of ‘I’ve done everything I can to help’ but she hasn’t done duck all. It seemed like the last season she wanted Ste and Brooklyn to get diagnosed so she could blame ADHD for all the issues she has with both of them and take zero responsibility. She’s her own worst enemy and she’s made everything the way it is and continues to make it worse. If her mum stopped taking selfies and actually gave her daughter a kick up the ass and hand maybe things could be different. She never seems to address the fact her house is a bleeping tip and cluttered. I wonder if she’s moved out of that house now since the gas problems.

 

[stargirl23]

My partners in the dog house, little shite just told me he ‘forgot’ to tell me he finished off the salsa and Doritos I was craving them all day and thought can’t wait to eat them with teen mom tonight

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Sassi is a bit much sometimes but at least she trying to discipline Zenaya I guess. Her home is always clean too and she can cook a decent meal

 

[Nellinton]

My eyes rolled when they brought out the memory box

 

[chaniikinns]

My snacks for tonight what’s everyone else having?

 

[lookwhatthecatdraggedin1]

My snacks for tonight what’s everyone else having?

My snacks Currently circling the smyths catalog for the kids waiting for my mum to come round so we can watch

 

[chaniikinns]

Agree with everything you are saying.. I think that’s why I get annoyed by her because she tries to put on this whole show of ‘I’ve done everything I can to help’ but she hasn’t done duck all. It seemed like the last season she wanted Ste and Brooklyn to get diagnosed so she could blame ADHD for all the issues she has with both of them and take zero responsibility. She’s her own worst enemy and she’s made everything the way it is and continues to make it worse. If her mum stopped taking selfies and actually gave her daughter a kick up the ass and hand maybe things could be different. She never seems to address the fact her house is a bleeping tip and cluttered. I wonder if she’s moved out of that house now since the gas problems.

Exactly, I did my research and my child used to hurt herself I couldn’t touch her or be near her or she got worse when overwhelmed or upset or angry I researched, I taught her how to safely calm down like deep breathes it wasn’t easy by any means but we did it and I’ve just got her a weighted blanket and when she again is having those emotions and deep breaths aren’t working I wrap her in it and give her a cuddle and stroke her hair and tell her she’s okay it’s going to pass and that they’re big feelings. It’s known that weight helps them decompress and calm down. I’m fighting tooth and nail at school to get support for her. Adam bet just winds me up she doesn’t give a tit its All about how amber feels. She doesn’t understand her boys at all and it infuriates me. She does nothing to help them she just goes “im overwhelmed, I’m too stressed, I’m depressed” she wouldn’t know about it at all I have depression and anxiety and fnd which is triggered by stress and I don’t sit and scream at my additional needs child when she’s having a hard time regulating her emotions. Ambers always shouting and always uses a “I can’t be arsed” tone with them. They’re going to grow up feeling like burdens

 

[Elle Woods]

I’ve got a terrys chocolate orange and some Asda bacon bites! I’ve got to admit I’m now watching it on paramount tho I wanna squeeze an episode of sex education in tonight as well and I struggle to stay awake past 10 so I’m watching this early
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Omg I know I’ve already seen it in the preview but watching the scene with Sassi going on at Zenaya about school again breaks my heart there’s no need to be like that with her over something that hasn’t even happened yet! To tell her off, because they’re predicting she’s gonna get a bad report at parents evening, and then say “oh why you crying I’m the bad guy again” is just horrible, poor little girl

 

[cotswoldlife]

My partners in the dog house, little shite just told me he ‘forgot’ to tell me he finished off the salsa and Doritos I was craving them all day and thought can’t wait to eat them with teen mom tonight

Send him out to the shops

 

[lauren96111]

I’ve got a terrys chocolate orange and some Asda bacon bites! I’ve got to admit I’m now watching it on paramount tho I wanna squeeze an episode of sex education in tonight as well and I struggle to stay awake past 10 so I’m watching this early
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Omg I know I’ve already seen it in the preview but watching the scene with Sassi going on at Zenaya about school again breaks my heart there’s no need to be like that with her over something that hasn’t even happened yet! To tell her off, because they’re predicting she’s gonna get a bad report at parents evening, and then say “oh why you crying I’m the bad guy again” is just horrible, poor little girl

Then she has a go at Darren for going the same thing. It’s like she doesn’t realise what she’s doing until it’s someone else doing it and then she gets all upset

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

Is Manley back with Maggie?
So every other weekend when she’s not at Maggie’s does Marliya see Manley?

 

[taurus_gal]

Omg Sassi & Darren need to STOP being like this with poor little Zenaya.. the way they carried on at the meal, making assumptions about what negative things the teacher was gonna say & then making her cry. That poor child will be on eggshells forever.. I understand the importance of good behaviour in school etc, but omg they go about things the totally wrong way!

 

[stargirl23]

Send him out to the shops

Lucky he came back with more and some haribos to say sorry

 

[SmudgeTheCat]

Is Manley back with Maggie?
So every other weekend when she’s not at Maggie’s does Marliya see Manley?

I don’t think she does

 

[Miss.Chanandler.Bong]

LOL Mia was proper staring at him like a weirdo
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Jordan really loved that memory box didn’t he? That’s why he shoved it in a loft

 

[SmudgeTheCat]

Wow ste can’t even look after his kids for a few hours because he has to put his car in the garage and he’s ok for them to go back to a house which nearly killed them. Ok

 

[Leo100]

How selfish is Ste "had the kids a bit longer than normal to help her out" they're your kids too Ste!!