hello52718273
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āThought Iād clear this upā he deffo wrote that question to himselfWhat is with these teen mom ladies and all the tea coming through this week
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Miss.Chanandler.Bong
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āThought Iād clear this upā he deffo wrote that question to himself
He has them on the days heās meant to. Other than his pettiness to her bf, I donāt get her issue. Sheās lucky Arron does some school runs too, assuming heās working full time
I know Shannon you have a whole new man and baby. There is no denying those boys had a great Christmas at their dads. The daily grind of kids is hard we all know that but expecting Charlie to do school runs from her house in her time 
That is funny about the cake thou 
Nah Charlie has a right to defend himself. I would have wrote the question too. Shannon grow up
That is funny about the cake thou Nah Charlie has a right to defend himself. I would have wrote the question too. Shannon grow up
Blondeangel2515
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Iām not being funny but why phone to have them when itās their bedtime? Surely being the dad you know when your sons bedtimes are so why phone when itās there settling down time/bed time that would peeve me off
that would peeve me off
Miss.Chanandler.Bong
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The bit about school runs. Obviously Arron would do more school runs. The kids live with him!
I genuinely donāt think Charlie is a bad dad thatās why I defended him. Shannon struggled to cope with one. How is it realistic to expect Charlie to be a school taxi. Tell you what he should keep them for a week straight thru and ask Shannon to come and do the school run. Sheās not working so it should be fine ehh. Because it makes no sense. If youāre going to dis your child's father all over social media donāt pick something so petty. Why are just believing the mums word against what we do see from Charlie. Works both ways. I would not trust Shannon on any truth with the lie over forgetting to get the morning after pill because she needed food. Nah Iām sticking up for Charlie on this oneWhy does everyone automatically go to defend men cause they post some pictures on social media cooking the tea or at a park
Yeah true , I'll agree she can't really argue that
Blondeangel2515
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Think it depends where Charlie lives and if itās on the way to work. Sometimes my nieces and nephews dad would drop them off if it was on their way and would pay for breakfast club or what time Charlie finishes work too. If their dad finished early he would pick them up and have them or pick them up and drop them off at home.
TheDuchessx
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Iām going to guess the phoning to have them at bedtimes thing is a specific incident. Say she had been texting him all day saying she felt ill or was stressed and could he have them, he finished work, maybe went to the gym or got a bath then called her to say he would come get them if she still needed him to and by then it was bedtime?
bigrednumber9
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There is nothing stopping Charlie having 50/50 care and responsibilities of those kids.. same for other dads, donāt want to hear they work etc.. so do most mums but they still get on with it. Iām not sure why itās acceptable for dads to have every other weekend and not the day to day responsibilities of raising children. Charlie is a tit sad regardless of what anyone thinks of Shannon and her decision making in the series l
samalambbxtch
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Iām going to say something here and I just KNOW people are going to jump down my throat. Itās been established that Shannon lied about being on the pill when she got pregnant the first time. The second time she told him she would get the morning after pill but āforgotā then cried when Charlie said he did not want another baby. Yes of course it takes two to make a baby, but she trapped him twice, on purpose. Shannon strikes me as a a spoilt little princess that expects all of the men in her life to bow down to her every whim. We know Charlie is an hole we saw it on tv, I beleive he is bitter about Aaron thatās clear in his response to that question, which is weird and childish seeing as he clearly never wanted to be with Shannon. I would be the last person to defend a deadbeat, but if they have agreed on days and times for him to have the boys and he sticks to that then how is she moaning that he doesnāt do extra cos she thinks he should. Sheās with someone else, has a new baby itās so petty sheās decided to post all this on Instagram.
Do you coparent? I hateeee my daughterās dad with a passion but I suck it up for a good coparenting relationship for her. Parenting is very hard and ofc it would be nice for him to do more but thatās the standard parenting set up for most separated parents and itās basically impossible for him to, it just wouldnāt work. Her life is based around living here, same with most mums as we are the default parent, itās just how it is. Her school, my job etc are all around here so it makes sense that I do it all and it would be impossible for him to do the school runs etc cos of where he lives and works. My bf does offer to do them when he can and when I feel like complete tit as Iām pregnant as he does work full time. Shannon is just very lazy and we saw this on the show, why she had more kids is beyond me. Most likely so the job centre donāt pressure her into work
Miss.Chanandler.Bong
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I agree
People will defend her saying he could wear a condom but if she agreed to take the pill she should take it. She trapped him 100%
When she forgot to take the pill with Frankie, Charlie even said why do you wanna bring another child into this situation and I agreed with him tbh. Their environment wasnāt goodDo you coparent? I hateeee my daughterās dad with a passion but I suck it up for a good coparenting relationship for her. Parenting is very hard and ofc it would be nice for him to do more but thatās the standard parenting set up for most separated parents and itās basically impossible for him to, it just wouldnāt work. Her life is based around living here, same with most mums as we are the default parent, itās just how it is. Her school, my job etc are all around here so it makes sense that I do it all and it would be impossible for him to do the school runs etc cos of where he lives and works. My bf does offer to do them when he can and when I feel like complete tit as Iām pregnant as he does work full time. Shannon is just very lazy and we saw this on the show, why she had more kids is beyond me. Most likely so the job centre donāt pressure her into work
gmarsh28
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Omg yes I always thought that what happened to that baby lol
Ouch my boobs are literally pulsing looking at this
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samalambbxtch
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I totally agree but I didnāt want to make two controversial statements in one post, in an ideal world yeah it would be great if more parents could do 50/50 but unfortunately itās just not realistic. Even if a mum works chances are sheās receiving benefits to top up her wages, sheāll also receive child benefit only one parent/household can claim it. Iām Shannonās case she lives with another adult with a full time wage also. How can people expect a dad to work part time if heās also trying to run a household. Chances are he wouldnāt be entitled to any benefits, having his children wouldnāt cut it as an excuse with the job center, if the work is there they would expect him to take it.Do you coparent? I hateeee my daughterās dad with a passion but I suck it up for a good coparenting relationship for her. Parenting is very hard and ofc it would be nice for him to do more but thatās the standard parenting set up for most separated parents and itās basically impossible for him to, it just wouldnāt work. Her life is based around living here, same with most mums as we are the default parent, itās just how it is. Her school, my job etc are all around here so it makes sense that I do it all and it would be impossible for him to do the school runs etc cos of where he lives and works. My bf does offer to do them when he can and when I feel like complete tit as Iām pregnant as he does work full time. Shannon is just very lazy and we saw this on the show, why she had more kids is beyond me. Most likely so the job centre donāt pressure her into work
My stepdaughter has spent a lot of extra time with us recently because of her mums mental health and itās turned her world upside down. She has to get up an hour an half earlier to get 2 busses to the other side of town to school. She hasnāt been able to play out with her friends because they all live near her mum not us. Sheās knackered from early mornings and getting home late. If she was younger or if my partner didnāt have me to help, thereās absolutely no way heād have been able to do it.
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