Teen Mom UK #23

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Did I download paramount+ and sign up to a free trial just to watch the episode
Yes I did 😂
Spoilers!
Amber: Again I felt so sorry, clearly gets no support from her mother, hopefully she gets answers for Brooklyn soon and again as for Ste I don’t like how he belittles Amber so much!
Chloe: I am 1 year older than her and all I can do is say gal are you ok? You have a child your OWN house and a partner and you never seem to be happy. The attitude of “I’ll go get a nose piercing because I’m being a rebel” stop 😂😂😂
Sassi: very disappointed in her this episode! Encourage your daughter don’t scream at her when shes still unsure how to spell her name, god help her when shes learning to tie her shoe laces 🤦🏻‍♀️ Wondering why she is crying then when she doesn’t get it right first go, wonder how Darren feels about that I was very upset seeing Zenaya get so worked up :(
Mia: I adore Mia! So respectful about Erin in this episode and explaining to Marliya that can can discipline her if shes being bold or doing something she shouldn’t. Erin just has a face like a smacked arse when she was discussing this with Maggie, her poor lips are so swolen from filler! Felt sorry for her in next weeks episode being robbed, happened to me before! :(
 
just waiting for my child to be picked up for a party and then I’ll be settling down to watch the new ep!

currently on season 2 of my re-watch. Mia tried so hard to be a little family. Manleys a twit. A fully grown man twit
Turns out I won’t be watching it as my internet is down 😭😫 can’t even access my App Store to download it to my phone 🤣 proper first world problems going on right now
 
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Amber: I’ve definitely been that mum in a cafe when both kids are kicking off and you want the ground to swallow you up and she seemed tired of dealing with it understandably. Really thought her mum might’ve stepped in and dealt with them, but she didn’t even tell them to sit and behave. It was good to see her and Ste on the same page with Brooklyn but given next weeks spoiler it looks like itwon’t last long.

Chloe: I completely understand Chloe not wanting another baby, but her her segments are so boring 😂😂 I guess that’s what comes with being stability and boring doesn’t really have a place in reality tv 😂

Sassi: She needs to stop with the cheek filler. It was nice to watch her and Darren discuss implanting a routine for Zenaya at his house, but it lasted five minutes. Why did she kick off with her over face time because she brought up the routine 🙃 it was hard to watch Sassi be so harsh with Zenaya. Don’t get me wrong I’ve a child who struggles like that and it’s really difficult to be patient but she spoke to her like she was an adult and not a five year old.

Mia: There’s definitely tension between Marliya and Erin but I don’t think it comes from Mia. I think Erin is probably a bit uncomfortable around Marilyn and she seems like quite a clever kid she’s obviously picking up on that. I reckon someone is making comments about Erin around Marliya and my bet would be ultimate pot stirrer Maggie!
 
Sassi is really awful this series, she treats her daughter like a teenager, poor girl is only 5!!!

She talks to her like a full on adult and even if you spoke to an adult like that it would be disgusting 😢 She is 5 ffs!!! The way she’s saying ‘literally’ over and over where she has zero patience has really wound me up . I hope she watches this back and realises how she comes across .
 
Sassi is really awful this series, she treats her daughter like a teenager, poor girl is only 5!!!


Oh my god that is awful!! Of course the poor little soul doesn't know how to try, she's petrified of getting it wrong and having her Mummy shout at her!! The one person she's supposed to be able to rely on for help and support shouts at her when she's unsure of something!
 
Sassi is toooo much. She is SO reactive that’s not normal behaviour from an adult surely. It’s a shame because her and Darren could have worked out if she wasn’t the way she is. It’s like she’s just never learnt any communication skills, even with her own daughter. I could not be arsed with that all the time there’s no wonder she says she can’t find a man.
 
Oh my god that is awful!! Of course the poor little soul doesn't know how to try, she's petrified of getting it wrong and having her Mummy shout at her!! The one person she's supposed to be able to rely on for help and support shouts at her when she's unsure of something!
Agreed! That was absolutely heartbreaking to watch - when Zenaya was just asking what letter comes next and Sassi was so so mean to her, and then she started crying and got told off for crying too (obviously why she feels the need to wipe her eyes, she’s not allowed to have emotions).
It seems like Sassi could really do with some parenting help, something that looks at her own triggers and emotions and how this impacts on her ability to respond to emotions. And also covers child development, so her expectations can be more reasonable.
 
What are you going for? I need some inspo!!
Got some twirl bites but may head to b&m for something else it’s hairdressing day so maybe thinking of a takeaway for it instead 🤔 can never be bothered cooking after getting my hair done

Zenaya is a hard name to spell for a 5 year old. How can Sassi not see that
Like why not just pass the envelope and ask her what comes next lead her to find out. The fact she was going on about what she hasn’t done when zenaya was crying ffs 🤦🏼‍♀️ it shocks me with how calm sassis mum is compared to her like no wonder she prefers Darren’s if that’s what’s she’s like
 
Everyone is right to find it hard to watch Sassi being so tough on Zenaya but as an ex primary school teacher and mother to a 5 year old girl, I think we should give Sassi some grace. She’s clearly overwhelmed and has no idea how to teach her daughter and I get it, I really do. She’s shouting and screaming at Zenyaya because she can’t cope. That deserves compassion, not judgement. My advice to any mum feeling as overwhelmed and confused as Sassi is when teaching your child tell them well done and praise them even when they are WRONG! Simply because it boosts their confidence and when they don’t know the answer DO NOT be afraid to TELL them the answers! I know it sounds crazy but learning is all about trial and error and to learn you have to make mistakes but if you’re scared to make mistakes because you’re going to be screamed at it becomes counterproductive. Keep telling them the answers until they remember it and start to apply their knowledge independently. I feel for both Sassi and Zenaya. Being a single parent can’t be easy, wanna hug both of them and give them space from each other. It’s just very sad to see 🥺💔
 
Everyone is right to find it hard to watch Sassi being so tough on Zenaya but as an ex primary school teacher and mother to a 5 year old girl, I think we should give Sassi some grace. She’s clearly overwhelmed and has no idea how to teach her daughter and I get it, I really do. She’s shouting and screaming at Zenyaya because she can’t cope. That deserves compassion, not judgement. My advice to any mum feeling as overwhelmed and confused as Sassi is when teaching your child tell them well done and praise them even when they are WRONG! Simply because it boosts their confidence and when they don’t know the answer DO NOT be afraid to TELL them the answers! I know it sounds crazy but learning is all about trial and error and to learn you have to make mistakes but if you’re scared to make mistakes because you’re going to be screamed at it becomes counterproductive. Keep telling them the answers until they remember it and start to apply their knowledge independently. I feel for both Sassi and Zenaya. Being a single parent can’t be easy, wanna hug both of them and give them space from each other. It’s just very sad to see 🥺💔
I agree partly. I think often with the mums on here it’s all learnt behaviour. I doubt anyone had the time and patience for Sassi and she doesn’t know how to give that to Zenaya
 
Off topic moment from Season 2:

Am I crazy in thinking that Darren was 18 when he got with Sassi when she was 14?!🤢In her first introduction she said she’s 18 and she has been with Darren for 4 years. Then when she (obviously) kicks off at him for not reading his birthday card scene, the cake says 22😵😵😵
 
Off topic moment from Season 2:

Am I crazy in thinking that Darren was 18 when he got with Sassi when she was 14?!🤢In her first introduction she said she’s 18 and she has been with Darren for 4 years. Then when she (obviously) kicks off at him for not reading his birthday card scene, the cake says 22😵😵😵

Yeah I think it’s been talked about in earlier threads about the age gap and her being so young when they got together.
 
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