Sorry my mistake, the whole sweatpants thing was actually
another argument she had with him where she came to his home (earlier than agreed to collect isaac) and started berating him about his appearance, cause it was 4.30 on a Sunday and she doesnt agree with his behaviour. The video is online, she actually recorded it and threatened to show it in court lol
The physical altercation was a separate argument she instigated. The episode where she accuses him of being violent is somewhere in season 4.
tit talked Jo afterwards to issac about how you dont treat a woman that way. As far as I'm aware she only admitted to her being the instigator after she took out a PFA on him. Lovely. Think she had it dropped. I dont know the exact episodes, sorry.
I've been in an abusive relationship, violence isn't okay. Repeating abusive behaviour isn't okay. Sure it explains why it might have happened but it never excuses it imo. I'm not claiming that javi or jo were these demure submissive men who kail savagely beat on a daily basis. But the point is that doesnt matter, hitting someone when they annoy you is not okay. We teach our kids not to do that, so why would we condone or justify it when its adults doing it. Javi was controlling and an asshole, but he wasn't physically hurting her to a point where she had to defend herself. She followed him up the stairs shouting at him cause she was annoyed at him and she shook his head violently and shoved him. That is her instigating, not a case of self defence or in the moment. He wasn't in the room, she followed him in order to do that.
What did Chris say to get her into bed? Lol, no amount of words would get me into bed with someone who is
tit to my kids. But even if he did sweet talk her, it doesn't make it appropriate, it was still a
crappy decision and completely undermines and makes a mockery of all the resources she used to "protect herself from abuse" that other women actually need. It is an example of her poor decision making as a mother. Chris didnt have a PFA out on her claiming she abused him. Chris wasn't bad mouthing her on SM saying she's a
tit, absent mother. She said those things about chris, and then willingly brought another child into that mess with him. Knowing what would happen to that baby in terms of the drama with its dad as she went through it all with Lux. Yes it takes two to tango but she is the one with the PFA, the one bad mouthing him, the one you're praising to be a good a mother.... so she is the one I am discussing in that context. We all know he's a deadbeat dad.
But people seem to think that because kailyn has the kids dressed well and fed that she is a good mother.
Even the bare basics of keeping them safe, she is negligent. She regularly texts and drives with them in the car, they are in constant danger of being killed! And I'm not talking about a quick read of a message at parked lights, I am talking full on two eyes on the phone while driving. Regularly. Every time there's a car scene she is video calling-not with a hands free (that she can well afford), with her phone in her hand. She continually makes
crappy decisions imo.
If you smell
tit everywhere you go, then check your own shoe, as they say. All three men are the issue.... not kail? I dont see it that way. We can agree to disagree, cause I don't think we are ever going to agree on kail! My dislike for her goes way too deep lol!
I'm sure you are lovely though, despite your opinions on kail