this album has really got to me , I didn’t expect it to
My husband who I have been married to for a year , have been with since I was 19 and has never one done me wrong just caught me crying to “better man” in the bath
the SNL performance for whoever wants it. it's wonderful
Can someone explain what’s happened with Jake as I’m totally lost. I’ve not really followed Taylor swift x
I adore Taylor as much as you all, but does anyone else think she struggled vocally on the ‘well’ of the line ‘all too well’? Seemed out of tune each time
They dated for a while in 2010 (officially only 3 months but by the sounds of it from her song lyrics, it was more on/off than that, probably into 2011).
He was 30, she was 20-21. There are rumours he took her virginity, which could be understandable for someone who became famous so young, but she did date notorious shitbag John Mayer (also too old for her) prior to this (and others), so maybe not. The relationship seems to have been very full on, passionate and Taylor was besotted. But 3 months in he didn't turn up to her 21st birthday party and broke her heart with the excuse that she was too young. Again, from song lyrics, he sounds like he was gas lighting and love bombing/led her on and that he's a pretentious twat who considered himself better than her. Taylor has a certain goofyness to her and she was very young. He wasn't. She probably expected too much from the relationship and seems to have been broken by it. Enough to write a whole album essentially. All too well is essentially a song saying "this happened, I was part of it, I have all these memories and they are intense... you might want to act like it was nothing but it was something real and you know that". I don't think there's any indication that he cheated on her, but I might be wrong.
The vault track "I bet you think about me" definitely seems to be about him also (like I said, most of the album is) and it's getting a music video tomorrow. Lyrically it is SAVAGE, and the premise is amazing because Taylor has arguably proven herself to be the most prolific, talented songwriter in the world today, is definitely more famous and probably much richer than Jake, but back then he saw her as beneath him.
was it ever confirmed that they dated at all? I just remember one set of pictures of them being published. but neither of them ever said they were dating.
I saw a thing on TikTok that said all too well reflects on the man that didn’t show up to her 21st birthday , and then 22 immediately follows it and that’s probably no accident … as if she just wanted to forget that whole year and start fresh at 22 !It makes me really sad that The Lucky One and Nothing New were written for the same album. Taylor's been quite vocal more recently about her need to be liked and her fear that one day she won't be entertaining/relevant anymore, but I find it so sad that she's held that fear since she was so young.
I have a feeling that Borchetta/Big Machine advised Taylor not to put Nothing New on the album because it mentions her being drunk, and this was back when they were keen to maintain her image as a squeaky clean country sweetheart. I have no evidence for this, it just occurred to me as soon as I heard that line.
I wonder if part of writing 22 was a sort of rebellion against Jake making her feel that she was too young and immature. She flipped her youth in to something to be celebrated instead of derided, kinda like how she reclaimed the snake for rep.
Has anyone collated all the Easter eggs in the short film?