beeinmybonnet
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Jordan
Thread name - @rainbowdonkey
- Is currently pregnant for the 7th time, the third pregnancy she has had with her current partner, Jordan. They’ve been together less than a year, and their last miscarriage was only in February. Claims they weren’t trying this month, but didn’t use any protection. At not even 5 weeks, she has already had just about every symptom under the sun, including nausea, dizziness, fatigue, ‘baby brain’, cravings, acid reflux and bad hips.
- Has proven herself to be a casual racist, using the P word in a casual conversation with Jordan on a live, after telling him not to be racist. Her friends enabled her, as they always do, and told offended commenters that ‘people say worse’ and they should ‘leave if they don’t like it’. She muted everybody calling her out on it, and laughed about it with Jordan for most of the live.
- Has changed her mind on fostering, adopting and having children biologically constantly. Was apparently planning on adopting three kids in only March, which ‘fell through’ unsurprisingly.
- Was told she was too overweight for IVF but couldn’t be bothered to lose the weight. Begged for money so she could fund IVF privately, got a tenner. Also created a wish list for her birthday, claiming people asked her to make one. Nobody asked
Jordan
- In May she caught Jordan emotionally cheating on her with a random woman on Snapchat, but decided she was fine with it. He kept talking to this woman even after she sent him nudes, he knew exactly what he was doing. He confided in this woman that he was scared Tasha would never be able to give him children. Jordan also decided after he got caught that he wanted to start trying for a baby again, classic manipulation
- Tasha also said there’s no way Jordan could be abusing her because he buys her things all the time. Also love bombing. Jordan very clearly manipulated and gaslit Tasha into believing his behaviour was okay, and she made constant excuses and justifications for his behaviour. They got pregnant less than 2 weeks after she found out about his cheating.
- Jordan is also…a character. He is incredibly immature, blowing saliva bubbles on live, belittling Tasha constantly and humping Tasha from behind and smacking her whilst on live.
- Since getting into a relationship with Tasha, Jordan has developed ‘stress scars’ on his face, which Tasha claims he does by scratching his face when he’s anxious. He had none of these scars prior to their relationship.
- She has also said that he will constantly pester her if he wants sex, so she’ll give in, very healthy.
- He’s also very evidently abusive and is extremely quick to snap at Tasha. One time, she popped a black head and he blew up, and was so furious Tasha had to end the live. He never shies away from telling her to duck off, calling her a bleep etc, it’s NEVER banter. He also always calls her fat, and told her he hated her eyebrows when she got them done. Basically just destroys her self esteem. Was another incident where he had a bottle in his mouth, and she tapped the bottom which made the bottle hit his teeth. He had another huge outburst, swearing at her, storming off and audibly slamming doors all across the house. She laughed it off but seemed scared. She seems anxious when she waits for his reactions regularly, and often flinches when he makes any sort of sudden movement next to her. Has bragged about how he doesn’t hit her, as if that's not the bare minimum. Has tried to justify his anger issues by saying ‘everyone gets angry’.
- One of her best friends, Claire, has also stated that she hates Jordan.
- Has said she’s not being abused because somebody would know, and also says she would just leave. This, firstly, completely invalidates the experiences of abuse survivors, ‘just leaving’ is NEVER that simple. Also, an example she used of someone who would ‘just know’ she’s being abused is her sister. Her sister lives in Australia.
- Something which made her tolerance to abuse more understandable was the way she once talked about her childhood when on live. She said her dad used to smack her and her sister when they were young children, but justified it by saying that they were ‘hard kids’. Research HAS shown that children exposed to corporal punishment can have a lot more difficultly assessing potential abuse in adult relationships. She’s grown up being abused, thinking that it's love, and the exact same thing is happening now. She justifies Jordans actions the same way she does her dads, saying ‘Yeah, Jordan gets angry, but it's because I wind him up’. No Tasha, it's abuse.
- Somehow got the Maldives mixed up with the Canary islands
- Jordan failed his MOT which created a huge drama. It ended up costing them almost 3k in repairs, which Tasha seemingly paying for the entirety, despite it being Jordan’s car. This was a time when Jordan was first called out on his lies. He told Tasha the garage did the work on the car without asking, which obviously just isn’t true. The repairs were more than the car was even worth but said they ‘couldn’t be bothered’ to get a new one.
- Brags about money and how much she has in savings, openly disclosing she earns 2k a month.
- Thinks selling 3 items a month on Vinted qualifies as a side hustle
- Won’t get engaged because its ‘too soon’ but was happy to get knocked up after 2 weeks
- Claims she doesn’t care about Tattle…talks about it every 10 seconds
- Lies CONSTANTLY. Tried to say her and Jordan got together in January, despite posting regularly that they got together in JULY.
- Went out for a bottomless brunch for one of her friends engagements and spent the entire time talking about tattle
- Went on the sunbeds and got incredibly drunk knowing there was a possibility she was pregnant
- Can’t chew potatoes
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