I will take his splendid advice to heart.
(BTW I caught the very end of a live that his ex, the singer Arisa, that he won Italian Strictly with, did late last night. Her last words were basically quoting his post. She also posted a story the other day (and then deleted) with a long post about how she still loves him and misses him etc. Poor woman - they were cute together, but it was never going to work, between age difference, her wanting to settle down and him not, and him getting Strictly. Probably not a good idea for her to post that she's still heartbroken but she's all about sharing her emotions
. Anyway, thanks for attending my TED talk on Vito and Arisa!)
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