Mrs Hinch #698 This is not just Any grief, this is extreme Hinch grief

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Mrs Hinch #698 This is not just ANY grief….this is extreme Hinch grief 🙄

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It is now 4 months since Al departed this world.
There has been the very occasional pre-planned post during this sad time.
Sitting in a tractor tyre, in a field with pointing to the sky.
Church prayer recital with the Very Reverend Leonard 🙏 Blessed Be ❤
On the sofa, cuddling the ever ballooning Henry, not a hair out of place .... and today, a first video "Hello, how are you all?", in the style of Holly Willoughby. Full make up, filtered as usual.
Whilst it is awful when anyone's loved one passes, this extreme grief 'journey' is the most extreme anyone on the planet has ever had! 🙄
Get ready for the Autumn barrage of Ads as the funds need topping up at dossers 'farm'! Oiii oiii! 👀 👃 🚬
Carry on nusties xx
 
Not a fan of this woman at all but I will say she does look broken. So my advice would be stay away from social media. Your life has completely changed, it won't be the same. Use your time for better things than looking and answering to people you do not know and dont know you. You are set for life Sophie, you dont need the money, you dont need strangers to big you up, just dont do the sympathy posts. Nobody real will appreciate that. Your huns will love it but the rest of society just think 'no'
 
Just my opinion, but when you have very little to do in your life (cough, Hinch), things like grief just tend to make you float around feeling sorry for yourself. Very self indulgent.

You see it in other parts of her life too, like those monthly cleaning lists she started - most of us could get that list done in a couple of days. Not Hinch though, that’s a month’s worth of cleaning, something that allegedly is her job.

Her life is like a tug of war where one side has just given up, there’s no tension just sloppiness leading to no achievements. The best thing her and Jamie could do for their whole family is get job where you leave the house for at least 6 or so hours a day. She would be so much more productive in all areas and would have a focus and purpose again.

Heck, even her Instagram account could give her that much actual work if she put some effort in
 
She really does need to stay off Insta for the foreseeable is she's still not coping with her grief. In fact social media drip feeding would be the last thing on my mind so it needs to stop now so she can concentrate on getting on with her new way of life. Grief counselling is certainly something that needs to be put in place in this situation.
I absolutely cannot stand the women but for the sake of her and her family she needs to deal with this head on and forget all about this influencing shite.
 
Again I dont want to give attention to her but grief is a horrible, terrible and draining thing. When my parent lost their dad many years ago she never ever accepted it even though he suffered from Alzheimers for many many years. She never tried to deal with it, never got over it and now she is the most bitter person on this earth, lost all of her friends, my own aunties and uncles just cut her loose because of the nastiness it built up in her. Its sad but thats the life she built for herself and as her family its horrible. Grief is debilitating and it never really goes away. I get that social media is her source of income but its 100% time to make the change to real actual life. I know this won't be popular with 95% of this thread and I have called her all the names under the sun over the years but I think this thread should be taken down until she actually decides to start afresh with real life content. She'd get more sympathy and understanding from everyone then. I find it hard to knock a woman who is obviously struggling with her fathers death
 
I’ve followed this woman for years, and had to unfollow her after this. My daughter lost her dad (my ex) very suddenly when she was 15, Xmas day a few years ago now, her dad was 36, she didn’t bang on about extreme grief, Mrs hinch stopped working for months, my daughter went back to school, after the Christmas break, aced her GCSEs sailed through college, got an apprenticeship and is living her best life.

She hasn’t drip fed any grief, nor has she mentioned it on social media. Her work colleagues don’t know, only her closest friends. She healed in private with us around her gently supporting her if she fell.

Hinch really needs to keep this private. The kid saying grace in a church was the epitome of odd attention seeking
 
My mum died in December. I’m there. I get it all.

I have never felt the urge to post anything grief related on my socials. I don’t feel I would gain anything from it, it’s my grief to navigate and we’re all different

…..But bleeping hell I’d hope she’s having some sort of grief counselling , and stays away from social media in defiantly
 
I've just played the video back and listened properly, as I was trying to sort a new thread out before stuffing Spag Bol down my fat thrait!
The filtering etc aside, I do agree she needs to stay off line and bring her Instagram 'career' to an end. Lead a normal life, which I'm sure Weepy would have wanted and get some proper counselling in order to move forward.
I can't help wonder if she is under pressure from her mother and Jimbobnojoborknob to get earning from the 'shoppers' again.
This all needs to stop. I don't like her or Jaymee, but, enough is enough.
 
I think it’s fair to say she has entered the anger stage of grief! A very different Mrs Hinch on that video, possibly the true Sophie rather than the character she has played for so long.

Definitely the true Sophie coming out as opposed to the soft persona of the Hinch brand.

We have seen the real Sophie slip though the cracks a few times when the mask slips and today there was definitely signs of it!
 

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Everything happening to HER and HER family is just the saddest, most extreme ever isn’t it? 🙄
I’ve had nieces and nephews lose their grandad (older than her 2 tend toddlers) and yes they were sad, asked questions and didn’t always understand BUT they got over it a heck of a lot faster than the rest of us, kids just DO. She’s making such a meal of their grief, honestly. This can’t go on surely? People follow insta for some light entertainment, if she’s gonna go on about her loss all the time well that’s a massive turn off.

I do think she’s done and over as an account this time. Who’d have thought it would have been weepy what did it 🙈
 
I felt that, that was real! I was like that 11 years ago when my Sister died suddenly! Sometimes even now tears will spring if a memory pops up but... I went for counselling, it works, she needs to go, it's the only way she'll accept it!
However, she's still drip feeding for the sympathy and the 🐑 will all definitely be on her side after that, she'll be back in September when the boys are back in school. But for pities sake, drop the filter and those tattoos!!
 
She's just not helping herself at all, she's wallowing and she'll never get over it until she stops it, she has had no intention of helping herself because in some kind of perverse way I think shes enjoying all the attention it brings. My guess would be that her family and friends have lost patience, sympathy only lasts so long before it becomes tedious, so now she's looking for that validation from strangers who'll fawn over her, which is exactly what she wants. If she'd just get off her Arse and fill her day with things that take your mind off it she'd see improvement in her state of mind.
I lost both my parents within a year of each other, they were both under 70 and I felt robbed, they never got to be old, but the best thing I ever did was go back to work, for x amount of hours a day I was thinking of other things. She's still acting like her dad died 3 days ago.
 
Might get more lurkers over here now that another conwoman “influencer” has mentioned tattle and poor Mrs Hinch. Vav has her own thread and I took this from her thread so hopefully ok to share.
 

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I know I’m going to hell anyway so here goes……

in the words of will smith and jazzy Jeff

Thread suggestion Mrs hinch 699 “drip, drip, drip, drip BOOM 💥

Sorry not sorry, we’ve all been through hardships, trauma, grief. Either address it and move on or sit in it.
sorry if this is triggering or harsh to anyone but, I said what I said, and I stand by it.
 
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