I saw H talking about struggling with her mental health earlier today. I genuinely believe this way of life they have chosen is very toxic. Exposing your personal life, home, relationship, even children to the whole world, documenting everything you do, every meal you eat, every trip you take. Being open to the judgement of others. Not having a set routine of going to work, being stuck looking at the same 4 walls all the time. The value of money must become so warped due to the amount of #gifted items they receive. There is definitely a certain satisfaction in working hard to save up for the things you really want. We bought a house almost 10 years ago, it was an absolute wreck!! It was a much bigger project than we initially realised. We both worked sooooo hard, all the hours god sent to earn enough money to pay for it all, then on our days off doing DIY. We did 80% of the work ourselves. It was bloody hard and stressful but now its finished we have a home we are so proud of, and we know we paid for everything and worked hard for it. These two are stuck in some empty existence, hinting and begging for things. I would absolutely hate that life.