Married at First Sight UK #10 Tasha's calling everyone a tramp, Ella's creeping with her prowly hands

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MarshMallowMonster said:
This is well written. It’s from Ella’s IG.
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Except if you read through the comments on her insta 95% of them are "yasss qween, Nathaniel is the worst, you didn't do anything wrong, Bianca who??"
So either someone is well on top of cleaning up his comments, or there's very little 'transphobic' abuse going on.

Nathaniel on the other hand has his comments turned off... wonder why.
 
HoGi said:
It's being the sort of girl other girls would want to be friends with. Having respect for "girl code" and generally being an all round decent person.

So not flirting with a bloke who is taken, not getting with a friends ex even if you have liked them for years, not dragging other girls down for their appearance etc.
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Thanks.
I sort of get it but I would call that being a decent friend.
 
Scotch Mist said:
Thanks.
I sort of get it but I would call that being a decent friend.
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Yeh it is, but the thing with being a girls girl is that you don't have to know or be friends with the other girl. It's about being there for ALL girls.

So basically it's not flirting with a bloke you know is taken, even if you don't know his GF/wife. Not slagging off a girl you pass in the streets outfit. Having a girl you just mets back etc.
 
HoGi said:
Yeh it is, but the thing with being a girls girl is that you don't have to know or be friends with the other girl. It's about being there for ALL girls.

So basically it's not flirting with a bloke you know is taken, even if you don't know his GF/wife. Not slagging off a girl you pass in the streets outfit. Having a girl you just mets back etc.
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The moral code thing I get. Nobody should be out trying to steal someone else's husband, but there's loads of women I don't like and I wouldn't stick up for them just because they're a woman.
 
I certainly witch about other girls, but I think it's more not immediately judging based off appearances and willing to help and back up a girl you might have just met.

I think being a girls girl is different to being a friend as its like being a friend to all girls regardless of how well you know them.

It certainly isn't the behaviour we have witnessed from Ella or Tasha.
 
If ANY of the men had shown the slightest interest in Ella she would have been all over them like a rash. It was all about validation that she passes as a woman, as is clear from the Instagram post pasted above. Sorry Ella, but you really don’t. And her and JJ should be booted off the show for their lousy behaviour (they won’t though)
 
The whole girl's girl thing is just the same as Ella's other declarations about her character, forgetting that actions speak louder than words and you can't just spout platitudes as cover whilst skulking about causing grief.

A bit like Roz Truss's 'I'm mad me' intro, to use a more harmless comparison. All evidence since has shown nothing of her supposed crazy kooky antics, and I'm sure everyone here can think of all the real oddballs they've met in their life (people probably think that about me :ROFLMAO: ) and none of them have ever warned you about how 'mad they are' before they pull out odd looking dog treats despite not owning a dog or pouring cider in their shoes before putting them on or how Bruce Forsyth's ghost is haunting their car.
 
HoGi said:
I certainly witch about other girls, but I think it's more not immediately judging based off appearances and willing to help and back up a girl you might have just met.

I think being a girls girl is different to being a friend as its like being a friend to all girls regardless of how well you know them.

It certainly isn't the behaviour we have witnessed from Ella or Tasha.
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I take people as I find them (men and women) and make judgements based on their behaviour.
I would always defend other women who are victims of sexism and harassment though even if I didn't like them much.
 
Tasha is absolutely vile, she’s only 4 years younger than me and I couldn’t imagine ever getting in someone’s face screaming and calling someone a woman no matter how much I disliked them! Trashy. Also it didn’t look like Erica dodged her hug but I don’t really blame her if she did and I also think it’s more disrespectful to call someone a woman than it is to dodge a hug from them lol
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Also just to add, in my opinion anyone who gets that irate about a perceived disrespect is deeply insecure, obviously it’s abit different if it’s a partner or friend but if I think someone I’m not friends with has disprespected me.. I’m not really arsed to be honest cause that’s a them problem
 
Lonelylondon said:
Tasha is absolutely vile, she’s only 4 years younger than me and I couldn’t imagine ever getting in someone’s face screaming and calling someone a woman no matter how much I disliked them! Trashy. Also it didn’t look like Erica dodged her hug but I don’t really blame her if she did and I also think it’s more disrespectful to call someone a woman than it is to dodge a hug from them lol
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I feel like something else must have gone on between them two off camera, why is there instant hate towards her from Tasha?? It's embarrassing for Paul really
 
Scotch Mist said:
The moral code thing I get. Nobody should be out trying to steal someone else's husband, but there's loads of women I don't like and I wouldn't stick up for them just because they're a woman.
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Depends on the situation though I think, there’s some women I can’t stand but if I saw them being treated poorly by a man (harassed, abused etc) I would obviously stand up for them regardless of what terrible people I perceive them to be lol
 
blatherer said:
I feel like something else must have gone on between them two off camera, why is there instant hate towards her from Tasha?? It's embarrassing for Paul really
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I feel that there's loads of things going on that we haven't seen and it's all rather annoying because the narrative is being strictly controlled. I guess that's why Nathaniel made sure that he gave his thoughts at the dinner party rather than quietly leaving or letting the judges defend Ella at a commitment ceremony.
He didn't want to hear them making excuses for her so he just went for it.

Erica might have behaved like a right witch to Tasha (although that doesn't mean that she should have called her a woman). We don't know what really went on there to fuel this animosity.
It makes the extreme reactions seem a bit odd.

What's the beef between Luke and Jordan about?
 
Tasha is young and insecure and it shows in her behaviour. Erica is annoying, I think she does rather fancy herself, I don't think I'd be attracted to her (in a hanging out way) if I met her as she has no charm. Some women do give out that vibe and she's one of them. There are many gorgeous people who are very appealing. Erica thinks she is hotter than she is in my opinion although I know plenty think she is.
 
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Brigitjonesbuttcheek said:
They claim to be a girls girl, but then say Bianca isn't her friend anyway. So a girls that are my friends girl? Not really the same thing.

Says her trans status is not relevant, but also uses it as an excuse for their behaviour because Jj saw them as Ella and is straight.

Jj is not straight. At first I thought he liked Ella because they look like a blow up doll, but after seeing more of Jj, I think Jj is closest bi/gay and that's why he jumped at the chance to get with Ella. Your type being a blow up doll does reflect someone who hasn't developed genuine sexual attraction to human women but instead just guessed at what men should like. Plus his clothes and voice are well camp.
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In this instance I actually agree. If you’re a selfish, vile, twit the contents of your pants are largely irrelevant.
 
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