Made in Chelsea #4

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Quarrantinemadness said:
This happened to me, and the worst thing is he lied to me for 11 years about wanting children, putting it off telling me we needed a bigger house or a bigger car etc, he basically lied to me the whole relationship/marriage. A year after meeting him I said I was desperate to have a family (early 20’s) and that if he didn’t, I would understand and it was kinder to tell me then than lead me on. He assured me over and over there he wanted children. By the time I plucked up the courage to leave, I had no confidence, and felt so ugly. I don’t have the confidence to be with anyone else, and now I’m too old biologically for children. So basically he ruined my life. I am so angry with myself for going along with it. I was stupid. I’ve had counselling and everything, been suicidal. I’m alone and all I ever wanted was my own children. I know I could adopt, however as women you will appreciate it’s not the same as carrying a child yourself.
Anyway that’s a lot isn’t it, sorry x
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So sorry about what happened to you 😪 I hope one day you have the family you deserve, it's never too late, please don't lose hope xxx

Quarrantinemadness said:
This happened to me, and the worst thing is he lied to me for 11 years about wanting children, putting it off telling me we needed a bigger house or a bigger car etc, he basically lied to me the whole relationship/marriage. A year after meeting him I said I was desperate to have a family (early 20’s) and that if he didn’t, I would understand and it was kinder to tell me then than lead me on. He assured me over and over there he wanted children. By the time I plucked up the courage to leave, I had no confidence, and felt so ugly. I don’t have the confidence to be with anyone else, and now I’m too old biologically for children. So basically he ruined my life. I am so angry with myself for going along with it. I was stupid. I’ve had counselling and everything, been suicidal. I’m alone and all I ever wanted was my own children. I know I could adopt, however as women you will appreciate it’s not the same as carrying a child yourself.
Anyway that’s a lot isn’t it, sorry x
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So sorry about what happened to you 😪 I hope one day you havr the family you deserve, it's never too late, please don't lose hope xxx
 
eff verity, if anyone deserves a good time from Miles rn, it’s Emily. Their chemistry is so much more palpable as well.

as for Ruby, giiiiiiirl we need to talk about ya boyf
🚩 “be quiet Ruby”
🚩 comfortable with lying to your friend’s face (an innocent girl who has never done anything malicious to him)
🚩 comfortable with his friend cheating and lying
🚩 clearly bricking it, prioritising being “one of the lads” and keeping dirty secrets over doing the right thing
🚩 “he loves you” to said cheated on girl, in what can only be described at best as deeply manipulative or worse, gaslighting.

Then we have Tristan, not wanting to be outdone,
🚩 “duck off” to Tiffany, when she interrupted him excusing cheating, lying and manipulative behaviour in the process of trying to dig his scumbag friend out of a hole.
🚩 also lied to innocent girl’s face
🚩gaslighting most females on the show like his life depends on it

Harvey … opens his mouth and 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩

We had the tricep trio but I think I’m going be calling this lot the red flag rabble from now on
 
I don't understand what Rez was thinking. If my best friend cheated on her partner I would never ever share this information with anyone. Yes I would encourage her to do the right thing but if she's a really good friend it's not my place to spread around what she confided to me. Did he really think that once Ruby found out she would keep it for herself?
 
Poor Emily, I felt so bad for. It's obvious that the girl was going through a terrible time. She was skin and bone and visibly rattled. I'm sure most of us can relate at some stage, where we've been in toxic relationships ☹

Maeva and Miles together totally crack me up. She was on top form ranting about Verity! "The Vegan' 😂
 
*Cherrycola* said:
Poor Emily, I felt so bad for. It's obvious that the girl was going through a terrible time. She was skin and bone and visibly rattled. I'm sure most of us can relate at some stage, where we've been in toxic relationships ☹

Maeva and Miles together totally crack me up. She was on top form ranting about Verity! "The Vegan' 😂
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I don’t know if verity does it for the show - I suspect not. But she comes across as thoroughly spiteful and unpleasant. She’s dishonest AF.

that petty little “he’s been watching my stories” with a triumphant little smirk on her face said it all to me. A producer can’t force that. It was spiteful, shallow and ridiculous.

I watch the stories of people I’ve dated out of nosiness, because the scales have fallen from my eyes and I can see what losers they are. Not because I still fancy them, or am in any way invested in their life. It’s speaks volumes to Verity’s high opinion of herself that she assumes it must equate to Sam having some sort of feelings for her.

I have an ex who was an absolute pig to me. He cheated, was disparaging about my family and working class background, the lot. I’ve moved on in life and have a new partner who is an all round better person, we have a home together, I’ve progressed in my career whereas my ex stagnated. It kills me that he doesn’t have Instagram because do I want to check out his stories and gloat about what a loser he is/ thank my lucky stars I left him? YOU BETCHA

sushimama said:
I don't understand what Rez was thinking. If my best friend cheated on her partner I would never ever share this information with anyone. Yes I would encourage her to do the right thing but if she's a really good friend it's not my place to spread around what she confided to me. Did he really think that once Ruby found out she would keep it for herself?
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it was definitely a weird move.

• Rez obvs shouldn’t have stood by and watched Harvey cheat but ultimately that’s on Harvey
• However he was ultimately willing to lie to Emily’s face on behalf of Harvey which was sketchy AF
• maybe the burden of this knowledge got to him and he wanted to share with Ruby. Or maybe a better part of his conscious wanted Ruby to share it with Emily. But in that case why get annoyed at a Ruby and why continue to fight Harvey’s corner?

Rez comes across as someone a bit conflicted/confused.
 
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lexidarling said:
Baffling to me both Julius and Harvey still won’t just come clean?? Like you’ve been caught out now stop with your ever changing unbelievable stories just admit you had sex and apologise for what it is you actually did.
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When Julius said he “couldn’t remember” if he’d kissed the girl who came over to his house after his date with Tabitha because he was “really tired” 😂
 
cee-bee said:
I don’t know if verity does it for the show - I suspect not. But she comes across as thoroughly spiteful and unpleasant. She’s dishonest AF.

that petty little “he’s been watching my stories” with a triumphant little smirk on her face said it all to me. A producer can’t force that. It was spiteful, shallow and ridiculous.

I watch the stories of people I’ve dated out of nosiness, because the scales have fallen from my eyes and I can see what losers they are. Not because I still fancy them, or am in any way invested in their life. It’s speaks volumes to Verity’s high opinion of herself that she assumes it must equate to Sam having some sort of feelings for her.

I have an ex who was an absolute pig to me. He cheated, was disparaging about my family and working class background, the lot. I’ve moved on in life and have a new partner who is an all round better person, we have a home together, I’ve progressed in my career whereas my ex stagnated. It kills me that he doesn’t have Instagram because do I want to check out his stories and gloat about what a loser he is/ thank my lucky stars I left him? YOU BETCHA



it was definitely a weird move.

• Rez obvs shouldn’t have stood by and watched Harvey cheat but ultimately that’s on Harvey
• However he was ultimately willing to lie to Emily’s face on behalf of Harvey which was sketchy AF
• maybe the burden of this knowledge got to him and he wanted to share with Ruby. Or maybe a better part of his conscious wanted Ruby to share it with Emily. But in that case why get annoyed at a Ruby and why continue to fight Harvey’s corner?

Rez comes across as someone a bit conflicted/confused.
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Lol so true, I watch the stories of my ex’s and ex friends (only those who I’m no longer friends with for a reason) to laugh at them haha

cee-bee said:
I don’t know if verity does it for the show - I suspect not. But she comes across as thoroughly spiteful and unpleasant. She’s dishonest AF.

that petty little “he’s been watching my stories” with a triumphant little smirk on her face said it all to me. A producer can’t force that. It was spiteful, shallow and ridiculous.

I watch the stories of people I’ve dated out of nosiness, because the scales have fallen from my eyes and I can see what losers they are. Not because I still fancy them, or am in any way invested in their life. It’s speaks volumes to Verity’s high opinion of herself that she assumes it must equate to Sam having some sort of feelings for her.

I have an ex who was an absolute pig to me. He cheated, was disparaging about my family and working class background, the lot. I’ve moved on in life and have a new partner who is an all round better person, we have a home together, I’ve progressed in my career whereas my ex stagnated. It kills me that he doesn’t have Instagram because do I want to check out his stories and gloat about what a loser he is/ thank my lucky stars I left him? YOU BETCHA



it was definitely a weird move.

• Rez obvs shouldn’t have stood by and watched Harvey cheat but ultimately that’s on Harvey
• However he was ultimately willing to lie to Emily’s face on behalf of Harvey which was sketchy AF
• maybe the burden of this knowledge got to him and he wanted to share with Ruby. Or maybe a better part of his conscious wanted Ruby to share it with Emily. But in that case why get annoyed at a Ruby and why continue to fight Harvey’s corner?

Rez comes across as someone a bit conflicted/confused.
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To be fair to Rez, I understood that after his and tristans convo with Emily, they went to the toilet, took their mics off and Tristan mouthed to rez that Harvey had cheated, so that implies that Rez actually didn’t know when he spoke to Emily
 
Lonelylondon said:
Lol so true, I watch the stories of my ex’s and ex friends (only those who I’m no longer friends with for a reason) to laugh at them haha


To be fair to Rez, I understood that after his and tristans convo with Emily, they went to the toilet, took their mics off and Tristan mouthed to rez that Harvey had cheated, so that implies that Rez actually didn’t know when he spoke to Emily
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Tristan is a piece of tit. Always gets involved in everyone’s business and then does that to Emily who’s supposed to be his friend. I’m your friend too. Yeh ok Tristan. He’s happy to push ruby and Rez together at that dinner last season but suddenly will protect Harvey. Dunno why he thinks he’s something

Julius I can’t remember if I kissed her I was exhausted 😳🤢. Such a liar. Glad tabs and Emily can stand up for themselves against these nobheads.

anyone seen miles’ insta post from last night. The dude is buff!!
 
strawberrysunshine_x said:
Tristan is a piece of tit. Always gets involved in everyone’s business and then does that to Emily who’s supposed to be his friend. I’m your friend too. Yeh ok Tristan. He’s happy to push ruby and Rez together at that dinner last season but suddenly will protect Harvey. Dunno why he thinks he’s something

Julius I can’t remember if I kissed her I was exhausted 😳🤢. Such a liar. Glad tabs and Emily can stand up for themselves against these nobheads.

anyone seen miles’ insta post from last night. The dude is buff!!
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I used to think Tristan was one of the good ones. Now he makes my skin crawl.

julius is the literal definition of creep. “She NEEDED ME” ok sure, julius. Well if she was literally homeless then kissing/sleeping with her is even more grotesque because you KNOW she’s vulnerable and depending on you. And wtf is the “don’t remember” crap.

is there something in the water in Chelsea that turns semi decent men into this sickly creepy boy types with zero respect for themselves or women?
 
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