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I'm generally not a Temps fan. I think his friendship choices are hugely questionable, and him taking part in that weird Instagram vid which was clearly aimed at knocking Inga was massively uncool. Him being all over Sam after hating him so voraciously also makes him a bit of a bell end by association. He was also really dismissive of Imogen and dumped her because she called Harvey out on his crappy behaviour during that dinner scene.

I think everyone defaults to blaming Imogen and her hot-headedness, and calling her a bunny boiler etc, because it makes it easy to deflect from what horrible knobs some of these blokes are, and bow shoddily they treat women.

Everyone hails Temps for his supposed gentlemanliness but I think he's shown a lot of double standards based on the two above examples. I don't know the vagaries of his former relationship but I personally don't think he's been hugely respectful of his ex and her memory. As others have pointed out on here, it's almost like she never existed. I wouldn't have known anything about her had someone not mentioned it on here several months back.
 
Musings30 said:
I'm generally not a Temps fan. I think his friendship choices are hugely questionable, and him taking part in that weird Instagram vid which was clearly aimed at knocking Inga was massively uncool. Him being all over Sam after hating him so voraciously also makes him a bit of a bell end by association. He was also really dismissive of Imogen and dumped her because she called Harvey out on his crappy behaviour during that dinner scene.

I think everyone defaults to blaming Imogen and her hot-headedness, and calling her a bunny boiler etc, because it makes it easy to deflect from what horrible knobs some of these blokes are, and bow shoddily they treat women.

Everyone hails Temps for his supposed gentlemanliness but I think he's shown a lot of double standards based on the two above examples. I don't know the vagaries of his former relationship but I personally don't think he's been hugely respectful of his ex and her memory. As others have pointed out on here, it's almost like she never existed. I wouldn't have known anything about her had someone not mentioned it on here several months back.
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Oh deff. I think he just is starting off on the show,wet to it. And already has turned so much. And in comparison to the others he might be a lesser knob.so far. But that really doesn't say alot. The rest are feel cheats and manipulative twats.
He's a dick alot. And is very clever. His job,previous and background was around knowing what sells, what markets and social media sway. He's sly, he knows exactly how to work it. Abd to me you can almost see the smugness of him knowing he's gotnit right. Everyone falling g for it. And he is cleverer than the othersnin the sense he knows how to play it better. Where as the others just feed on their own egos too much to care about acting out.
 
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Laughalong said:
In other news guess Hugo has a gf

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Seriously, what is the big deal about this bloke? He's so average and beige🥴
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katesbess said:
Oh deff. I think he just is starting off on the show,wet to it. And already has turned so much. And in comparison to the others he might be a lesser knob.so far. But that really doesn't say alot. The rest are feel cheats and manipulative twats.
He's a dick alot. And is very clever. His job,previous and background was around knowing what sells, what markets and social media sway. He's sly, he knows exactly how to work it. Abd to me you can almost see the smugness of him knowing he's gotnit right. Everyone falling g for it. And he is cleverer than the othersnin the sense he knows how to play it better. Where as the others just feed on their own egos too much to care about acting out.
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't think he's all that. I mean, yeah, he's nicer than a lot of the other cast but he's not consistent in his supposed standards and morals. Yeah, I'm wary of anyone who's bessies with Miles and his snakey crew. For someone who was so anti-Sam it's very strange that he's now suddenly up his arse!
 
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Seriously, what is the big deal about this bloke? He's so average and beige🥴
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't think he's all that. I mean, yeah, he's nicer than a lot of the other cast but he's not consistent in his supposed standards and morals. Yeah, I'm wary of anyone who's bessies with Miles and his snakey crew. For someone who was so anti-Sam it's very strange that he's now suddenly up his arse!
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The scene when he was speaking in Japanese was so cringe. I would have ran off😂😂
 
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thegoldenhour7 said:
I am not a fan of Hugo at all. I watched the Sydney series and he is a bit of a snake. He tries his luck with all the women and hurts many while doing so. I am not falling for the nice guy act.
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personally i think he's just a bit of an idiot. he's quite young and lacking in awareness generally.

Re temps, idk about you but personally I dont think continuing to his job which happens to be appearing on made in chelsea is disrespectful to an ex. We have no idea how he dealt with this privately, any steps he may have taken, this thread is getting very self righteous and somewhat puritan. What i dislike about Temps pertains to his behaviour on the show - specifically slipping into the Miles role of being every womans bloody protector ... butt out!
 
cahil said:
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personally i think he's just a bit of an idiot. he's quite young and lacking in awareness generally.

Re temps, idk about you but personally I dont think continuing to his job which happens to be appearing on made in chelsea is disrespectful to an ex. We have no idea how he dealt with this privately, any steps he may have taken, this thread is getting very self righteous and somewhat puritan. What i dislike about Temps pertains to his behaviour on the show - specifically slipping into the Miles role of being every womans bloody protector ... butt out!
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I don't think it's self-righteous. We all have opinions and no one's is definitively "right". It's not the matter of Temps appearing on Made in Chelsea, it's the fact he was partying and uploading pics and videos of himself having an uproarious time in the aftermath of her death that came across highly distasteful. Maybe partying was his way of dealing with her death, but I think he should have shown more respect towards her family by not publicly airing that aspect of his life during such a sensitive time. It may well give the impression to them that he doesn't care. Yes, that may not be the case, but that's certainly how I would read the situation if I were in their shoes. That's not even the crux of why I don't particularly like Temps. He's besties with douchebag misogynist Miles and kisses up to various other repugnant people on the show, whilst showing a complete lack of consistency in his supposed moral standards. It's not a good look.
 
They were NOT TOGETHER! I don’t know why some of you are so hell bent on this? I think it’s weird when any celeb is criminalised for not posting tributes when someone they know dies. Why do you have to justify that you’re sad about it to the world? Let alone Temps who is slightly well known at best.

Would you all post for your ex if they died today? I would not. I probably wouldn’t do anything at all. I’m not even sure if I’m supposed to message his family. He’s not part of my life anymore, for a reason. On social media we were “happy” too but he was actually awful to me. I would carry on with my life. I’m better without him.

We don’t even know why they weren’t together! What if she’d cheated? Or was domestically abusive towards him? We haven’t got even an inkling of any of this. He did not need to post, simple as that. He is more than entitled to carry his life on. You also have to consider if it’s appropriate for him to draw attention to her death and if her family would even want him to do that - especially as his role on MIC did also begin then.
 
Laughalong said:
They were NOT TOGETHER! I don’t know why some of you are so hell bent on this? I think it’s weird when any celeb is criminalised for not posting tributes when someone they know dies. Why do you have to justify that you’re sad about it to the world? Let alone Temps who is slightly well known at best.

Would you all post for your ex if they died today? I would not. I probably wouldn’t do anything at all. I’m not even sure if I’m supposed to message his family. He’s not part of my life anymore, for a reason. On social media we were “happy” too but he was actually awful to me. I would carry on with my life. I’m better without him.

We don’t even know why they weren’t together! What if she’d cheated? Or was domestically abusive towards him? We haven’t got even an inkling of any of this. He did not need to post, simple as that. He is more than entitled to carry his life on. You also have to consider if it’s appropriate for him to draw attention to her death and if her family would even want him to do that - especially as his role on MIC did also begin then.
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Defo wouldn’t post about my ex and he’s the father of my only child. Would I shed a tear privately?? Also no 🤣
 
Laughalong said:
They were NOT TOGETHER! I don’t know why some of you are so hell bent on this? I think it’s weird when any celeb is criminalised for not posting tributes when someone they know dies. Why do you have to justify that you’re sad about it to the world? Let alone Temps who is slightly well known at best.

Would you all post for your ex if they died today? I would not. I probably wouldn’t do anything at all. I’m not even sure if I’m supposed to message his family. He’s not part of my life anymore, for a reason. On social media we were “happy” too but he was actually awful to me. I would carry on with my life. I’m better without him.

We don’t even know why they weren’t together! What if she’d cheated? Or was domestically abusive towards him? We haven’t got even an inkling of any of this. He did not need to post, simple as that. He is more than entitled to carry his life on. You also have to consider if it’s appropriate for him to draw attention to her death and if her family would even want him to do that - especially as his role on MIC did also begin then.
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They were together though? He has several videos of them both on TikTok, including ones with her kid. The comments allude to her being his girlfriend, which he has indicated in his responses. Someone else on here mentioned that he was living with her and her kids at one point. That to me would indicate something of a serious former relationship...

There's never going to be a unified opinion on the topic of Temps and his ex, but I don't see the point in getting so passionate about it either way. Everyone is entitled to a view, which is always going to be informed by their own personal values and backgrounds etc, and how they would likely react in the same scenario.

I can understand the viewpoints from different sides, even ones I don't fully agree with - i.e. those who expressed that his lack of mentioning his ex's death is distasteful and those who think he's not under any onus to say anything about it publicly because it's a private matter. As I've said before, my issue is that **I personally** wouldn't be splashing pics of me partying within a short breath of time of my ex passing away. **I personally** find that distasteful. Anyone can disagree with this and it's not something I'd take issue with or get pissed about. I respect their right to have an opinion, even if I don't agree with it.

As above, we all have different personal values and ways of reacting to things. It's entirely relative. I don't know the ins and outs of their relationship and how it ended but it's clear from his TikTok videos and the fact he hasn't removed them, that she was a significant and very special presence in his life at one time.
 
Musings30 said:
They were together though? He has several videos of them both on TikTok, including ones with her kid. The comments allude to her being his girlfriend, which he has indicated in his responses. Someone else on here mentioned that he was living with her and her kids at one point. That to me would indicate something of a serious former relationship...

There's never going to be a unified opinion on the topic of Temps and his ex, but I don't see the point in getting so passionate about it either way. Everyone is entitled to a view, which is always going to be informed by their own personal values and backgrounds etc, and how they would likely react in the same scenario.

I can understand the viewpoints from different sides, even ones I don't fully agree with - i.e. those who expressed that his lack of mentioning his ex's death is distasteful and those who think he's not under any onus to say anything about it publicly because it's a private matter. As I've said before, my issue is that **I personally** wouldn't be splashing pics of me partying within a short breath of time of my ex passing away. **I personally** find that distasteful. Anyone can disagree with this and it's not something I'd take issue with or get pissed about. I respect their right to have an opinion, even if I don't agree with it.

As above, we all have different personal values and ways of reacting to things. It's entirely relative. I don't know the ins and outs of their relationship and how it ended but it's clear from his TikTok videos and the fact he hasn't removed them, that she was a significant and very special presence in his life at one time.
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But what you **personally** would or wouldn’t do is entirely different to what another person might or might not **personally** do. If you say you respect others right to an opinion on what YOU would do then why can’t you afford others the same respect regarding THEIR way of acting/dealing with a situation?
You hashed this all out in back in July - you couldn’t understand his behaviour then and can’t understand it now. Who cares what a stranger to you thinks/does, let it go, you’re way too invested 😂
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Lac1985 said:
But what you **personally** would or wouldn’t do is entirely different to what another person might or might not **personally** do. If you say you respect others right to an opinion on what YOU would do then why can’t you afford others the same respect regarding THEIR way of acting/dealing with a situation?
You hashed this all out in back in July - you couldn’t understand his behaviour then and can’t understand it now. Who cares what a stranger to you thinks/does, let it go, you’re way too invested 😂
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Edited to add - they were together 2 years according to a previous post. He’s young, two years is nothing, life moves on!
 
Musings30 said:
They were together though? He has several videos of them both on TikTok, including ones with her kid. The comments allude to her being his girlfriend, which he has indicated in his responses. Someone else on here mentioned that he was living with her and her kids at one point. That to me would indicate something of a serious former relationship...

There's never going to be a unified opinion on the topic of Temps and his ex, but I don't see the point in getting so passionate about it either way. Everyone is entitled to a view, which is always going to be informed by their own personal values and backgrounds etc, and how they would likely react in the same scenario.

I can understand the viewpoints from different sides, even ones I don't fully agree with - i.e. those who expressed that his lack of mentioning his ex's death is distasteful and those who think he's not under any onus to say anything about it publicly because it's a private matter. As I've said before, my issue is that **I personally** wouldn't be splashing pics of me partying within a short breath of time of my ex passing away. **I personally** find that distasteful. Anyone can disagree with this and it's not something I'd take issue with or get pissed about. I respect their right to have an opinion, even if I don't agree with it.

As above, we all have different personal values and ways of reacting to things. It's entirely relative. I don't know the ins and outs of their relationship and how it ended but it's clear from his TikTok videos and the fact he hasn't removed them, that she was a significant and very special presence in his life at one time.
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I'm sure laughalong meant they werent together when she died
 
cahil said:
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personally i think he's just a bit of an idiot. he's quite young and lacking in awareness generally.

Re temps, idk about you but personally I dont think continuing to his job which happens to be appearing on made in chelsea is disrespectful to an ex. We have no idea how he dealt with this privately, any steps he may have taken, this thread is getting very self righteous and somewhat puritan. What i dislike about Temps pertains to his behaviour on the show - specifically slipping into the Miles role of being every womans bloody protector ... butt out!
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We literally saw him the minutes into and around ger death! He posted many many hours of daily footage. So yes we can almost make a judgement from that I'd say.
And also then,like other make judgements on what else we see.
 
Lac1985 said:
But what you **personally** would or wouldn’t do is entirely different to what another person might or might not **personally** do. If you say you respect others right to an opinion on what YOU would do then why can’t you afford others the same respect regarding THEIR way of acting/dealing with a situation?
You hashed this all out in back in July - you couldn’t understand his behaviour then and can’t understand it now. Who cares what a stranger to you thinks/does, let it go, you’re way too invested 😂
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Edited to add - they were together 2 years according to a previous post. He’s young, two years is nothing, life moves on!
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Last word on this - at the time I first mentioned it, I didn't know the background details. My initial thoughts months ago were sparked by what others had said about their relationship on here, and how much he documented their relationship on social media. That came as a shock to me. On review, yes, I didn't know the full details and perhaps going out and getting wrecked is his way of blocking out his grief. Ultimately I think his ego has hugely inflated since being mates with Miles, which has perhaps dimmed my view on him. I don't rate him like a lot of others do, mainly based on how he treated/binned Imogen under Miles' heavy influence.

I'm not passionate about this subject at all, not sure why it's being said that I am? I've merely been responding to other people's impassioned responses. But yeah, as others have said, I'm bored of it.
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Notaninstamumeither said:
Can we move on from this? I think it’s one of those where we all feel differently and that’s fine. But it is getting a bit tedious…
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Agreed, I'm bored of it.
 
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