StrawberryCream
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Wonder who gets to choose first.. I think ekin su first then antigoni then danica
Wonder who gets to choose first.. I think ekin su first then antigoni then danica
It's up!
Haha love it ekin choosing between her 3 love island exes.Judging by first look, I think Ekin goes first of the last three guys - Davide, Jay and Charlie.
Danica and Charlie definitely going home. If two couples go as it’s before Casa I think Antigoni and Jay or Tasha and Andrew
Tasha has nearly as many votes as Jacques?? Really?? Yes, she is annoying. But he has domestic abuse tendencies.
I can't believe Paige just sat on his lap while he spoke to her like a piece of crap. I would have been off
someone said on the last thread she must’nt have much self respect or self esteem.. but I don’t think it’s that.
I think that being treated like that has been normalised at some point for Paige. And probably for lots of other women, based on the reception Jacques has gotten on social media.
my parents basically brought me up to put their feelings before my own and used guilt and shame if I didn’t do exactly what they wanted. My own wants/needs were pretty much ignored (among other things). So this just became second nature to me growing up and I never questioned it. It’s just how I behaved without thinking. Naturally when I started dating then, my ex using guilt to control me didn’t set off any alarms. That was just the type of behaviour I was used to. I guess I was never taught what self respect looked like, I wasn’t taught that I didn’t have to feel guilty for speaking up for what I wanted.
it took me a few dodgy relationships, a lot of self awareness and a bit of therapy to realise how my parents treatment of me had set me up to fall victim to the type of man Jacques is. I wanted to date nice men, I just didn’t have that behaviour modelled for me so it was like going into the dating world blindfolded.
my older self watching Paige makes me want to scream at the TV. Jaques was so rude and needlessly aggressive in that conversation. her dismissing her feelings is typical of what I used to do. When she finally opens up he treats her like she’s being a brat, instead of what an emotionally healthy man would do; validate her feelings, empathise and offer reassurance.
At least she confronted him on that point. The love of Jacques and Paige as a couple that I’ve seen on other social media just makes me dispair.
im not sure if it was in this forum or on social media but I’m sure I read that someone knew him and couldn’t believe how good the editing was in his favour. I can readily believe he’s worse behind what we’ve seen.
at this point I think the producers have almost an ethical duty to start showing Jacques in his true colours. I’m not sure if they like to involve themselves in the relationships but I also think a therapist should be speaking to Paige to address some of the behaviour Jacques has been exhibiting and how this teeters dangerously close to being abusive.
the real story arc I want to see is Jacques getting access to therapy, realising he has a lot of toxicity that needs addressing and leaving the island to work on his relationship with his anger and how he relates to women. THAT would be a real breakthrough TV moment instead of this endless romanticising of abuse or normalising it for the sake of drama.
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