Love Island 2021 #23

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I find it very sad that some people have normalised abuse in any shape or form. We are all different of course with different opinions and tolerance levels but abuse is abuse and no-one should be subjected to it or think that it is normal to verbally abuse others, how anyone thinks it ok to scream and shout and be abusive to a partner etc is really living a terrible lifestyle. There is a difference between disagreements/arguments and abusive behaviour. 🥴
 
It'll be interesting to see the atmosphere the morning after fayes shouting. In the preview for tonight's it looked like faye was laid in bed with 2 of the girls. I very much doubt she will be remorseful though she probably won't realise the extent of what she's done until she sees the negativity when she leaves the villa.
 
This is the new boy entering tonight his name is also Aaron

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MaidMarion said:
I find it very sad that some people have normalised abuse in any shape or form. We are all different of course with different opinions and tolerance levels but abuse is abuse and no-one should be subjected to it or think that it is normal to verbally abuse others, how anyone thinks it ok to scream and shout and be abusive to a partner etc is really living a terrible lifestyle. There is a difference between disagreements/arguments and abusive behaviour. 🥴
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Of course there is, I’m well aware of that. But can you tell me what consists of abuse in the way Faye behaved on Friday? Granted she was verbally abusive, She was raising her voice, didn’t handle it well and swore a lot but that word gets thrown around like it’s nothing. She’s a twit like and I couldn’t deal with that but I’ve seen far worse on the show, during these season. I’m curious to what people class as abuse.
 
Leo100 said:
It'll be interesting to see the atmosphere the morning after fayes shouting. In the preview for tonight's it looked like faye was laid in bed with 2 of the girls. I very much doubt she will be remorseful though she probably won't realise the extent of what she's done until she sees the negativity when she leaves the villa.
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I’ve not seen the preview but yes I doubt she is remorseful.
However If production hasn’t had the proper talk with her about how she is probably being perceived after Friday’s show then that’s disgraceful, she needs to know this.
Even putting aside the duty of care owed as it is them who are responsible for allowing all of the events of Friday night to happen in first place you would have thought they would be on high alert to get it right.
I have to add that even she has been fully briefed I doubt it will sink in; Faye’s truth is the only truth and those walls ain’t coming down ..
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Of course there is, I’m well aware of that. But can you tell me what consists of abuse in the way Faye behaved on Friday? Granted she was verbally abusive, She was raising her voice, didn’t handle it well and swore a lot but that word gets thrown around like it’s nothing. She’s a twit like and I couldn’t deal with that but I’ve seen far worse on the show, during these season. I’m curious to what people class as abuse.
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My reply wasn't directed to you. It was my general opinion. But you're asking me what consists of abuse with faye then went on to say yourself she was verbally abusive 🤔
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Of course there is, I’m well aware of that. But can you tell me what consists of abuse in the way Faye behaved on Friday? Granted she was verbally abusive, She was raising her voice, didn’t handle it well and swore a lot but that word gets thrown around like it’s nothing. She’s a twit like and I couldn’t deal with that but I’ve seen far worse on the show, during these season. I’m curious to what people class as abuse.
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And I’m curious to know what you’ve seen as far worse on the show, I’m reading it as you mean this season?
I can think of one (in a previous season) and that is Tom’s controlling behaviour in Series 2 but that’s about it.
Genuine question.
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Of course there is, I’m well aware of that. But can you tell me what consists of abuse in the way Faye behaved on Friday? Granted she was verbally abusive, She was raising her voice, didn’t handle it well and swore a lot but that word gets thrown around like it’s nothing. She’s a twit like and I couldn’t deal with that but I’ve seen far worse on the show, during these season. I’m curious to what people class as abuse.
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You've said it there yourself- she was abusive. It's not the first time she's acted like that either, even we know that and we only see a tiny portion of her time in the villa.

I can appreciate that we all have different thresholds for what we personally would tolerate. But we're all out here in the real world where we can leave the premises if someone is upsetting us. The islanders can't do that, they're all locked in there with someone who is verbally abusing them and that's not fair at all, nor is it healthy or safe.
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Of course there is, I’m well aware of that. But can you tell me what consists of abuse in the way Faye behaved on Friday? Granted she was verbally abusive, She was raising her voice, didn’t handle it well and swore a lot but that word gets thrown around like it’s nothing. She’s a twit like and I couldn’t deal with that but I’ve seen far worse on the show, during these season. I’m curious to what people class as abuse.
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You’ve just said it yourself. She was being verbally abusive! That’s all it takes.

I’d personally hate to be stuck in a villa for weeks with someone as explosive as Faye. She can bring the mood down in seconds.
 
Priscilla99 said:
And I’m curious to know what you’ve seen as far worse on the show, I’m reading it as you mean this season?
I can think of one (in a previous season) and that is Tom’s controlling behaviour in Series 2 but that’s about it.
Genuine question.
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Oh yes Tom was definitely really controlling and really clever with it.
I also think Michael was totally gaslighting Amber when the Joanna thing happened, I may think differently looking back but I thought he really showed his true colours in that situation.

Danny for me this season was far worse than Faye. Different league altogether.
I also think Jake is massively playing games, he’s really not stupid and is fully pretending to be the nice guy. I find that so much more manipulative and calculated than someone shouting verbal abuse at people when running on emotion but maybe that’s just me 🤷🏼‍♀️
I don’t want to sound like I’m excusing Fayes behaviour. But I don’t think she’s abusing Teddy. She may have been verbally abusive towards him (and the rest of the villa on Friday!) but there’s a big difference in my eyes.
I’m happy to accept I’m in a minority here though.
 
Doratheexplorer said:
Oh yes Tom was definitely really controlling and really clever with it.
I also think Michael was totally gaslighting Amber when the Joanna thing happened, I may think differently looking back but I thought he really showed his true colours in that situation.

Danny for me this season was far worse than Faye. Different league altogether.
I also think Jake is massively playing games, he’s really not stupid and is fully pretending to be the nice guy. I find that so much more manipulative and calculated than someone shouting verbal abuse at people when running on emotion but maybe that’s just me 🤷🏼‍♀️
I don’t want to sound like I’m excusing Fayes behaviour. But I don’t think she’s abusing Teddy. She may have been verbally abusive towards him (and the rest of the villa on Friday!) but there’s a big difference in my eyes.
I’m happy to accept I’m in a minority here though.
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Thanks.
I’m on board with a lot of what you say, just don’t think they’re far worse than the way Faye behaved. It could be that what you cite we’ve seen similar instances of the same behaviour before .. gaslighting, manipulation etc .. but Faye’s relentless arguing and denying anyone else the chance to speak is new to me. We’ve seen plenty of rows but nothing like that.
Minority opinion, no need to validate, we must all own our posts😀
 
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