Love is Blind #3

[fishyfishfish]

i find Chelsea so hard to watch because a decade ago I was like her. She’s so insecure that nothing Jimmy can do or say will ever change how she feels. She needs to go work in herself. She’s flirting with Trevor in an act of self defence, because she’s so sure Jimmy will leave her that she wants a back up plan.
The gaslighting “you were out partying/was Jess there” tit should have resulted in her being pulled from the show. She needs therapy.

 

[srh.ls.lwlss]

I don’t think Jess and Jimmy is a good match. Jess was on a mission at the meet-up but Jimmy does fancy her physically he knows he can’t commit to being a stepdad. Jess was maybe hoping for more, but Jimmy was very gentlemanly

Chelsea Loved the attention from Trevor! I don’t like how she blurted out about the other couple being the top couple too. For some reason Jimmy seems invested in her. I don’t find her very sincere or stable.

Ugh to Jeremay he is horrid and I admire Laura for how she stood up to him. He isn’t even a great catch! Him and Sarah can conspire in the open nw. Jeremay had already packed her stuff! hole.

AD was ace with Sarah! Go girl! But Clay is not for her. He will cheat for sure.

I didn’t know most of the Pod Squad!

Bizarre how Jimmy seemed to get annoyed at the top couple comment. They were nearly broken up a few days before this party so how could they be the top couple?!? And her backtracking what she actually meant to pacify him.

 

[MarshMallowMonster]

I know! I feel like Jimmy does care about Chelsea and is really trying. But I hope they split up Jimmy seems kind of decent.

I hope Jeremay and Sarah meanwhile split up and hate each other!

 

[SaLou]

Chelsea would make any man's life hell. It would be nothing but stress and arguments caused by her paranoia and insecurities. Jimmy needs to get away from her fast. I really don't know what he sees in her.

 

[fishyfishfish]

The only person Jess loves is herself. Spent the entire chat with Jimmy fixing her hair and smacking her lips.

 

[0121doone]

i find Chelsea so hard to watch because a decade ago I was like her. She’s so insecure that nothing Jimmy can do or say will ever change how she feels. She needs to go work in herself. She’s flirting with Trevor in an act of self defence, because she’s so sure Jimmy will leave her that she wants a back up plan.
The gaslighting “you were out partying/was Jess there” tit should have resulted in her being pulled from the show. She needs therapy.

sorry to derail - how did you manage to get out of that mindset? I was like her when I was in a relationship from 19-22. 27 now and haven't been in a serious relationship since through fear of being that way! I've had a lot of therapy since so hoping it was half my own issues (Which hopefully have been healed) and half just my age back then

 

[fishyfishfish]

sorry to derail - how did you manage to get out of that mindset? I was like her when I was in a relationship from 19-22. 27 now and haven't been in a serious relationship since through fear of being that way! I've had a lot of therapy since so hoping it was half my own issues (Which hopefully have been healed) and half just my age back then

Spoilering my reply as not everyone will care how Chelsea could change her ways

Spoiler: I was a stage five clinger

lots of therapy, time on my own and figuring out what was important to me. Weirdly it took being with someone who I couldn’t trust for good reason (he betrayed me) to get me to rock bottom to build myself back up. I think the reason it changed things was because it was like a switch was flipped: I realised there was a huge difference between FEELING I couldn’t trust someone and KNOWING I couldn’t. I was treating everyone like I KNEW I couldn’t trust them which was completely unfair on them and doing me no favours. Also…I got over the betrayal. So the worst happened and I managed to get over it!

 

[GossWhore]

I didn’t know most of the Pod Squad!

When Chelsea said "Mackenzie told me" I googled and I'm still like

 

[0121doone]

Spoilering my reply as not everyone will care how Chelsea could change her ways

Spoiler: I was a stage five clinger

lots of therapy, time on my own and figuring out what was important to me. Weirdly it took being with someone who I couldn’t trust for good reason (he betrayed me) to get me to rock bottom to build myself back up. I think the reason it changed things was because it was like a switch was flipped: I realised there was a huge difference between FEELING I couldn’t trust someone and KNOWING I couldn’t. I was treating everyone like I KNEW I couldn’t trust them which was completely unfair on them and doing me no favours. Also…I got over the betrayal. So the worst happened and I managed to get over it!

Thank you for your reply!! sorry you had to go through all that and glad you we're able to get passed it. Maybe I need to throw myself into dating more. My old therapist did tell me that I should treat my dates/situationships like social experiments haha

 

[Greasepaint]

Chelsea shouldn’t be on this show. She’s needy, weak and a pain. She acts 18 not 31. Good lord how did she pass psych evaluation?

 

[SloaneRanger]

What is with Johnny and the whole contraception thing? Talking about a vasectomy because Amy is won’t go on the pill?!

 

[Jennytea]

Chelsea shouldn’t be on this show. She’s needy, weak and a pain. She acts 18 not 31. Good lord how did she pass psych evaluation?

Exactly. It’s the fact she isn’t even young and inexperienced and she has been married before!! Clearly hasn’t learned anything from past relationships.

 

[0121doone]

What is with Johnny and the whole contraception thing? Talking about a vasectomy because Amy is won’t go on the pill?!

I don't think he was ever pushing her to be on the pill. I think he doesn't have 100% trust in condoms. She also mentioned on her instagram that she has a rare genetic condition that will affect her children so they wanted to be sure there wasn't a premature pregnancy because of this.

 

[MarshMallowMonster]

I wonder if Johnny had a pregnancy scare at some point or else has a child already? He seems very fearful!

 

[50sGirl]

What is with Johnny and the whole contraception thing? Talking about a vasectomy because Amy is won’t go on the pill?!

I posted earlier that I can’t believe that he thought he could have a vasectomy and then have it reversed when they want children!

 

[SloaneRanger]

I don't think he was ever pushing her to be on the pill. I think he doesn't have 100% trust in condoms. She also mentioned on her instagram that she has a rare genetic condition that will affect her children so they wanted to be sure there wasn't a premature pregnancy because of this.

I didn’t say he was pushing her to be on it. I am just shocked that condoms seem to have not been mentioned. It’s as if he has never heard of them! Talking about such extreme lengths like a vasectomy, mate just go to the chemist and get some condoms it’s not that difficult?!

 

[Jennytea]

I posted earlier that I can’t believe that he thought he could have a vasectomy and then have it reversed when they want children!

I was so confused when they both mentioned the vasectomy after saying they eventually want kids. Wtf? I also think it’s unfair it is mostly put on the woman to just happily volunteer to mess with her hormones. It has been so normalised for women to just go straight on contraception but it isn’t talked about enough how much contraception can mess with you!

 

[SaLou]

I wonder if Johnny had a pregnancy scare at some point or else has a child already? He seems very fearful!

I wondered if he is anti abortion which could be making him more wary about risking a pregnancy.
It is bizarre though.

 

[ChatChar]

Not sure if this has already been discussed but I’m really intrigued how the British version of LIB will go.

I just can’t see them being as soppy / declaring their love after 5 seconds (especially the men!)

 

[mozzarellagirl]

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Ah yes the lady who enjoys urinating in showers and public pools.