Lisa Colhoun one small step

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lucy66

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Been following Lisa for couple years but have found her so annoying past few months. She’s forever coming “on for a chat “. She rambles on and on saying same thing over and over. Loves looking at herself, putting on slap if make up and doing her hair and going nowhere. Her husband dying was awful. Mine died years ago and I had young children also. But I never went on the way she does, she’s exploiting those young girls, forcing them to have memories that they don’t have. I heard social services had to step in last year as someone reported her to them. She’s not a bad mum but the way she goes on about being a teacher and doing all this educational stuff with girls....isn’t she just amazing!!!! She’s a pure head melt in my eyes 🤮
 
Have also been following for a couple of years and have had many thoughts over that time.
I have a friend who was in an eerily similar situation at the same time Lisa lost her husband. To say their grief process is different is an understatement. I never could and still can’t get my head around the idea of recording yourself crying and posting it on the internet for thousands of people to see...there is obviously a genre of people out there who get a hard on for grief and Lisa supplied that porn on the daily. She came across as very immature (I no longer follow, just dip in and out) and attention seeking. I remember seeing a photo of her husbands funeral and she was holding an enlarged photo of him up against the coffin while it was being carried to the graveyard...I don’t know why but it made me so uncomfortable!! My heart goes out to the two children...they were so young at the time they would have no memory of him which is devastating but Lisa forcing her memories on them and forcing the children to grieve a person they never knew is disturbing. I actually don’t believe her when she says they cry for him...if they do, that’s a behaviour being encouraged by her...she’s a young woman with two beautiful girls and their lives ahead of them. But she seems determined to live in the past and wallow in what could have been. I have never been through what she has but as a close support to my friend who has, I know there is light and hope but Lisa doesn’t want to see it.
 
But I don’t think they would remember him?
Of course she wants the children to know they had a Dad and what he looked like and all the stories of them together for however short a time that was. But I feel she’s trying to make him part of their every day life. Again, I’m not a day to day follower so maybe things have improved a bit.
 
girltee225 said:
I dont believe that she is forcing memories, of course you would want your children to remember their daddy, why would you not??
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There’s a healthy balance of looking back and looking ahead. Children are resilient and of course they should have photos and talks about their daddy but Lisa takes it to a whole new level. Graces wee face few weeks ago when she found a feather on ground. She looked totally confused. Lisa’s reaction to Barney the dinosaur was ridiculous yesterday, she’s so immature at times. I just wish she’d put her phone away and stop the long winded meaningless “chats” and move on with her life.
 
Her brother took Grace to school today, she wondered would people think it was a daddy/daughter???? It’s a small local playgroup in rural community, people know who you are Lisa, they certainly know Grace as you’ve her plastered all over your IG so people know it’s not a daddy/daughter relationship. Get real Lisa!!!
 
I find her stories very hard to take sometimes. They are just sooo heavy. It’s a constant rhetoric. Tears and more tears. The most bizarre thing I ever heard her say (more than once) was that she never wants to meet anyone new for the rest of her life, doesn’t want to give up Christopher, would feel wrong loving someone else. Like I get that she clearly adored him and loved him like nothing else, but if I was widowed in my 30s, the thought of maybe living to my 90s alone would be so bleak.
 
What is she like up dancing on the footstool and recording herself on the phone 🤣🤣🤣. Go away and wash the uniforms that you never have ready on a Monday morning ...a pure dose😡
 
Posing in her swimsuit yesterday and then complaining how hard it was going to pool with 2 kids. Get a grip Lisa. I did it with 4!!
What happened to her trip to Belfast for IG work?? Probably lies. Her spelling and grammar in her coffee thoughts are atrocious for someone who’s a teacher. Christopher was undoubtedly a lovely person and deserves a cabin in his honour but that one will bask in all the glory today 😡
 
lucy66 said:
Posing in her swimsuit yesterday and then complaining how hard it was going to pool with 2 kids. Get a grip Lisa. I did it with 4!!
What happened to her trip to Belfast for IG work?? Probably lies. Her spelling and grammar in her coffee thoughts are atrocious for someone who’s a teacher. Christopher was undoubtedly a lovely person and deserves a cabin in his honour but that one will bask in all the glory today 😡
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Yeah true, it’s really bad, I find her texts hard to read because there are so many mistakes.
 
There is no denying what she has achieved today (obviously along with the help of many others) is magical.. to make something so special that many many kids will benefit from is amazing and I’m sure he’s very proud of her tonight... if greedy Gorry put her time in to something like this instead of the 500 per week hauls she does it would benefit her a lot more...!
 
Dusty2020 said:
There is no denying what she has achieved today (obviously along with the help of many others) is magical.. to make something so special that many many kids will benefit from is amazing and I’m sure he’s very proud of her tonight... if greedy Gorry put her time in to something like this instead of the 500 per week hauls she does it would benefit her a lot more...!
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Yes it was a lovely tribute to her husband. I believe he was indeed a genuinely nice person. I had to unfollow Gorry, the hauls, the chain rubbing, exploiting those wee girls was too much to watch. But I feel if Lisa got the hauls she wouldn’t be far behind Gorry, they both just love themselves.
 
The cabin is amazing!! Such a lovely tribute and I have no doubt her husband will be so proud of what has been accomplished! I do agree what people are saying here.. getting very full of herself! All this bit of posing and flaunting her body off! But did anyone see her story there with the wee girl talking about the cabin? I feel like she encourages them girls to grief with her because she is still grieving! If they are content in their own wee everyday lives I would let it stay that way rather than bring a sad topic up to them!
 
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