Jessy Nelson - Odd One Out

1 Sort by date Sort by reaction score 2
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
 
Thetruth123 said:
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
Click to expand...

Totally agree! She’s such a beg!
 
Thetruth123 said:
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
Click to expand...
I agree.
 
Thetruth123 said:
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
Click to expand...

i was searching for her thread to write the same thing!!

She is so annoying now, I was liking her after the documentary but now she is just taking the piss,like she knows people won’t say anything or they will be thrown to the wolves.

Sick of her constantly posting pics of her showing off her ‘abs’ .. if you have to suck it in so much its not abs love
 
I unfollowed her after watching the documentary. For some reason it rubbed me up the wrong way and I felt so sorry for her mother.

I also felt sorry for the other girls, clearly jesy has issues, I dont deny her that, but the re recording songs and videos because she's not happy must take its toll on them all. And when they had abuse for posting a picture with jesy cropped out. its because jesy refused to share the picture because she didnt like the way she looked. They all must be trying their best to help her. But she poses selfies like lauren goodger, to hide the insecurities and then people dont realise how bad she's suffering.
 
I like little mix. But have you now all noticed they’re now shoving Leigh-Anne down our throats? Issues because of her race apparently. Patiently awaiting her documentary...
 
I didn't watch the documentary but heard and read the general theme of it. My daughter loves little mix but I didn't let her watch it as I just didn't see how there could be a positive message from it.

Don't like your face, people bully you for your face and figure and her solution was to buy a new face and figure 🙄

Also I finally gave in after years of pestering and took my 11 year old to see them last November. I had a reasonably good evening but it felt very much like the Jesse show and for somebody who is supposedly so unconfident in her appearance her outfit was the smallest and skimpiest for every costume change ??
 
Keiffers pipe said:
I didn't watch the documentary but heard and read the general theme of it. My daughter loves little mix but I didn't let her watch it as I just didn't see how there could be a positive message from it.

Don't like your face, people bully you for your face and figure and her solution was to buy a new face and figure 🙄

Also I finally gave in after years of pestering and took my 11 year old to see them last November. I had a reasonably good evening but it felt very much like the Jesse show and for somebody who is supposedly so unconfident in her appearance her outfit was the smallest and skimpiest for every costume change ??
Click to expand...
So in a way the bullies won because she changed her face& body.
 
coconochanel said:
So in a way the bullies won because she changed her face& body.
Click to expand...


Well yes they did which is heartbreaking, as an adult I also think I can process how severe and unnecessary the online abuse and how desperate Jessie must have felt to go to the lengths she did to change how she looks. But I am not sure how it would translate to my 11 year old , hence me not letting her watch it, as I don't think the outcome or message in the end was positive.

I want her to have an understanding and awareness about things written online and negative effects ... But I also don't want her to ever think she is not good enough or not pretty enough to resort to drastic surgery.
 
Keiffers pipe said:
Well yes they did which is heartbreaking, as an adult I also think I can process how severe and unnecessary the online abuse and how desperate Jessie must have felt to go to the lengths she did to change how she looks. But I am not sure how it would translate to my 11 year old , hence me not letting her watch it, as I don't think the outcome or message in the end was positive.

I want her to have an understanding and awareness about things written online and negative effects ... But I also don't want her to ever think she is not good enough or not pretty enough to resort to drastic surgery.
Click to expand...
she also looked better before the surgery which is sad.
 
coconochanel said:
she also looked better before the surgery which is sad.
Click to expand...
Yes she was very pretty before, and they were so young on X factor too, I think it probably normal to have not been fully confident in your looks and figure at that age.

I find all the pop stars and reality stars now look so much older than their true age due to fillers , Botox, minor surgery work and caked on contoured, highlighted make up. I am always shocked when I get reminded of their ages , some of them in their early twenties. No such thing as youthful fresh faced beauty anymore 😭
 
Keiffers pipe said:
Also I finally gave in after years of pestering and took my 11 year old to see them last November. I had a reasonably good evening but it felt very much like the Jesse show and for somebody who is supposedly so unconfident in her appearance her outfit was the smallest and skimpiest for every costume change ??
Click to expand...
I agree! I went to see them in November too and me and my friend both commented on how she had the smallest, skimpiest, sexiest outfits! All the Jesy show 100%
 
Thetruth123 said:
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
Click to expand...
I don't know much about her but I have body dysmorphic disorder and taking selfies/posing/getting photographs taken etc. are all symptoms of BDD, usually done for validation. It's a damaging habit but it's one I have. I take a LOT of selfies. I used to post them all the time but thankfully I don't feel the need to do that now but I still take them daily for some kind of self validation even though it just makes me feel worse.

And if she does have BDD she may have on some level enjoyed the trolling. I don't get that upset when people say negative things about my appearance because it makes me feel validated in believing I'm hideous. If that makes sense. It's a horrible disorder. If she truly has it then I feel for her.

That said, I don't know much about her as a person. But this behaviour could be indicative of BDD if that's what she genuinely has. It could also be general attention seeking behaviour though too but with BDD it does have a different cause.
 
Thetruth123 said:
Okay this is probably a really unpopular opinion but she is getting on my nerves, for someone who is insecure and has anxiety etc, she loves posing half naked in the media daily!!!!!!!! I’m sorry but to go from how she was in odd one out to now parading herself constantly in the media especially after her breakup just pisses me off!!! What kind of example is this to young girls!! I’m sorry but I have always thought she was just milking the trolling and making it sound worse than it was!! Either get the help you need or bore off with your endless soft porn selfies and empowering quotes 👌🏼
Click to expand...

I cannot STAND her! Nothing but an attention seeker. I’m starting to think she’s paying the daily mail to post her ridiculous pictures everyday.
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
Back
Top