James and Maeva Made in Chelsea

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Phil Anne Throw Pee said:
The responsibility is on both man and woman to sort out contraception.
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Yeah but if someone says they’re on the pill it’s ‘sorted’ right? What is the man meant to do in a committed relationship, ask every time if they’re still on the pill 😂 for a casual relationship though I totally agree, a woman getting pregnant when contraception hasn’t been discussed is both their faults, defo not just the woman’s
 
soph30 said:
Yeah but if someone says they’re on the pill it’s ‘sorted’ right? What is the man meant to do in a committed relationship, ask every time if they’re still on the pill 😂 for a casual relationship though I totally agree, a woman getting pregnant when contraception hasn’t been discussed is both their faults, defo not just the woman’s
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I guess so. He's such a twit though I want to blame him.
 
It was clear as day Maeva was desperate for a baby. If he didn’t want a baby he should have taken responsibility for his own contraception regardless of anything else. I think if the contraception ‘roles’ were reversed, women would not be leaving it just to men no matter how much we trust them!

He knows as much as the rest of us that Maeva would just go get whatever she wants. So I don’t agree he’s been baby trapped at all, this is 50% his responsibility too but it’s too easy to solely blame Maeva for it.
 
Tofino said:
It was clear as day Maeva was desperate for a baby. If he didn’t want a baby he should have taken responsibility for his own contraception regardless of anything else. I think if the contraception ‘roles’ were reversed, women would not be leaving it just to men no matter how much we trust them!

He knows as much as the rest of us that Maeva would just go get whatever she wants. So I don’t agree he’s been baby trapped at all, this is 50% his responsibility too but it’s too easy to solely blame Maeva for it.
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If he didn’t want a baby he should have taken responsibility for his own contraception regardless of anything else- so he shouldn’t trust that his partner is telling the truth when she says she’s on the pill or coil? I mean I know it’s only 99% effective or whatever but that’s a big percentage. I think going into a relationship knowing that your partner could well lie about an issue isn’t great.

however I defs agree that men would moan a lot more if they had to deal with what we do in regards to contraception! Can’t wait for the male pill ;)
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And I’m not suggesting that if it WAS an accident it’s anything other than both their faults.
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Not M’s fault just cos she’s the one who takes the thing that failed
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Wonder why M wanted a baby so much anyway? She doesn’t seem that maternal and it’s not like she has a big family, seems to be just her and her mum
 
soph30 said:
If he didn’t want a baby he should have taken responsibility for his own contraception regardless of anything else- so he shouldn’t trust that his partner is telling the truth when she says she’s on the pill or coil? I mean I know it’s only 99% effective or whatever but that’s a big percentage. I think going into a relationship knowing that your partner could well lie about an issue isn’t great.

however I defs agree that men would moan a lot more if they had to deal with what we do in regards to contraception! Can’t wait for the male pill ;)
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And I’m not suggesting that if it WAS an accident it’s anything other than both their faults.
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Not M’s fault just cos she’s the one who takes the thing that failed
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Wonder why M wanted a baby so much anyway? She doesn’t seem that maternal and it’s not like she has a big family, seems to be just her and her mum
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I guess I think that taking responsibility for yourself doesn’t mean you don’t have to trust someone. If I don’t want a baby then it’s my responsibility and nobody else’s.

And I know that is partly because I’m a woman so pregnancy would impact me more than it would a man, but that’s one of the issues really isn’t it. Men can easily walk away or just blame the woman for trapping. Rather than society holding men accountable for not taking responsibility themselves. For contraception or children.

Maeva had shown plenty of untrustworthy behaviour throughout their relationship anyway.
 
Can’t even cope with her putting up a video of Jems in the bath with Beau and seeing his c***.

what the actual.

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AbnormalFrog said:
Omg why would she post that 😕 that poor little boy. There needs to be laws in place about sharing your kids online. I wouldn't dream of putting videos of my kids in the bath online and I'm a nobody. God why are these z listers so thick!!
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^ YOU ARE NOT A NOBODY!

You're a very special person who clearly has values, morals, ethics, INTEGRITY, LOVE and PROTECTION over your children and family.

Those who post for all the world to see (of their children) are the nobodys of the world, they have no desire to protect their offspring and keep them safe from unsavoury strangers on the web.
 
JulesWake said:
^ YOU ARE NOT A NOBODY!

You're a very special person who clearly has values, morals, ethics, INTEGRITY, LOVE and PROTECTION over your children and family.

Those who post for all the world to see (of their children) are the nobodys of the world, they have no desire to protect their offspring and keep them safe from unsavoury strangers on the web.
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Aww thank you! You're a sweetheart 🥰
 
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