James and Maeva Made in Chelsea

[bananabutter]

The latest story James has put up, Maeva looks like she actually hates her baby, what a bloody shame

She can’t stand being a mum it’s so obvious. If only she could have seen that video before she put so much pressure on James to settle down and have a baby with her…

 

[Gillybean42]

She is actually fuming isn’t she? Bet she’s even more fuming with James for filming her instead of helping! She’s a dick coz she would rather the child not be there and she can go out like she used to. But he’s a dick for being entertained by the video and posting it! That poor kid deserves so much better!

 

[Pumpkin84]

Poor little lad isn't even really doing anything to justify that from her, wait until he hits the toddler years, how is she gonna cope with that? She's vile, and those hair extensions look tit

 

[Debsi]

I think she is realising that it is harder than she thought and the investment is non stop when you are a mom. She is also realising that her hubby to be, might not be that rich or he would have hired a nanny to help her and they wouldn't live that far from London (which she hates)

 

[Tofino]

She’s said in the past that Beau has always been a good sleeper (which I believe because I think we would be hearing A LOT if he wasn’t). So they probably got really lucky when he was a younger baby, being able to take him to restaurants and him just nap away peacefully. Now he’s getting older and more mobile there is a lot more interesting things to do than sleep especially in a noisy restaurant! They are in for a shock with this next phase, he’s not going to be as easy to take places (as in, he’s not just going to just fall asleep easily and leave them to it!)

 

[charlied0106]

Exactly. It's a noisy, busy, new place, he's curious and too interested in what's going on around him now. Shoving him in a pram in the corner just won't work now.

 

[Phalaenopsis101]

Has anyone noticed how beau never seems to give any eye contact ? Always seems to be looking the other way in videos

 

[Intothedark]

Beau is probably looking at the camera shoved in his face.

I think she was probably hacked off at not being able to sit down and that James was filming whilst she was left trying to sort Beau.

 

[Funny_crab]

I don’t follow them - what is the video?

 

[clmay]

I agree. That face was definitely directed at James!

 

[Funny_crab]

Just found it. To be honest if I didn’t know about how they’re constantly dumping the baby to go on holiday, I’d just assume that was a new mother at her wits end/ overwhelmed/ needing help but the context is that this is Maeva…
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I think there’s a lot of parallels with Molly Mae and how she is with Bambi, to be honest. A baby is an earthquake for some people, it’s really hard to adjust to the lack of freedom and how hard it is. It’s far from beautiful pictures of serene scenes of snoozing next to your baby on Instagram. The constant avoidance to actually parent is very similar.

 

[soph30]

We should save the video here, don’t know how to do it but

 

[soph30]

@Tofino you know how right?

 

[mariiii]

Could only upload half of it but you get the idea.

 

[Tofino]

This is it in full

 

[clmay]

If looks could kill Jems would be a dead man

 

[Phalaenopsis101]

The way she rips his dummy from his hand

 

[Belleboo]

Why does she look like she’s never held a baby before?

 

[mariiii]

Why does she look like she’s never held a baby before?

To be fair to her he is probably quite heavy at this point and is trying to turn away to see everything else that’s interesting rather than fall asleep and I remember being in the same situation and must have looked like I’ve never held my own baby before because they’re squirming so hard to get away from you. But Jesus the hatred in her eyes!!!

 

[jessica191]

I had to come on and comment after reading this thread for some time. I am a first time mum, young baby and it’s not easy. I’m sure there will be times I wish for my old life back.

I am also a social worker and work with children and adults that have experienced early life trauma and attachment issues.

The way these two leave their child, give off the impression he is a massive inconvenience to their lives, the way they speak to him and about him is something he is going to pick up on.I really worry for his emotional health as he grows older. It doesn’t appear that these two are very emotionally available to him and it’s very sad.

The video yesterday with maeva rocking him quite aggressively and clearly being pissed off was actually a bit shocking and the fact that they both shared it shows that of them have any awareness of how it might be impacting on him.

James’ video of them playing a board game whilst baby is sat in his play pen and then he shuts the door on him and he doesn’t even react isn’t normal. Most children would cry or be worried about not being able to see their parents. He didn’t react at all. I find it odd that you’d call the play pen a prison and close the door and say bye as if you’re trapping him in.

They are beyond selfish and this is from someone that cried when I found out I was pregnant because I worried about the life I was saying goodbye to. I have no doubt it is hard but she doesn’t work, they have money, they have a nice life and a beautiful healthy child and all she bangs on about is her post partum body being fat and ruined (fat from it) and her hair being crap.

I liked her once. He is a nob.